Asian Man on the Totem Pole

[lomotil]

I have never seen a hot girl that dates a polite, nice guy. 99% of asian men are polite/nice. Every hot girl I have ever known either dates a white jock bully, a latino gangbanger, or some black drug dealer. Fat ones and nerdy girls are left for the rest of the guys.

And I know this from night clubs, high schools and even my own apartment building.

Music box, you cannot change your school of graduation, but you can change your apartment and the night clubs you frequent. Most beautiful Asian women are with Asian guys, and somewhat less than 99% of asian men are polite/nice in the real world as with all races of men. Reality is harsh.

 

[Don]

I have never seen a hot girl that dates a polite, nice guy. 99% of asian men are polite/nice.

LOL you really buy into the "model minority" stereotype. I've ran into more than my fair share of asian men with bad attitudes.

 

[Don]

i find white girls boring and i hate the way they talk

really? How do they talk?

 

[james t kirk]

I've only gotten about half way through this thread.

I have a question to all the Chinese guys here....

A little background.

I worked indirectly with this older Chinese Engineer who worked for the government. Good guy, smart as a whip. VERY Chinese. He would lament to me that his kids were not really Chinese, that they were "banannas". I pretended not to know what he meant. But he explained it. I often thought I would like to have met his daughter (a bit younger than me) not to hit on her, but because of the things she would say to him. "Dad, you're going to give yourself a heart attack" (True, he probably was. I don't think there was a guy who worked for the government who was more dedicated than this guy.) or, "Dad, you've got to learn to tell them to fuck off" LOL

Anyway, his boss was also off the boat Chinese (also and Engineer). Kind of a quiet guy, but I never really knew him like I knew my friend that I worked with.

Anyway, the Chinese boss treated the Chinese worker bee LIKE SHIT. I mean it was embarrassing how cruel and condescending this prick was. My buddy was a highly skilled Engineer, but for some reason, his Chinese boss would give him far more grief than anyone else. (Truth be told, I learned ALLOT from this old Chinese Guy and I owe him.)

I once asked my Chinese Engineer buddy about it and he replied, "it's because he's Chinese and I'm Chinese. To you (big white dude) he would be OK, even if you screwed up, but to me, because I am Chinese, he gives me a hard time.

What gives with that????????

 

[Serpent]

What gives with that????????

Not Chinese here...but two things:

1. Maybe the boss assumed all gwai-lohs are fuckups. (not really j/k)
2. Most likely - the cultural comfort and confidence in knowing that abusing a fellow chinese wouldn't get reported to HR.

This is quite common in all Asian cultures - act proper in western society and treat whites differently than people of your own kind.

 

[Mongrel4u]

I have never seen a hot girl that dates a polite, nice guy. 99% of asian men are polite/nice.


Every hot girl I have ever known either dates a white jock bully, a latino gangbanger, or some black drug dealer. Fat ones and nerdy girls are left for the rest of the guys.

And I know this from night clubs, high schools and even my own apartment building.

get your head out of your ass

 

[Mongrel4u]

Music Box, where do you hang out and make your observations? Is your universe small, local Karoake bars?

its the inside of his colon

 

[hornykid]

Absolutely right, man

Ok, here is my take. Keep in mind my background is asian, and yes I have dated many white & black girls in the past.

First, I think asians are the most racist bunch on the planet. Gwai low this gwai low that. Come on. I remember my mom freaking when I brought home my first white gf. She also told me never, ever date/marry a black girl. I, for one, happen to like black girls. Indian girls ROCK (Am I the only Chinese guy to drool over Indian girls?). Anyway, this is not unique to my family, I've hear comments like philipino or lighter all the time. I understand that everyone wants to preserve their cultures, but you are in North America and cultures WILL mix. Drop the racist bs and show some respect.

Good jobs do not equal girls. Asians, in general are very money focused. There is so much to life than money. Yes, it does make life a little easier, but it is not the end all. Stop being so materialistic! Studies show that the BMW does not get the girl. You may think that the BMW make you look cool, but at the end of the day, you are still that same dull guy with a nicer car. I've never driven anything more than a Civic. I like to spend my money elsewhere, like self improvement. You will be surprised at how a few classes will make you more interesting. I've taken everything, from dance to cooking. You can also learn a new language...big coolness points there. I spent an entire year in Nice, France to learn French and it was money well spent. In fact, last year, a couple of girls from France was asking me for directions in very broken English. Imagine their surprise when this Chinese guy replys in French. Huge points. The goal is to become multidimentional.

There is a big difference between Canadian born and FOBs. I think Canaidian born has a much higher success rate of hooking up with white. I find FOB asians, in general, quite boring. This includes girls as well. The asian accent may be a problem as well as it totally lacks charm. I have to say, even though I am asian, I have very few asian friends.

The posts above about asians lacking confidence. For the most part, totally true. I think it has to do with upbringing. Asian parents in general put a lot of pressure on kids to excel in school at a very early age. Even when they do well, it is never good enough. How can you have confidence when you are brought up that way? I fortunately did not have that problem as was always the class clown and coasted by with a solid D average.

Also, this is hard for me to say, but some asians have a personal hygiene problem. I know you all know what I mean. It's this medicinal BO smell, kinda like moth balls, but different. Also, for some reason, many asians like to shower at night, so they sweat in their sleep and then BO creeps in my 10am. That my friends is a turn off.

Finally, some asians, especially non-Canadian born, are very closed minded and like to hang out with their own kind. Even when it comes to food, they go for Chinese/Sushi or nothing. How many times have you seen a chinese couple or family go out for something like Roti. Almost never. And if you do see an asian in a place like Real Jerk, it's probably me. If you don't venture out, how do you expect to meet girls of other backgrounds?

 

[hinz]

Asian dude, no matter how confident, well-off, independent and smart he is as a good candidate to hubby material, always remind the white hotties of something "made in China" at aisle whatever number at Wal-Mart

Or the white hotties in question do not find beige color sexy/attractive.

 

[Thousand]

really? How do they talk?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=41APzy5kqBU

I like the way they talk and the music video too!

 

[Music_Box]

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No guys, the ones at the bottom of the totem pole are we white guys, we are the ones seen as boring and vanilla.

My blonde hair and blue eyes in my teenaged years did not help me get girls-- even white girls. White girls are infatuated with black & latino trouble makers, chinese asian girls date their own, black girls are out of bounds, they don't like white guys, latina girls are into latino guys, only the elder more mature latina women are into white guys but for citizenship or sponsorship reaons.

The white male is at the bottom of the totem pole in liberal Canada

 

[Serpent]

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The white male is at the bottom of the totem pole in liberal Canada

Let's keep politics and poon separate please....

 

[Thousand]

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No guys, the ones at the bottom of the totem pole are we white guys, we are the ones seen as boring and vanilla.

My blonde hair and blue eyes in my teenaged years did not help me get girls-- even white girls. White girls are infatuated with black & latino trouble makers, chinese asian girls date their own, black girls are out of bounds, they don't like white guys, latina girls are into latino guys, only the elder more mature latina women are into white guys but for citizenship or sponsorship reaons.

The white male is at the bottom of the totem pole in liberal Canada

Then why do I see all the white girls going crazy for boy band like New Kidz on the Block? Come on, I have never seen a white girl going crazy for Jackie Chan. Also, the King of Cool is Steve McQueen. Why couldn't it be an Asian look-a-like like David Carradine? This is BS!

 

[Music_Box]

Then why do I see all the white girls going crazy for boy band like New Kidz on the Block? Come on, I have never seen a white girl going crazy for Jackie Chan. Also, the King of Cool is Steve McQueen. Why couldn't it be an Asian look-a-like like David Carradine? This is BS!

Yeah right, New Kids on the Block, like I said, if you are white like me you have to look and have the money of Brad Pitt to get white girls. If you go to a nightclub you will see black/latino guys hitting (and getting) the white girls, and if there's a white guy hitting on a white girl is because all the other ones are already dancing. Only in areas where there's only white people do we white guys get the white girls, that would be around Muskoka, in Toronto forget it.

 

[Mongrel4u]

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No guys, the ones at the bottom of the totem pole are we white guys, we are the ones seen as boring and vanilla.

My blonde hair and blue eyes in my teenaged years did not help me get girls-- even white girls. White girls are infatuated with black & latino trouble makers, chinese asian girls date their own, black girls are out of bounds, they don't like white guys, latina girls are into latino guys, only the elder more mature latina women are into white guys but for citizenship or sponsorship reaons.

The white male is at the bottom of the totem pole in liberal Canada

B U L L S H I T...

All I see hot white girls with are white guys...For the most part they wont associate with anything but.

Further, I see so many asian girl/white guy couples. If an asian girl were to date outside of her race ( which happens OFTEN) shes most likely going to go for the white guy; partly because when it comes to non asians, asian people are least racist towards whites and also due to the white standard of beauty which the entire world goes by (its like the US dollar). The funny thing is the asian girl is usually quite attractive and out-going and the white guy she is with is the funniest looking social retard or a guy you ever seen...just has nothing going for him; no personality, odd looking....

so quit your whining..you have no case

 

[Thousand]

I wish I am a little bit of each race so all women of the world would love me.

 

[simplyaguy]

B U L L S H I T...

All I see hot white girls with are white guys...For the most part they wont associate with anything but.

Further, I see so many asian girl/white guy couples. If an asian girl were to date outside of her race ( which happens OFTEN) shes most likely going to go for the white guy; partly because when it comes to non asians, asian people are least racist towards whites and also due to the white standard of beauty which the entire world goes by (its like the US dollar). The funny thing is the asian girl is usually quite attractive and out-going and the white guy she is with is the funniest looking social retard or a guy you ever seen...just has nothing going for him; no personality, odd looking....

so quit your whining..you have no case

SOOO true!

 

[j_anderson]

 

[incognito]

B U L L S H I T...

All I see hot white girls with are white guys...For the most part they wont associate with anything but.

Further, I see so many asian girl/white guy couples. If an asian girl were to date outside of her race ( which happens OFTEN) shes most likely going to go for the white guy; partly because when it comes to non asians, asian people are least racist towards whites and also due to the white standard of beauty which the entire world goes by (its like the US dollar). The funny thing is the asian girl is usually quite attractive and out-going and the white guy she is with is the funniest looking social retard or a guy you ever seen...just has nothing going for him; no personality, odd looking....

so quit your whining..you have no case

I second this. Very, very true, for the most part.

 

[Thousand]

I will third that......white, spikey hair and 6"0+ = definite advantage in Toronto

I'll fourth that.