I guess I watch too much fetish porn, and I need to do things several times since I am terrible at them at first. So I still have a long list.
Another thing to think about that, in my opinion, leans toward doing this a lot now, is that I am pessimistic about the future.
The “kids” just aren’t out there. Sorry if that sounds terrible.
But for a very long time, there was a new crop of 18-22 year-olds entering the business every year. Now there aren’t. This is true in every market. It is of course worse in the United States where there are enormous barriers to entry for ladies needing to take out an ad as an independent and screen. But if you look closely even at the Toronto and Montreal agency rosters, it is different than a decade or two ago. Same with Lisbon and Western Europe in general.
I had a favorite in Texas who just left the business recently who was in her early 20s. I called her my hope for the future. I have never seen someone work the business harder. Every one of her customers loved her except for a few bitter guys who couldn’t afford her after she justifiably raised her rates. The same comment kept being made - she is the only GFE high-performing, kink friendly, stunningly beautiful college-aged girl in the business in Texas. Years ago, they were endless in Dallas and Austin.
She said her life was taking a different direction. I gave her my sincere thanks and expressed my genuine admiration of her, and she said she would let everyone know if she returns. There is a bit of a wind-down process for her since she has quite the customer base. Don’t know if there is a new boyfriend, a billionaire sugar daddy, or if she just needs a break. She is quite the memory, and I am glad I got to see her. And I hope we all didn’t burn her out. She talked about investing her significant earnings, so I am sure she will do quite well.
I love the rotation of ladies I see now, and the new ones I have on the travel schedule, but they are mostly in their 30s. A few hitting 40. Don’t get me wrong. At that age most of them are at the top of their game from a standpoint of the whole package. But let’s not kid ourselves. Only the rarest of the rare ladies is still at the top of the sex work game in her 40s and 50s. We have all had favorites who we made excuses to stop seeing after many years when we look up from DATY and thought, oh shit. Not the most appropriate thing to say on a shared hooker/john board, but the truth is the truth.
I am just not sure the current crop of 18-25 year olds are going to be have a percentage who choose to be great sex workers when they get a little bit older. They live at home, get parental support, text their parents about everything, and view almost everything in life as an insurmountable hurdle to be ignored or overanalyzed on Reddit. Some blame COVID. I simply do not know why. Most of the best sex workers now in their 30s were independent wild-child types when they were younger, even if they didn’t do sex work until a bit later. Younger women now just aren’t like that.
I honestly think for the most part this business for the most part lost a mini-generation. I think we are at the end of a Golden Age for this activity, and if you are in your 50s now, take a break, and want to come back to it a decade from now, you might be disappointed if you think you will find what is offered at present in terms of looks and services. I very sincerely hope I am wrong about that. But I want to hedge that risk by enjoying the present. I think that should be true for every John age group. This sex-worker “average age increasing” trend has been going on for several years now.
