COF...I don't get it!

reallywhiteguy

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OK, I know everyone has different sexual fantasies and desires. Some are basic...DATY, digits, BBBJ, and various positions that most gentlemen enjoy. CIM is pretty cool for most and CIM with swallow is even better, and certainly tidy. Though it has never appealed to me, I can see cum on tits (is the correct acronym COT?) as being pretty sexual. I am not at all into Greek but I can certainly see how some men could be, as long as you don't encounter a shift change on the way in...ugh! But COF (Cum on Face) just seems to be demeaning to the lady you are with. It is almost the reverse of a Golden Shower, which I don't get either but at least the guy is humiliating himself. I've tried a few things recently that I did not think would be sexually gratifying, only to have myself enlightened, but somebody convince me how this is gratifying. It just seems to be power tripping and disrespectful to the lady on the receiving end. How can a beautiful ladies face look more beautiful with my load all over it? Like I said....I don't get it.
 

Brill

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Sometimes sex is about exploring different emotions or your darker side, humiliation can be part of that. For some, a blow job can also be in that area.
It can also be about submitting without a hint of humiliation, she just wants the feel of her man's hot cum blasting unto her face.

It's all good if you're both consenting adults.
 

wet_suit_one

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Personally, I love it when my girlfriend comes on my face. Seems only fair. She cums on my face a lot too.

It should be good going both ways.

Heck, I need to clean up in the bathroom after she cums on my face too, so it's pretty equal that way, but I love it! To date, I've never blown one on her face, but the day is coming. We look forward to it! :D
 

Hurricane Hank

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If a chic squirts on your face, would you be humiliated? I find it erotic, not humiliating. So why can't a lady find the reverse to be erotic as well? Like most things, everyone has different tastes.
 

MrPrezident

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Generally if you lob a projectile into nicely done SP hair, they will not be happy. It is not unknown for a rocket launched by the Prez to overshoot into retricted airspace. If not CIM, then HJ fired deep into the Urals can promote the peace. ICBM = I come between mammaries.
 

Keebler Elf

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But COF (Cum on Face) just seems to be demeaning to the lady you are with.
In your humble opinion maybe. But not everyone thinks like you. Which is why some people like it and some people don't. I've been with chicks that loved it, made them feel sexy.

Really, posting how you don't understand why something is sexy is pointless. There are more fetishes than you can shake a stick out and just because you don't "get it" doesn't invalidate them.

Maybe you just need to loosen up. The hottest thing in the world is an open-minded chick...
 

wet_suit_one

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Generally if you lob a projectile into nicely done SP hair, they will not be happy. It is not unknown for a rocket launched by the Prez to overshoot into retricted airspace. If not CIM, then HJ fired deep into the Urals can promote the peace. ICBM = I come between mammaries.

Sweet message!

LOL
 

reaper29

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I think the whole COF is just someone wanting to imitate what they see in porn, allowing them check off one more item off their fantasy list.
 

reallywhiteguy

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Way Up Norh!
Wanted to create some discussion and clearly I did. All opinions are noted and very much respected. While it may not be for me (at least not now) your thoughtful replies have changed my opinion of the act itself. I thought the point about the girl squirting on my face was particularly valid because I would probably love that.

Thanks everyone.
 

C Dick

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It is not something I really seek out, but it is good for ending a porn. Cumming inside her does not cut it for porn, because you can't see it. COF is ideal, because it shows that you came, and it shows how wild she is, that she loves you to cum on her face. I have not made that much porn, but when I do, it must be COF. You just have to coach her to make sure she does not make a face or turn away, and ruin it. The best porn I ever made was with Mrs.CD and another lady, in a swinger club in Montreal. Double COF! But the DVD recorder was not set up properly, and it was not recorded. Oh well.
 

GPIDEAL

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At times, COF and/or CIM is a great way to release on a very appreciative & desirable woman.
 

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you are saying it like it's a bad thing
Would any lady here speak up? I've had girlfriends who found it quite exciting, and somewho found in disgusting, just like some find anal or oral sex disgusting or exciting.

Let me be clear here, I guess humiliation is in the eye of the beholder.... Don't do it if she feels humiliated by it (unless that's what she wants...), but don't assume it's a humiliation to her because you believe it is or should be.

As with anything in sexuality, communication between the partners brings out the most kinky stuff!
 

fmahovalich

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It is really a role play being played out. The lady (in OP case) submits by being on her knees and allows the squirting to occur.

In fact she may like it better than having to blow some creepy guys dick or letting him have intercourse.

she just may find it easier and not as intrusive!!
 

SquirtingDolly

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As a ladies point of view...I dont at all find it demeaning or degrading I think its "Hot" too just like some of you guys have stated just like I and well some men im with find it hot and exciting when I squirt on their face its satisfying for both parties involved....I just dont like it in the eyes that burns haha...besides its supposed to be good for the skin lol
 
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