I tend to agree that well-reviewed independents SPs offering safe GFE are probably better (unless the agency have girls tested on a regular basis).Thanks Alona for giving us the insider view of the industry. Glad to see at least one agency is giving some sex ed 101. I wonder if us clients start demanding the agencies give at least minimum safety training, what would happen.
Unfortunately, there is no way to know with 100% certainty who is safer: an agency, indy or civilian. Civilians may have been with fewer partners, but you really have no idea of how many and she may even have been an SP in a previous life. A virgin would carry no risk at all, but again it can be difficult to know if she truly is unless you're doing a medical test. In addition, civilians may have never been tested before or even heard of the Hassle Free Clinic. That's not to say that indys or agency girls have regular tests either, but they are more likely to have done it. Even a negative STI test doesn't prove anything either because there is always a gap between tests where someone can get infected.
I personally stick with well reviewed indy ladies too. Most of the well reviewed indys have clear restrictions and care about their personal hygiene. I haven't seen many agency girls since I share Alona's concern that the ladies are just cycled through as much as possible to maximize profit. This is not to say that agency girls are any less clean than indys. It simply depends on if the lady cares or knows about the safety risks and gets herself tested regularly.
I the OP truly wants to minimize risk, then stay at home to some pornSeriously though, an MPA probably more for you and don't go for the extras: kissing, bbcs, or ass slide on cock (can't remember if that's called italian or spanish?) Don't think you can get anything from a hand job or russian unless the MPA's hands / boobs happen to have blood on them / open wounds, or has metal slivers on them
One thing that hasn't been mentioned yet is that if the OP is going to start hobbying especially if you want FS, then you need to get yourself tested regularly. Triply so if you have a significant other in your life.
One thing never mentioned here is this. Testing yourself is useless. If you learn you are clean, you keep continuing. If you carry something, that may only help your wife. You still see girls (to be honest, most do not care about others) and perhaps now even more so, cause you think you have it already and it does not get worse than this.
So geting tested is good, but it does not help yourself, it helps others. Note to mention the feeling of guilt, anxiety, psychiatric issues etc. WE NEED TO LEARN HOW TO DO IT SAFELY BEFOREHAND.