Annessa said:
number of woman I have councelled (and still councel) .... silent unspoken realization for most of them until at some point something triggers and a whole new feeling or perception comes along with it.
I don't doubt that you do know such women. I'm just pointing out that it's not the way most SPs see things. There are all kinds of different people, everyone is different.
Are there women who are doing this job who are deeply conflicted about it, and probably shouldn't be? Yes. There was a story on the board awhile back about a woman who quit the business and subsequently accepted Jesus Christ as her personal savior. She decided her clients should as well and went back to out them all in order to save them from hell. That woman was obviously deeply conflicted about what she was doing, and probably never should have been an SP.
But does this mean that all SPs are like that? No. Most quit for more ordinary and boring reasons: they earned what they wanted, they got too old, they found a husband and decided to settle down, they finished school and decided to move on to something else, they moved away, or whatever. Very few go through some kind of personal crisis over the preciousness of their sexuality. Certainly some do. It's certainly a legitimate belief to hold.
Again, I'm just pointing out that everyone's different and there are as many reasons for quitting the business as there are for getting into it.
How all this relates to pricing I don't know. We're way off topic. Pricing is determined by the law of supply and demand and depends on how many women are willing to sell the service and how many men are willing to buy it.
I'm speaking from facts because I'm on the front lines... are you? I think not.
Am I on the front lines? No. Do I have personal relationships with SPs and former SPs? Yes. I have fairly deep personal connections into this industry as well. I won't elaborate, so since you are you are entitled to claim I'm making this up and that you somehow "win" on the "I know more than you, you're ignorant" thing.
