I've never cheated on any girlfriends, and I'll try to stay true to that. It's a personal thing. I've known far too many cheaters who have ended up really hurting people I care about to want to be one of those people. I still get calls from ex's, and past flings to hook up these days (one reason to keep the same cell phone number for a long time eh?) but the idea of cheating on my girlfriend makes me sick of what it would do to her. Simply put, I love her through good times and bad.
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The way to get around that is to have an open relationship. That is when you're together, you're together and when you're apart each is free to do as they please. I'm not saying this is the way to go for everyone, but I believe in being completely upfront before the fact. I refuse to commit to anyone as long as feel I cannot be faithful. IMO, it's better to be in a casual dating/casual relationship mode since you're then free to do as you please in your "off" time. In effect, you get the best of both worlds, and so does your partner!sexy lady said:
Is it cheating if you don't get caught? Not trying to be callous, but if a tree falls in the forest and there is no one there to hear it, does it make a sound...
Cheating is kinda the same...isn't it?
Cheating is kinda the same...isn't it?
Bullshit. Cheating is cheating whether she finds out or not. For instance, those of you who are married took an oath to be faithful - unfortunately, monogamy doesn't work; thus the problem with the marriage lies in the fact that one of the two getting married is a man.wop said:
That's what every guilty person says. "Oh, sorry honey. It's in my nature. Therefore I don't have to take any personal responsibility for my actions."plymaker said:
If you want to cheat, fine. But at least have the balls to own up to it and admit that you're being unfaithful w/o concocting some b.s. about how it's in "man's nature." Gimme a break.
Dats cheating...
Well I know someone who would say that to cheat is cheating and cheating is when you cheat. If you cheat and are cheating then you are a cheater. And a cheater who cheats is cheating.
Well I know someone who would say that to cheat is cheating and cheating is when you cheat. If you cheat and are cheating then you are a cheater. And a cheater who cheats is cheating.
Cheaters anonymous
Hello, my name is,
hello, my name is,
hello, my name is,
Energizer Bee.
... and I am a CHEAT
don't you see?
[chorus] Hello Energizer Bee! [/chorus]
TERB confessional absolves me!
Hello, my name is,
hello, my name is,
hello, my name is,
Energizer Bee.
... and I am a CHEAT
don't you see?
[chorus] Hello Energizer Bee! [/chorus]
TERB confessional absolves me!Damn, I want some of the shit you are on EEEEEEEE B.
Methinks you use humour to downplay your feelings of guilt that you don't want to deal with fully and realize on an emotional level. Could it be true??
Methinks you use humour to downplay your feelings of guilt that you don't want to deal with fully and realize on an emotional level. Could it be true??
Now don't go playing rank amateur psychiatrist Seven!seven said:
We will leave that up to our little friend. Hahaha She was the best at rationalization. "But ... but ... I broke up with my boyfriend within minutes of the deed with the new guy ... and he STILL is my FRIEND so that made it OK!" hahahaNo, I truly AM an amoral PRICK! The foibles of human nature are what they are ... at their lowest common denominator ... beautiful. Fodder for great satire. Anyway according to you, I'm all right, "it" makes all the difference. Also I rationalize using the distinction between deceit and social definitions of unfaithfulness. ...
Oh who am I kidding??? Boo hoo hoo I can't stand myself anymore! You are so right Seven ... sniff ... sniff ... sniff ...
It is just like the tides ... the influence of the moon. La Lune my friend, la lune. Hey maybe that accounts for my excessive sex drive and my creative rationalizations as well.seven said:
I got a question for you EB based on your rationalizations using the distinction between deceit and social definitions of unfaithfulness. LOL.EnergizerBunny said:Now don't go playing rank amateur psychiatrist Seven!
If a MPA has a boyfriend is she a cheat if she only provides HJ's? Isn't motivation everything? See for a MP, a HJ is a service that she doesn't receive pleasure from and the motivation is not sexual to her but instead one of monetary gains. However, from the client's perspective it is cheating because the motivation is different, which is one of self-gratification on a sexual level. So is cheating the act or the motivation behind the act? Can this logic/rationalization be extended to FS in the case of SP's if the motivations remain the same or is the act too mutual in its nature?
Whatdya think?
Don't worry EB there are worse things in life than being a lousy cheat.
I adhere to the KISS principal
Cheat = Deceive.
If she deceives anyone she cheats.
If he deceives anyone he cheats.
If there is no deception = no harm / no foul.
I like to keep things simple.seven said:
Cheat = Deceive.
If she deceives anyone she cheats.
If he deceives anyone he cheats.
If there is no deception = no harm / no foul.
Machiavelli might have been proud, huh?seven said:
