Best pick-up bars in TO??
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Esp. here in Toronto women are out there looking for the hot Hollywood hunk guy ...... you got that doesn't matter what bar you go to you will be getting attention. You don't then you don't got shit & you won't be catching any attention!!! Keep in mind I am addressing your desire to " pick-up " at a bar which I am understanding like a hook-up. Such situations & places are not were personality play any importance or role. That is any lady out there interested in picking up or getting picked up isn't looking for Mr. Wright or a good match in personality.
nice place. but i wouldn't go here to pick up any chicks. i've been there a couple times. watched guys approaching women. they all get shot down. guys never are successful hooking up with chicks there. i've seen so many guys approach women and get shot down. its not even funny.couldn't care less about the girls there. i was actually rooting/hoping for the guys to actually get a successful when approaching a girl on the dance floor. so i can give it a shot with another lady in the near future. makes me wonder why do girls come to dance in public if they're gonna shoot down every guy that approaches them, just to reject every single guy. they might as well just dance at home. you go through all that work to look good just to reject every single guy?
alot of guys act like idiots and retards there too.
IF a guy is looking for a REAL relationship he needs to find a woman mature enough to be on a level to want to get to know a guy , his personality & find a good match.
STATISTICALLY: The best ways are situations were you can get to know eachother: work, group of friends, family introductions .... & at social activities. NOT bars, clubs, dating sites, speed dating. These typically focus not on the personality BUT the numbers & looks: age, height, weight, looks. THUS these avenues lend to people selecting just on looks. THEREFORE unless you got the Hollywood Hunk / 5'10"+ look goin on your likely to get rejected. I am guessing NON of the guys @ C.R. were hot hunks.
Women like dissing guys that chase them in clubs especially if they're with their selfish/stuck up girlfriends. It's a way for them to show their female friends: "See I'm more attractive than you are!" Women compete against each other FIRST at the club folks...
Self esteem and stupid bragging rights to their girlfriends about how attractive they are cause they had guys to shut down. The girl in their group that has no guys approach her is seen as a 'loser' or lesser by her female friends.
Sucks to be them cause the best way to get girls to want you is to look and act like you don't give 2 shits about her. Meaning if you approach a girl and she turns you down just say nothing and walk away. Chill at the bar and don't even talk about her with your buds. Ignore her from that point on. That will deflate her false sense of importance and higher status quick. A way of turning the tables on them you could say.
If you ever listen to girls yap among themselves on their way home from the bar all they do is talk about 'That guy' that approached them over an hr ago that they turned down. Over an hr ago. Ask yourselves WHY are they STILL talking about that guy if it he meant nothing to them? the truth is he DID mean something to them.. He was a validation of the time they spent putting on the fuck me pumps and make up/tight dress. Nothing more nothing less. Too bad the guy burned himself by acting stupid by putting her in the superior position via acting like an idiot and begging once rejected.
if you want quick unattached fun then go to a MP or SP
it is far, far quicker, is guaranteed (with multiple choices) and in the end cheaper
no embarrassment or rejection and no one gets emotionally hurt
never understood picking up in bars
wwwwway too complex
it is far, far quicker, is guaranteed (with multiple choices) and in the end cheaper
no embarrassment or rejection and no one gets emotionally hurt
never understood picking up in bars
wwwwway too complex
here, here!
If it is just for "pick-up" an sp is so much better in almost any way. I've been widowed for over 5 years now, in my early 50's, grown kids, and just can't imagine dealing with all the complications of navigating personal relationships. But I'm still a man with a surviving sex drive and need that fulfilled every now and then too. An sp is the best way to accomplish this. Saves time, frustration, feelings and probably money too.
I have always thought that the primary purpose of Western women dancing in public is collecting lustful stares from horny men as these dirty stares contain certain energy that restores these women to spiritual wholeness.
a big waste of time if you ask me. to get all dressed up/make up/tight dress just to brag to their girlfriends about that guy that approached her and she got to turn him down. when she could've possibly agreed to meet him up for coffee or something and gotten to know a possibly great guy. selfish and stuck up is right.
big waste of time if you ask me. to get all dressed up just to brag about turning a guy down.
Bars & Clubs are not the place that can show TRUE CONFIDENCE. Cockyness & brevado is certainly not that ....except in the movies. But it reels in the younge & foolish ladies every time. That's why most of them in their early to mid 20's end up dating the A-Holes. Plus they wouldn't know true real confidence if it stared them in the face!
