casual cloth when doing incalls?

[ben86c]

Hi,

I'm kind of new to this hobby. So i had a nooby question.
is it ok to ask SPs to wear casual cloth or a dress instead of lingerie before you show up? I enjoy the foreplay and getting cloth off very much and everytime I have been to an incall I have missed that part!
is it ok to tell this to whoever is doing the schedule on the phone? is it normal? have you done this?

Thank you in advance

Ben

 

[skypilot]

Hi,

I'm kind of new to this hobby. So i had a nooby question.
is it ok to ask SPs to wear casual cloth or a dress instead of lingerie before you show up? I enjoy the foreplay and getting cloth off very much and everytime I have been to an incall I have missed that part!
is it ok to tell this to whoever is doing the schedule on the phone? is it normal? have you done this?

Thank you in advance

Ben

Absolutely. You should always tell the SP how you would like her to dress. I have only had one not dress as I asked and I never saw her again.

 

[Music_Box]

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Some SP's might take your request as creepy and condescending and refuse to see you, it happened to me once. Besides, many SP's will say "yes" at your request and ignore your request once you get there.

 

[ben86c]

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Some SP's might take your request as creepy and condescending and refuse to see you, it happened to me once. Besides, many SP's will say "yes" at your request and ignore your request once you get there.

hmmm... and I thought asking somebody to be in lingerie when you meet for the first time is creepy! lol
so tell me how did that happen? you asked her to be in casual cloth and she said no?

 

[Music_Box]

so tell me how did that happen? you asked her to be in casual cloth and she said no?

I asked her to wear certain clothes and certain color panties and she said "yes", when I arrived she greeted me naked wrapped in a white towel, I turned around said "See you later" and walked away, she blacklisted me, later e-mailed me saying to give her $50 "cancellation fee" or my name would go to some SP blacklist.

 

[hairyfucker]

Send her an email back and tell her to blow you. No, wait, that would cost $50.

Actually, I would take the upper road and do one of two things.
1. ignore her and forget about it.
2. send her an email back explaining yourself and why you left.

#2 will take a bit more effort if you want to make amends. If not, then go for #1.

 

[skypilot]

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Some SP's might take your request as creepy and condescending and refuse to see you, it happened to me once.

SP's usually find clients to be creepy and condescending only when the client actually IS creepy and condescending.

 

[Miss Maya Blue]

there is nothing wrong with asking your SP to be fully clothed when you arrive. in fact, most of us would probably prefer to know your preferences.
we want you to be happy and turned on.....

i myself alternate between being at the door in lingerie, or dressed.

clothing requests are perhaps ill recieved when the request is something like this:
"i'd like you in a pink pleather skirt, thigh high boots, white fishnet top and bubble gum pink toenails."

we do get requests like this and well, chances are your SP does not have what you are looking for in her closet, nor is she going to go shopping for an entire outfit just for you. (an outfit that costs more then the session itself)

there are polite ways of asking though...if you have a preference, let it be known.

 

[Muskol]

I've wanted to meet an SP who's wearing those Lululemon or TNA yoga pants when I show up. I'd love to peel those off a lovely lady.

 

[newguy27]

I've wanted to meet an SP who's wearing those Lululemon or TNA yoga pants when I show up. I'd love to peel those off a lovely lady.

Had that with two different girls. It's awesome...it was like picking up a hottie at Yorkdale in her yoga wear!

 

[skypilot]

Thats the nice thing about having a regular SP (even if she is regular for only 3 or 4 dates.) You can buy her the clothes you want her to wear then you can take them home and sniff them while you pleasure yourself. Its kind of a variation of MSOG.

 

[hairyfucker]

Tmi...

 

[C Dick]

I think that the key is how you ask. If you have never seen her before, you can basically explain that you are looking for an SP who will wear a pleather skirt and mukluks, can she help you? That way she can either say no, and you move on, or she says she will, in which case she has to do so or you can reasonably bail out.

 

[Rylan]

Don't listen to Music-Box - he hates women and therefore has no idea what women will do or won't do.

Do what others have said, Just ask her. There is nothing wrong with it. It happens all the time.