Advice on a review

[hofanatic]

After getting out of long term a relationship and soloing for a while I decided that it was time to go out and meet a SP the other week.

Well it wasn't the best experience at the time and even more now. I haven't wrote a review yet on the SP yet and wasn't initially planning on it but now I was thinking about adding one and the best way to approach it before I do, and the account I would use to do so.

It turns out that I got chlamydia from the meet up making it an even worst experience. I had a BBBJ, did not partake in BBFS, which was offered and should have been my sign to walk away.

Should I include that in the review? What are everyone's thoughts?

As I see she is still actively advertising services since I meet up.

Stay safe boys!

 

[cameraboy]

After getting out of long term a relationship and soloing for a while I decided that it was time to go out and meet a SP the other week.

Well it wasn't the best experience at the time and even more now. I haven't wrote a review yet on the SP yet and wasn't initially planning on it but now I was thinking about adding one and the best way to approach it before I do, and the account I would use to do so.

It turns out that I got chlamydia from the meet up making it an even worst experience. I had a BBBJ, did not partake in BBFS, which was offered and should have been my sign to walk away.

Should I include that in the review? What are everyone's thoughts?

As I see she is still actively advertising services since I meet up.

Stay safe boys!

Check to see if there are any reviews of her here. You can add your experience to another review. If you post a review and mention you caught something or were offered a very unsafe service it will likely get removed by the moderator.

 

[RebelinBed]

After getting out of long term a relationship and soloing for a while I decided that it was time to go out and meet a SP the other week.

Well it wasn't the best experience at the time and even more now. I haven't wrote a review yet on the SP yet and wasn't initially planning on it but now I was thinking about adding one and the best way to approach it before I do, and the account I would use to do so.

It turns out that I got chlamydia from the meet up making it an even worst experience. I had a BBBJ, did not partake in BBFS, which was offered and should have been my sign to walk away.

Should I include that in the review? What are everyone's thoughts?

As I see she is still actively advertising services since I meet up.

Stay safe boys!

Please post your review or add it to another one if one already exists. The more info there is here on the board, the better it is for all of us. Regardless of whether that info is positive, negative, or average. Plus, the more info you provide, the more inclined many of us will be to provide you with more info in return. Also, if that's offered or even implied, never go.

Check to see if there are any reviews of her here. You can add your experience to another review. If you post a review and mention you caught something or were offered a very unsafe service it will likely get removed by the moderator.

I don't believe mentioning STIs is a problem but mentioning unsafe service is. I haven't read the TOS in a while.

 

[bob.man]

At the very least, it would be good to know which sp, so we could avoid, and no one else has to go through the pains you have had to endure.

We are all in this together.

I wish you would have gone and seen one of the ones that post on the forums here like Ashlee.

 

[Enterprising1]

You sound like a reasonable guy and it is safe to assume that you created this profile so that you can share your experience, hence the question.
In which you essentially let the cat out of the bag, so to speak, already.
There are many great reviews on these forums by experienced members that would be an easy guide to follow.

The who, communication, location, services vs services offered, your objective as possible opinion on the experience etc.
Whatever other narrative you believe is important.
That you believe you caught something or that there are forbidden services being pitched are up to you to reveal, although you already have.

 

[kherg007]

For sure tell the woman so she can get treatment. Don't blame, just frame it as everyone's health and you have it so she needs to seek treatment. If you go in blaming she might just get defensive, block you, and pass that along to others.

 

[hofanatic]

For sure tell the woman so she can get treatment. Don't blame, just frame it as everyone's health and you have it so she needs to seek treatment. If you go in blaming she might just get defensive, block you, and pass that along to others.

I did go this route as she might not be having any symptoms and doesn't even know yet. I haven't got a reply yet.

I will hold of with the review for now as it would indicate who it was, even if I did leave that portion out, but if she does post a new ad I might change that decision.

Thank you to everyone for your advice.

 

[Mikediamond]

Ugh, this is kinda worrisome. Thank goodness it’s only chlamydia…..but assuming you’re sure it came from her it would be nice to know whom it is. That being said, I’m unfamiliar with the forum etiquette on these matters.

 

[taker2ez]

After getting out of long term a relationship and soloing for a while I decided that it was time to go out and meet a SP the other week.

Well it wasn't the best experience at the time and even more now. I haven't wrote a review yet on the SP yet and wasn't initially planning on it but now I was thinking about adding one and the best way to approach it before I do, and the account I would use to do so.

It turns out that I got chlamydia from the meet up making it an even worst experience. I had a BBBJ, did not partake in BBFS, which was offered and should have been my sign to walk away.

Should I include that in the review? What are everyone's thoughts?

As I see she is still actively advertising services since I meet up.

Stay safe boys!

the whole purpose of this site to post reviews.
if you have had a dangerous situation then you need to be forthcoming especially if it's a health issue

I think you just might be looking for attention.

 

[foxxxy lady]

After getting out of long term a relationship and soloing for a while I decided that it was time to go out and meet a SP the other week.

Well it wasn't the best experience at the time and even more now. I haven't wrote a review yet on the SP yet and wasn't initially planning on it but now I was thinking about adding one and the best way to approach it before I do, and the account I would use to do so.

It turns out that I got chlamydia from the meet up making it an even worst experience. I had a BBBJ, did not partake in BBFS, which was offered and should have been my sign to walk away.

Should I include that in the review? What are everyone's thoughts?

As I see she is still actively advertising services since I meet up.

Stay safe boys!

You must post the name if the provider you meet with did infact give you this STD so other S.P dont get blamed for something they have not done. The provider then can go check herself out and prove her inoocence or guilt. She can make sure that she did acrually see you and this is not a lame attempt at playing games on a review board that seems to happen every now and then. If it is true she can get herself checked out. Just my 2 cents. Gossip can hurt . The truth needs to come out

 

[Sonic Temple]

I did go this route as she might not be having any symptoms and doesn't even know yet. I haven't got a reply yet.

I will hold of with the review for now as it would indicate who it was, even if I did leave that portion out, but if she does post a new ad I might change that decision.

Thank you to everyone for your advice.

WTH mate - you created a profile like @Enterprising1 mentioned. Share the details - as you are helping everyone.

 

[foxxxy lady]

WTH mate - you created a profile like @Enterprising1 mentioned. Share the details - as you are helping everyone.

A profile does not always mean someone is legit that I had problems with simeobe doing that to me because I told him a bng is not a .5 hour session , some guys even have multiple handles ( I had a client tell me her wrote 100 's of reviews for an agency and he had not even seen any of them ) I don't see him anymore he has more handle then class. If this person can name the S.P this is helpful to warn guts but also to make sure its not a way to smear someones reputation. If the S.P did see the client and infact has the STI she can get treatment and stop spreading the STI or the rumours can stop being spread.

 

[Jenesis]

I don't believe mentioning STIs is a problem but mentioning unsafe service is. I haven't read the TOS in a while.

It is because we only have the “word” of the reviewer. We don’t know if it is true or not and there have been too many times where a guy has lied just to smear a girl.

I’m NOT saying that is the case here but this is why the general rule is to not allow it.

 

[Jenesis]

After getting out of long term a relationship and soloing for a while I decided that it was time to go out and meet a SP the other week.

Well it wasn't the best experience at the time and even more now. I haven't wrote a review yet on the SP yet and wasn't initially planning on it but now I was thinking about adding one and the best way to approach it before I do, and the account I would use to do so.

It turns out that I got chlamydia from the meet up making it an even worst experience. I had a BBBJ, did not partake in BBFS, which was offered and should have been my sign to walk away.

Should I include that in the review? What are everyone's thoughts?

As I see she is still actively advertising services since I meet up.

Stay safe boys!

You can write a new review and ask to be PMed for extra important details. This way you can get the word out to guys who are responsible enough in this hobby to do further investigation and you are not breaking any rules.

You say things like " the forbidden was offered and even though I didn't take it, consequences from other activities were suffered, please PM for more details".

Write that in the middle of your review somewhere. Most guys will get the hint.

Good luck.

 

[hofanatic]

The STI would have come from her unless, I miraculously got it from a toilet seat or doorknob within the same timeframe.

As mentioned I have messaged the SP as she might not be having any symptoms and did even know yet. I still haven't got a reply yet. However there isn't a relisted/new ad since I have reached out to her.

So because of that I am going to give her the benefit of the doubt and wait before posting any review of her as that will indicate who it was, or directly naming the provider as she may now is seeking treatment.

Now if she does post a new ad or relist a current ad I will name the provider.

 

[S416905]

The STI would have come from her unless, I miraculously got it from a toilet seat or doorknob within the same timeframe.

As mentioned I have messaged the SP as she might not be having any symptoms and did even know yet. I still haven't got a reply yet. However there isn't a relisted/new ad since I have reached out to her.

So because of that I am going to give her the benefit of the doubt and wait before posting any review of her as that will indicate who it was, or directly naming the provider as she may now is seeking treatment.

Now if she does post a new ad or relist a current ad I will name the provider.

just because she doesn't post an ad doesn't mean she's not working

 

[imaan2k]

I did go this route as she might not be having any symptoms and doesn't even know yet. I haven't got a reply yet.

I will hold of with the review for now as it would indicate who it was, even if I did leave that portion out, but if she does post a new ad I might change that decision.

Thank you to everyone for your advice.

You're not very bright are you?

 

[RebelinBed]

It is because we only have the “word” of the reviewer. We don’t know if it is true or not and there have been too many times where a guy has lied just to smear a girl.

I’m NOT saying that is the case here but this is why the general rule is to not allow it.

Ohh okay thanks for the clarification.

The STI would have come from her unless, I miraculously got it from a toilet seat or doorknob within the same timeframe.

As mentioned I have messaged the SP as she might not be having any symptoms and did even know yet. I still haven't got a reply yet. However there isn't a relisted/new ad since I have reached out to her.

So because of that I am going to give her the benefit of the doubt and wait before posting any review of her as that will indicate who it was, or directly naming the provider as she may now is seeking treatment.

Now if she does post a new ad or relist a current ad I will name the provider.

I understand you're trying to be respectful of the provider however it is in everyone's best interest if you name her or write a full review about your experience with her. You may not have been the only one on here who saw her in a similar time frame. It will also be good so the rest of us know who to avoid going forward.

Alternatively, like Jenesis suggested, you can have anyone who wants to know PM you. The choice is yours.

 

[Enterprising1]

This was an exercise in futility.

You had an encounter that you did not enjoy in the moment, and certainly not afterwards!
You asked for the forum's opinion on how to handle the situation you were in.
There was an overwhelming consensus on what you should do, including from some of the most well-respected members and providers.
You further insist that the provider you saw would be the only way you could have caught the STI in question.

You decide not to write a review of any nature identifying this provider.
The same one you did not have a great experience with, gave you the STI and offered you forbidden/insane services.
You decide to instead give the person with the qualities listed above the "benefit of the doubt."
Does this sound like the type of individual who is going to make all of the right decisions in this case to protect herself and all of the others that she sees/has seen and presumably treats exactly as she did you?
Of course not.
Hence why the members of all kinds expect you to be the one to do that.
This is not only about the people she sees from this point forward, but also the people she has seen in the past, like yourself.
Who, I might add, will also go on to see other providers!

 

[Cleanupcrew]

Echoing the other comments. Please share who it was. She may still be working and you can help prevent someone else from going through the same thing.