Yah, I should've read up on the memory problem, but the K7N2G was appealing because it came with everything integrated (video, tv-out, firewire, digital audio, ethernet, usb 2). No other board had the amount of features for the money. According to bigfoot computers, the only memory that they recommend for the nforce2 chipset is ocz, which goes for $180 or so for 2 sticks of 256 (2 sticks to take advantage of the dual channel). I finally got the board up and working, had to do major tweaking in the bios. Along with my new AMD XP 2000 cpu, the machine is incredible fast.
Now that I got it working, I'm happy with it. I am using generic memory but plan to get the OCZ memory when the price goes down. Bottom line, unless you're a tecchie or want to spend the money on the OCZ memory, avoid the nforce2 chipset for now. I built an MSI KT4 a few months ago for a friend, had no problems with it.