I have been hobbying for almost 20 yrs now, and continue to be amazed by a lack of understanding of human nature.
Providers are expected to believe on a regular basis, that a surprisingly high percentage of clients are prone to car accidents, flat tires, "my kid's school called with an emergency", my boss called an unexpected meeting, my cell phone died, I ran out of gas, the bank machine ate my card, my wife flew home a day early, my in-laws arrived unexpectedly, etc, etc, etc....surely, the male hobbyist is the unluckiest bastard in the world when trying to make plans for "stress relief".
Yet, when a provider has to deal with some of their "real life issues", the tolerance and acceptance level from the clients is fairly low to non-existant. And then, we (men) complain when a provider checks her phone while we are there, yet become impatient if we have contacted them and have had no response within 15 minutes. I, like the rest of you, have primal urges that I like to have satisfied as soon as they rear their ugly head. But in reality, alas, my favorite providers are not sitting by the phone, waiting for only my call. They, like the rest of us have to earn money. If we don't, we can't play...if they don't, they can't provide us with a "playground". Simple, no?
I have seen Alma numerous times now, and on each occasion, have left more than satisfied. Was I "American Express"ed to the front of the line?...no. Was she worth the wait?...absolutely. Would I repeat?...in a heart beat. Do I care about the outside appearance of the building?...no. Is her location nice, clean and welcoming?...yup.
Those of you who aren't patient enough to hook up with this sexy gem, well...your loss. And never under estimate the value of making a good first impression...not just in person, but on initial contact. You wonder why ladies have a YMMV factor?...I suspect it's exactly for that reason.
For those of you who disagree with my points...a sincere "thank you". There will be less of you wasting her time when I'm trying to see her, and she will likely be in a better mood for me when I do.
Peace out.