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Jade4u

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About the enema issue after her first anal experience she will not feel like sticking even an enema up there so I would suggest plastics or something because it will be quite an accomplishment if you can get her to accept anal the second and third time because even taking a crap will hurt her butt hole. All you can tell her is that it is only the first few times and then after that she WILL be good to go for anal always.
 

G-Money

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Jade4u said:
I recommend alcohol, lots of lube, compassion, carressing, foreplay and loving. Plus when she is in the right state of mind.
Where do you insert the alcohol? lol
 

Jade4u

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G-Money said:
Where do you insert the alcohol? lol
Down my throat. The bottle of course, that's another story. :p

Care should be taken not to strip the anus of natural oils that keep the skin around the opening supple and elastic.

Penetration with a penis or sex toy can irritate or tear the inside of the anus. Lubrication is often recommended to ease penetration. The risk of injury to the anal sphincter should be a concern. Similarly if the anus is torn, this can occasionally cause a fistula formation which can not only cause fecal leaking, but also can be very difficult to treat.

Kegel exercises can improve the tone of the outer sphincter muscle[3].

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Jade4u said:
Down my throat. The bottle of course, that's another story. :p

Care should be taken not to strip the anus of natural oils that keep the skin around the opening supple and elastic.

Penetration with a penis or sex toy can irritate or tear the inside of the anus. Lubrication is often recommended to ease penetration. The risk of injury to the anal sphincter should be a concern. Similarly if the anus is torn, this can occasionally cause a fistula formation which can not only cause fecal leaking, but also can be very difficult to treat.

Kegel exercises can improve the tone of the outer sphincter muscle[3].

http://cc.msnscache.com/cache.aspx?...2&mkt=en-US&setlang=en-US&w=42e6914b,b00d2995
And what about ass to mouth?
 

massman

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I suppose every woman is different but my "fwb" whom I recently introduced to this practice tells me it hurts at first but once she gets used to the feeling it felt great. So great that when we get together she insists on it! (and no you cannot have her #!!!!!) as for pain afterward she doesn't feel pain but for the nxt 12-24 h she "knows something has been there"
I can't emphasize how important being patient and going slow is. Because it will hurt at first you need to let her control the pace of it. I think by doing this she then can relax then the anus relaxes enough to allow some real fun! Seriously this is one act where communication and trust is paramount.
 

Jade4u

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massman said:
I suppose every woman is different but my "fwb" whom I recently introduced to this practice tells me it hurts at first but once she gets used to the feeling it felt great. So great that when we get together she insists on it! (and no you cannot have her #!!!!!) as for pain afterward she doesn't feel pain but for the nxt 12-24 h she "knows something has been there"
I can't emphasize how important being patient and going slow is. Because it will hurt at first you need to let her control the pace of it. I think by doing this she then can relax then the anus relaxes enough to allow some real fun! Seriously this is one act where communication and trust is paramount.

Yes, I would agree every situation would be different dependant on how relaxed the woman in question is and how gentle the man in question is all combined.
 

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Jade4u said:
We are speaking of a woman that has not had anal before ever. THe first time of course is always going to hurt. Also she will not be feeling like doing anal the second or third time either because her ass hole will be hurting too much after the first anal encounter. She will have to continue with anal no matter how painful her ass is after that or she will lose it. As the saying goes use it or lose it. The case is you will have to get her in the right mental state of mind to accept anal the first few times. Do not lie to her her ass will hurt after her first anal sexual encounter and will hurt for the next few times too.

I recommend alcohol, lots of lube, compassion, carressing, foreplay and loving. Plus when she is in the right state of mind.
So, Jade4u be honest. Is there any sort of pleasure to be had by the woman or is it strictly something for the guys.
 

Jade4u

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Meister said:
So, Jade4u be honest. Is there any sort of pleasure to be had by the woman or is it strictly something for the guys.

If the woman has my personality most definatly. Other woman I cannot answer for. Remember I like things more restrained and to feel more kept if you remember who I was. But, to be more honest I think from conversations with others on here (no names) wanting to please so and so etc... my guess is most do it to please men.
 

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cliff1 said:
Well the GF & I have started talking about entering the final frontier.
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hunter001 said:
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Jade4u said:
We are speaking of a woman that has not had anal before ever. THe first time of course is always going to hurt. Also she will not be feeling like doing anal the second or third time either because her ass hole will be hurting too much after the first anal encounter. She will have to continue with anal no matter how painful her ass is after that or she will lose it. As the saying goes use it or lose it. The case is you will have to get her in the right mental state of mind to accept anal the first few times. Do not lie to her her ass will hurt after her first anal sexual encounter and will hurt for the next few times too.

I recommend alcohol, lots of lube, compassion, carressing, foreplay and loving. Plus when she is in the right state of mind.
While you have some valid points, the "her asshole will hurt" is too exact to be viable. It isn't a given that her asshole will hurt for days. I've had anal sex with women for the first time and it all depends on her physical structure and how big he is. Hell, I've heard stories from women that when they've had vaginal sex with guys they can't even tell that they were in.....(the old hotdog down a hallway syndrome).

Jade4u said:
If the woman has my personality most definatly. Other woman I cannot answer for. Remember I like things more restrained and to feel more kept if you remember who I was. But, to be more honest I think from conversations with others on here (no names) wanting to please so and so etc... my guess is most do it to please men.[/QUOTE]

Sorry, that isn't exactly true either. I know of more than a few women (two of my ex gfs are some of them) who have mind blowing orgasms during anal sex and one actually would ask for it on numerous occasions.

I think for accurate info Sue Johannson has a site and I know on her show she goes into great detail on this subject.....


man, and I get grief for generalizing?
 

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tboy said:
...I've had anal sex with women for the first time and it all depends on her physical structure and how big he is....
hmmmm. just wondering

1. do you refer to your appendage in 3rd person?
2. is your appendage variable in size?
3. were you watching the first time and someone else was participating?

curious minds want to know. :D
 

massman

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Jade4u said:
If the woman has my personality most definatly. Other woman I cannot answer for. Remember I like things more restrained and to feel more kept if you remember who I was. But, to be more honest I think from conversations with others on here (no names) wanting to please so and so etc... my guess is most do it to please men.
You may be right - probably "most" do it to please men - but there are definitely women who very much get off on it. My friend cums so hard from it she nearly passes out and says that nothing feels so intense.
 

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Dr. Know said:
That would be my recommendation too! Also I insist on an enema prior to anal. The little head doesn't like to be referred to as "Shit Head"!

Emenia are ok, and female docuhes just make sure that you empty out the contents and put in warm water. if you have a shower head that is dettachable that helps also.

Some sex stores sell the shower head attacthment and anal douches.

Also avoid eating the night before before 6pm or 9pm that way your body will be empty the night you decide to get it in the poop shoot.

Also sleeping wiht the butt plug helps. I personally love anal sex more then regular sex.
 
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