Understand both sides
I have never procured a "wet" sexual service of any kind - fear has so far overpowered a mountain of frustration. But that time will come (and hopefully so will I).
I have accepted two years ago that I will never again get what I want outside the Industry, and furthermore any woman that I could pick up to have convenient no-strings sex is probably not much safer than an SP. So I'm working up the courage to gamble a lifetime of sacrifice & safety. My guess is by late-May (although if I see someone on the bus with a blister, it could again cool me off a couple more months...)
I will use protection for FS, even though I loose the erection about 33% of the time I try to put condoms on, but I will want DATY & BBBJ. To me, if I cant have the taste & warmth of the pussy, or fell the texture of lips & tonge on my cock, then I might as well keep jacking off for free along with weekly lap dance therapy. The human factor and intimacy is key to the excitement for me.