Here's the real issue with
Ashley Madison which really isn't much different from reality elsewhere in the dating world. The women have all the power & all the control. On POF it's a balance of 50 50 (male female) but on AM, it's 10 men for every women. This allows them full control and you, as a male, are required to put in a great deal of effort & resources in the name of chasing her down to get laid. I had women contact me on
Ashley Madison, but it was always "collect" meaning I paid the 5 credits to return their email. That's consume your 100 dollar investment pretty fast without anything in return.
In short, it's no different than dating on POF except you're going directly for the sex versus playing the game to later get sex (and perhaps find a potential partner). What's the point? If your sole game is to get your dick sucked, why waste your time? I'm not a pooner but given the choice between AM and pooning, I would take pooning. At least I can pick and choose what I want versus having to chase it around in the hopes of getting laid. My time is valuable & I don't play "chick games" anymore.
I was stating that your gf job is escorting and
Ashley Madison and POF are compettition for her. Just like any business with compatition the escorts have to compete with free women
Ashley Madison is not competition for SP's dude. Nor are easy women at the bar. The contract between you and an SP is simple and clear. You negotiate the price, what services she offers & you pay. You are free to pick the culture, size, height, etc of the woman you want to see. When the session ends, you shower and leave. You may be a repeat or a regular but you see that woman because she is available, uncomplicated & she wants the money, you want to get laid.
Using
Ashley Madison or AFF is entirely the opposite. To interest her, you will be required to spend money & invest time with the likely outcome of nothing. You'll need to play the game. The woman on AM may also be a touch more crazy than a SP. What's to stop her from being in a divorce or just turning on men in general? It's VERY unlikely an SP will call your wife and tell her you're fucking her. It's far more common that some bitter woman will do that just to be spiteful. Not to mention casual flings with casual people are often more risky sexually. SP's, even SW's cover up. That's not the case on
Ashley Madison. Who hasn't had a piece of ass they've tapped uncovered & thought nothing about it? You're drunk and just fuck. Even the SW's up my street demand you cover up (I asked them lol).
Not to say it doesn't work because it does. It's just how much effort to you want to put into the game?
