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Are you supposed to ask the girl to shower with you?

rtc188

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The times I'm seen an SP, they always gesture for me to take the shower alone while they wait in the bedroom. However, most of the stories I read here start with a SF2 almost as a foregone conclusion. Are you guys explicitly asking the girl to step into the shower with you? I kind of feel bad doing this given when I meet them they have their lingerie on etc. Should I not care?

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Robert Mugabe

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The times I'm seen an SP, they always gesture for me to take the shower alone while they wait in the bedroom. However, most of the stories I read here start with a SF2 almost as a foregone conclusion. Are you guys explicitly asking the girl to step into the shower with you? I kind of feel bad doing this given when I meet them they have their lingerie on etc. Should I not care?

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Wash that beeeotch!
 

explorerzip

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If you want something specific from a SP like SF2, greek, etc. then you need to ask and do it ahead of time if possible. If you don't ask, there's a 100% chance of not getting what you want. If you ask, there's a 50% chance of getting what you want. You may as well ask everytime because the worse that can happen is that she says no.
 
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Sonic Temple

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No harm in asking - agree with @explorerzip - or you can pre-plan it and ask the booker if the SP would be up for a SF2.
 
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The times I'm seen an SP, they always gesture for me to take the shower alone while they wait in the bedroom. However, most of the stories I read here start with a SF2 almost as a foregone conclusion. Are you guys explicitly asking the girl to step into the shower with you? I kind of feel bad doing this given when I meet them they have their lingerie on etc. Should I not care?

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SF2 is NOT a foregone conclusion. I don’t know where you got that from. Unless you are seeing Asian SPs. I think they usually do it but regular SPs - no.

I will not because I don’t get my hair wet. I shower with a cap between appointments. I have hair to my ass and it is a lot to manage and gets damage with multiple showers.

I don’t know where you got that this service is the norm though because it is not. It is a service offered by some just like some offer Greek and other don’t.
 

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I normally tell the provider what I want when I book so she is ready for SF2.
Tell the provider directly or via the booker? If directly, I want into the secret...
 

explorerzip

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Tell the provider directly or via the booker? If directly, I want into the secret...
If it's an indy, ask through email \ text or when you see her. If it's an agency girl, you can try to ask the booker, but the request might not get to the girl. So it's probably best to ask the girl when you see her.

No matter what, you can't keep a request secret. You must ask for what you want because no one can read your mind.

You can increase your chances of SF2 with an Asian girl or look for reviews where it says the girl offers it, but it's not guaranteed.

Like Jenesis said, SF2 it is not a forgone conclusion so you must always ask for what you want. If you don't ask, you don't get.
 

kherg007

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It's not a regular service.
If you're dealing with a lady of class she would have already showered.
I find sf2 the most overrated thing. Gets too crowded.
 

StephenHKing

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As @Jenesis indicated. Asian SPs can be obsessive about it.

Regular agency girls will generally refuse because they don’t want to ruin their hair or makeup.

Even though some of them definitely should.

I generally don’t bother going down on a girl if she hasn’t showered with me - I honestly find most of them leave that area lubed from the last guy.

I think for the woman, it really CAN be harmful to the flora or whatever if she’s using soap down there half a dozen times a day.
 

crocket

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You can in with some mpa's. Some spas have large showers that can fit 2 people easily.
 
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thumper18474

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I've done SF2 a few time
Love lathering up a nice set of TATAS...funny though..never with an Asian
We've done the deed and before relaxing on the bed it's always her that suggests a SF2..especially when
Whipped cream and caramel sauce is involved.!!LOL
 
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SexB

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I shower solo at the start of the session.

I'll ask the lady if she wants to join me at the end of the session. If she says yes, great! If not, it's no big deal.
 
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A lot of MPAs do not like it as guys grope them
It's not fun when someone is trying to jam a finger in your pussy in the shower with all that friction, even worse when using a soapy finger. Soap doesn't belong inside the pussy.
However, it should always be used on the outside ESP in between clients. Not doing so is so incredibly unhygienic...

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sohappy

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A lot of MPAs do not like it as guys grope them
Have you been with an MPA? While I don't 'grope' in the manner you imply I definitely get my fingers and face wet when I visit an MPA. All with their approval. So for the majority, if they don't get to touch the MPA, why would they bother going?

Your choice of the word grope makes it a bad thing, because it sounds forced. Mutual pleasure in the shower where the lady guides my hands is the opposite of groping.
 

Zoot Allures

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Have you been with an MPA? While I don't 'grope' in the manner you imply I definitely get my fingers and face wet when I visit an MPA. All with their approval. So for the majority, if they don't get to touch the MPA, why would they bother going?

Your choice of the word grope makes it a bad thing, because it sounds forced. Mutual pleasure in the shower where the lady guides my hands is the opposite of groping.
Did not say you did but some guys grope

The way you behave on the table would make a big difference if she agrees to a SF2
 
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whynot888

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I ask all the time, usually at the end that way it doesn't get too weird during the session if they decline. Like what Gretzky used to quote, "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take". Whats the worse thing they can say, NO.
 
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