all_account said:
Should I be very polite? like" can u dance for me?"
what you guyz say to the girls when u wanna her to give u a lapdance?
This would be a little like the sheep saying to the wolf: "Please, will you tear me apart and eat me?" It will work, but it's probably not necessary!
Of all of the "pay-for-play" venues (SP/MP/SC) the girls are the most predatory. All you have to do is sit there and look innocent. Unless you are a really rough looking guy, normally the ladies will be all over you, but as I said early, all they want is your money. And they can suck hundreds of dollars out of your wallet over the course of the evening... and you'll probably get nothing much for it.
Why do you want to go to a SC anyway, and why so intent on a private dance? If you are hoping to get off, there are no guarantees at all. Your money might be better spent at ASA or some other place.
If on the other hand, you want to go out for a night on the town with the boys, and get a little feel and some eye candy, than a night at the SC can be fun.
You sound "inexperienced". Are you young too? Just be aware that the potential is there to get seriously ripped off if you are naive.