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BAR

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How weird would it be to book an escort on my anniversary date? My wife died a couple of years ago and I do miss her. I was thinking meeting a lady on the date of our anniversary might help me through the day.
 

philonius

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How weird would it be to book an escort on my anniversary date? My wife died a couple of years ago and I do miss her. I was thinking meeting a lady on the date of our anniversary might help me through the day.
It's really up to you but I don't think you want an sp as a temporary stand-in for your late wife, which is what this sounds like, bc you're not trying to replace her and wouldn't want it to cloud your memories of her. It's also a lot to ask from a provider, as you might not be in the right headspace for them to be at their best. I haven't had a partner pass away, so I can't speak from experience, but I have been in a similar mindset re: a companion replacing a partner and it wasn't a great way to spend my time.
 

2nhalf

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Go for it, but I would tell the escort up front, when I book her.
If u feel uncomfortable leading up to it, u can always cancel.
 
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Sonic Temple

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Mate - first and foremost - sorry for your loss, it can't be easy - memories shared will always be there with you. Secondly - not sure if you have a favorite or not, but I know many of the great SP's will provide comfort without judgement. I personally hope you book a date to celebrate for the simple reason of moving on and living life - we only have one - not saying you don't remember your loved one, but also remember that you may need help that day even if it is for a short time. Memories of your loved one will always be there, but that doesn't mean you stop enjoying this fine industry we all share.
 
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IM469

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I must be missing something here. I am not trying to be insensitive but as you have put a post of your heart warming tribute to the memory of the most special day in your both your lives is to hook up with prostitute - a few questions come to mind. Did you marry a virgin ? I'm trying to figure out why fucking is such an important aspect of your anniversary memories. If your anniversary is a warm memory - you might consider spending time with your/her family that day and reflect on the positive memories.

If you are looking for an encounter that re-lives that night of itmentacy - might suggest bringing some of you wife's clothing and asking the sex substitute if you can call her by your wife's name during the encounter.
 

YoYoHoward

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It would be weird to book only one.

Seriously - we all grieve in our own way. I’d like to think she’d want you to be continuing to enjoy your life.
 
People grieve differently. Ive had people hire me after funerals and hire me after their dad died.

I think it might help you and your loneliness that day. I hope it works out for you ❤

If you are looking for someone to help with the loneliness, I would look for more of a companion than a porn star.

Either way I hope you enjoy your experience!

How weird would it be to book an escort on my anniversary date? My wife died a couple of years ago and I do miss her. I was thinking meeting a lady on the date of our anniversary might help me through the day.
 
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