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justawildchild

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i wouldn' t say a "time waster" but not very reliable seems to be the consensus. As i mentioned before, the reliable clients get fkd, and not the way they expected.
Exactly....and even when she says I will make it up to you, you still have to get in to see her for that to happen....but this time around I haven't gotten a direct apology. Even if it was a PM saying "I will guarantee our next appointment". I don't know what else she can offer....hour for the price of half? But that would be a lot of people she would be doing this for. It is just tough, because when you finally get up to see her, it is an amazing time.
 

samiam3791

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Oct 27, 2010
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I don't post much because in truth I find a lady that I like and stick with her. I find the experience is much more predictable in that way. In this case I felt the need to speak up. I have been seeing Charlotte for some time and have found her to be very reliable. There have been a few situations where she has had to push my time back or even in one instance cancel an appointment on me, but these have been the exception and not the rule, and lets be honest I have had to do the same with her on a few occasions as life happens. Sometimes things are beyond your control and no one is perfect. That said my experience has always been first class and as such I would recommend her and will continue to repeat. I have always found her to be reasonable and if you are on her no fly list there is likely a reason, weather you feel it is justified or not Charlotte has the right to chose who she sees, so if you find yourself in that situation just move on and find another provider. I will get off my soapbox now. Thanks Charlotte for being an honest and fair provider and I hope that this thread does not cause you any undue stress.
My issue is not getting pushed back by 30 minutes, it was agreeing to a time, giving me the address and then going quiet. If she is afraid of people lingering then why give out the address only to go quiet? I get things happen but just send a text saying "sorry can't see you right now- somthing came up".
 

jimy13

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Sep 13, 2004
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Same here. The last 2 times I sent her a text I got no reply and I have seen her once in the past.
Me as well. I've seen her three times in the past, all great sessions, but lately not a single reply to my texts or requests. I moved on.
 

cunnilinguist

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At 8:21 pm I text and ask if Charlotte is available tomorrow. She responds right away asking what time. I say I'm good any time, how about noon? 15 minutes go by. She texts "How long would you like to stay?" I reply "half hour." at 8:38. It's now 9:02 and I haven't heard back.

How difficult is it to say "Noon for a hh is good. See you then."? or "How about ____ o'clock instead?"

Baylee is out of commission (I REALLY wanted to see her again). I haven't yet tried Charlotte and I really want to but WTF???
 

fmahovalich

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Aug 21, 2009
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It happens. I booked the other day with Alex at the airport for 5:15. Rush hour of course hung me up. I texted at 5:16 to say I was around the corner. She cancelled. Cest la vie!! Her loss!!
 

gordita

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Jan 23, 2004
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I tried to see her the other day and got the cancellation---but at least not in the parking lot. Texted early, she came back with 9:30, I said OK Where, she texted back sorry hun and that was it. Flake.
 
Hi Charlotte, I understand there are 2 sides to every story and I appreciate you responding....and even more so, taking some criticism so graciously.

I think it is very disrespectful for the guys that are late that expect they can still make their full appointment. It is unfortunate that those who are able to keep their appointments, and value YOUR time, are the ones that are being punished.

At the end of the day, I thank you for responding and I hope that we can get together very soon.

JWC
It's difficult to figure out who is going to show up and who isn't. New people are notorious for not showing up... but even regulars do it. Someone I've seen a dozen times could all of the sudden start being flaky and not respecting my time. I let it go thought because they are good tippers or have been great clients in the long term. If everyone showed up when they were supposed to or showed up to their appointments period it would be much easier for all of us. No shows are the worst. they lead you on up until they claim they are actually there. Then you don't hear anything.... so you have to give them a reasonable amount of time to show up before you can book another appointment. I give them 20 minutes. but that's 20 minutes I could have been giving someone directions to my place and booking the next appointment. The worst thing I could imagine happening is my clients running into each other. Just keep in mind that if she'sm good to you, she's worth the wait. eventually you can work up a relationship with her where she knows who you are and she can count on you to be reliable. I always pick my regulars over a new person. There seems to be a 50/50 chance new people will be no shows for me at least.
 

MOC411

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Nov 7, 2012
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I tried to see her the other day and got the cancellation---but at least not in the parking lot. Texted early, she came back with 9:30, I said OK Where, she texted back sorry hun and that was it. Flake.
OK dude RELAX. Quick on the hair "flake" trigger aren't we?
If you're referring to Sat cancellations there's a good reason if you were to inquire. Mind you I do have a rapport with her so....
I was on my way when I got the txt myself.
If you noticed she wasn't available all this week, save for Monday, her adds went up but quickly changed each day to the following day.
She hadn't been feeling well enough most of the week to see anyone but had been available Fri but no one booked and she tried to make an honest try of it Sat because of a few requests but backed out early because, in a nutshell she said, there was no way she could see anyone else Sat and was going back home.
Whether her reasons were personal, emotional, or physical I didn't pry over txt. Maybe something happened with her first client on Sat...who knows.
I'm not trying to explain away ALL the occurrences in the past, all I can account for is this past week or "the other day" as was quoted.

BUT for argument sake, here's an eg:
She has very sensitive skin to certain fragrances and some additives found in certain products, we've had talks about it. She's shown me products she's bought for herself and used only ONCE and had to throw away.
I know of one day when a client might have been wearing lotion or something on himself and unbeknownst to him or her she had a skin reaction to it later and had to cancel the rest of her day when it manifested.

She cancels rather than not being able to give you what you'd expect from her. Compared to A LOT of girls out there that change what services they offer when you show up (oh someone else does my booking BS), uses really out dated or heavily edited pics, uses "borrowed" pics or even not appear in person close to what they advertise...ect.
So lets try and rationalize a little bit.
If she cancels she has her reasons and in the end you're only out of pocket, at worst, for your time....or would you rather be out of pocket elsewhere for time and money on expectations and services not provided, embellished or falsified.

At least with Charlotte you know you're gonna get what you expect when you send your time and money with her and that speaks VOLUMES above and beyond some of the other other girls in the area.
I'd rather take hard to get, money well spent on, service than spend money on who knows what when you get there and feeling duped.
 

gordita

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Jan 23, 2004
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Well MOC411 here is your chance to write another story. I was not referring to Saturday but Friday. Oh sorry, your story says no one booked Friday. Her ad came up just before nine Friday.
 

samiam3791

Samtheman
Oct 27, 2010
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OK dude RELAX. Quick on the hair "flake" trigger aren't we?
If you're referring to Sat cancellations there's a good reason if you were to inquire. Mind you I do have a rapport with her so....
I was on my way when I got the txt myself.
If you noticed she wasn't available all this week, save for Monday, her adds went up but quickly changed each day to the following day.
She hadn't been feeling well enough most of the week to see anyone but had been available Fri but no one booked and she tried to make an honest try of it Sat because of a few requests but backed out early because, in a nutshell she said, there was no way she could see anyone else Sat and was going back home.
Whether her reasons were personal, emotional, or physical I didn't pry over txt. Maybe something happened with her first client on Sat...who knows.
I'm not trying to explain away ALL the occurrences in the past, all I can account for is this past week or "the other day" as was quoted.

BUT for argument sake, here's an eg:
She has very sensitive skin to certain fragrances and some additives found in certain products, we've had talks about it. She's shown me products she's bought for herself and used only ONCE and had to throw away.
I know of one day when a client might have been wearing lotion or something on himself and unbeknownst to him or her she had a skin reaction to it later and had to cancel the rest of her day when it manifested.

She cancels rather than not being able to give you what you'd expect from her. Compared to A LOT of girls out there that change what services they offer when you show up (oh someone else does my booking BS), uses really out dated or heavily edited pics, uses "borrowed" pics or even not appear in person close to what they advertise...ect.
So lets try and rationalize a little bit.
If she cancels she has her reasons and in the end you're only out of pocket, at worst, for your time....or would you rather be out of pocket elsewhere for time and money on expectations and services not provided, embellished or falsified.

At least with Charlotte you know you're gonna get what you expect when you send your time and money with her and that speaks VOLUMES above and beyond some of the other other girls in the area.
I'd rather take hard to get, money well spent on, service than spend money on who knows what when you get there and feeling duped.
I would have no issue with her cancelling- it's sitting in the parking lot waiting for her and hearing nothing that gets me. Things come up all the time- so why not sent a text saying so rather than have people sit in the parking lot waiting?
 

MOC411

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Nov 7, 2012
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gordita and zoobot....READ PROPERLY...ALL THE WORDS!!!
Not my story, it's what she told me; you gossiping kitchen nannys...for fuck' sake

Saw her today No issues and on time and MAN was she on her game!!!
Worth the wait.
 
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