Could've, Should've Banged Her

[Nate1]

Troops your making me want to hit myself in the head with this thread. As I think back to my early 20's I blew off some really hot girls. I worked as a waiter in some trendy downtown restaurants with some smoking hot chicks. I can quickly think of three who were very clear about wanting a quickie. I lived with my girlfriend at the time and my morals kicked in and I turned them down. I know better now.

The freakiest story was a couple of years earlier, when I was about 20. My best friend from high school was dating a Polish girl who had a smoking hot sister. Both were curvy blonds with long thick hair, the sister the hotter of the two.

After high school they both went to Ryerson and lived in residence. One night my girlfriend and the two sisters went out for a night of clubbing and boozing. We ended up the night back at the residence with my friends girl passed out and my girlfriend drunk and passed out sitting beside me on the couch. The older, hotter sister started dancing in front of me and giving me a lap dance. She kept asking me to go to her room with her and I kept refusing, this went on for about half an hour before I woke my girlfriend up and left. Probably the dumbest move I made as the relationship with my girl went on too long and even if I had got caught it would have been for the best. Later on I found out she was cheating on me at the same time.

 

[nuprin001]

Not true... OK, maybe she did, but I didn't.

Years ago, before I was married, I was a bit of a sloot... I had a female friend who I knew was into me... but I was reluctant to take the friendship to the next level, because I knew she'd wanna make it an exclusive thing, and I didn't want that. She was nice... we had fun and all, but she wasn't "the one" for me, and I knew it... and she made it no secret she was on the hunt for a husband. :hand: Anyway, she asked me to be her date at her friend's wedding, just as a dance partner- no commitments etc. Hey, we'd been dancing before, and it was an open bar, so I agreed. She totally played me. The wedding hall was 2 blocks away from my apartment, and she got pretty wasted, as did I. She refused to take a cab home, and I was in no condition to drive, and she begged me to crash on my couch, so we walked back to my place. She walked right into my bedroom, took off all her clothes and jumped into bed. I went to the bathroom thinking "now what!". I left my undies on and climbed into bed with her, still wondering what to do... She snuggled up to me and passed out... I rolled over and went to sleep.

The next morning she was REALLY pissed I didn't make a move... I haven't spoken to her since. :Eek:

No regrets.

That story would only apply to my comment if I said "every guy regrets every girl he never banged." I realize I wasn't clear with the "the woman". "The woman" refers to THE woman. There's always THAT woman that you didn't bang, that you had the chance to, and that you regret. The flipside makes my context clearer: women don't regret every man they've banged. They regret THE man. THAT man. Every woman (at least, who aren't happily monogamous and lost it to the guy they're monogamous with) regrets that one guy in their history that was just the wrong dude. He was a dick, he was a jerk, whatever, but they regret being with him.

Sorry if my statement was unclear. I guess I figured everyone would be able to figure it out from the context.

 

[TROOPS]

Later on I found out she was cheating on me at the same time.

I'm convince now..........nothing wrong with thinking with our little heads. Absolutely nothing.

 

[james t kirk]

Maybe 10 years ago.

My best friend in life (brother from a different mother) had dumped his long time GF. (They were together maybe 7 or 8 years and obviously we knew each other very well. He was a bit of an ass to her, but hey, it went south.)

I was helping her move some stuff into her new apartment and at some point she sat on the couch beside me, started talking about this that, him, their shitty sex life, blah blah blah. I don't remember exactly how, but at some point she comes back to the living room wearing a camisole (or however you spell it) and nothing else. No panties. She's standing in front of me at some point and she raises herself up and her pussy is right in front of me (nicely trimmed Italian bush. She was very slim, incredibly long dark hair, small perky tits). Anyway, I'm DYING for it and start to caress her leg, but I'm thinking about my friend. Even though he dumped her - it was very recent. But she was so fucking gorgeous. At some point she says she's going to take a shower and off she goes, and she leaves the door the bathroom open. (She's coming on hard, and I'm hard and I'm not stupid. I know that if we fuck, she's going to tell him in some rage or another.)

Anyway, long story short, we never fucked. I wanted it so bad, but I didn't do it. I'm sure now, he wouldn't care less, but I never see her any more (and I see him all the time).

Such is life. You can't have your cake and eat it too sometimes.

 

[Butler1000]

Years ago I was best friends with a couple. Always had a blast with them going out. They were high school sweethearts. Engaged to be married. One friday I get a call from my buddy. Its over he says. Do I need to come over I say? No. He needs time to think, time alone. Ok give him his space I think and I know when he is ready in the next day or so he will call me.
About a half hour later his fiancee calls me. Wants to meet. Talk (we were very good friends too). Ok I say where. Go meet here at this bar. She is wearing the slut outfit. Micro-mini. Low cut top. Fuck-me pumps. Drink in hand. So we talk a bit about the break-up but she doesn't want to talk about it too much. Seems not too concerned about it. And the usual innocent flirting banter is being kicked up to another level. Fuck I think. She wants to revenge fuck or something. Well sorry but this is my bro. Anyway fended her off, made sure she got home safe and planned to never mention it again.
Sunday rolls around and my buddy calls me back and says the wedding is back on and he also asks me to be the best man. Absolutely I say. And never discuss it with them.

It wa only later I realized (I think) that the whole break-up had been a sham. What I'm still torn on is this....was it a test of my loyalty, or because she wanted to sow one last wild oat and my buddy gave his "approval" for me for this one last time.

 

[pointz]

Totally should have banged her. It's best to regret doing than not doing.

 

[Smash]

Have you ever been in a position where you could've banged a chick but then your morals kicked in and you stopped yourself?

I think back to this every so often and say to myself DAMN FOOLIO. 18YR OLD pussy wet and ready and i turned it down, all because of folks i met on vacation i'll never see again. Fuck!!!

Anybody wanna share their story?

Lol, I call those regrets the classic Homer Simpson D'oh! moment delayed. Sometimes you don't really realize the missed opportunity until weeks, months after. Then when you think back you yell D'OH! inside and then slap your forehead..

My pathetic D'oh story....

Wayy back in 1996 myself and 2 friends were on vacation in Dominican Republic. Staying at our resort were these 4 hot University girls from Montreal (one was white two were Filipino and the other was brown skin) all were hot though. So being the friendly person I am I quickly made friends with them and hung out with them on the resort. They would come and knock on our door when it was time for breakfest, lunch or dinner and I would walk them to the dining area and eat with them.. We also went swimming played tennis and did all the resort boring stuff together..

Now DR is filled with super hot women and if you like you can fcuk several women a day easy. So my friends and I were banging a few women a day on average during the nights when we went to clubs and explored the city. We never took the girls with us to clubs since we wanted to meet native women so every day by 6pm we left the resort to party.

The 3rd night we decided to not go out and stay for the beach party that the resort was throwing. Of course we hung out with the girls drinking and Merenguing on them at the party. Fast forward and several drinks later one of the Flip girls grabs me and tells me to walk her back to her room becus she "forgot something". Ok... I know what you're thinking and believe me at the time it didn't hit me what was going on as much as I don't want to admit it. I didn't think nothing of it.

So we get to her room she closes the door and starts Merenguing with me grinding up on me taking my hands and putting it on her ass. She moves in even closer and tells me that im a good dancer and she loves the cologne that im wearing. Her lips get about 4 inch's from mine then she gets the ole "kiss me you fool" look in her eye and guess what this idiot does next?

I push her off of me and say "lets get back to the party, your friends must be looking for you"

I kid you not at how utterly stupid and naive I was at the time. So after I pushed her off of me she gives me this "you suck" look and then pretends to grab something from her suitcase then we leave. The very last day of our stay the poolboy then tells me that the bartender had banged her later that night. This is when it hit me and I yelled out D'oh and slapped my forhead!

The whole way back I felt like the biggest loser chump queer. Now to add insult on top of injury. When I thought back about the trip I realized that I probably could'ov smashed her friends also since they never left the resort and no one was hitting on them the whole trip, they were bored. You know women like to get laid when on vacay and make it a mission to get drilled at least once before returning home. It doesn't matter who they smash jus as long as they get laid.lol
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XpMWVAE1MmY

 

[Imperius]

Wish I read this thread two days ago...

Yesterday... did a lot of grocery shopping and bought a ton of stuff. Parked in the condo's underground garage and was lugging 6 cloth bags filled to almost overflowing to the elevator. Noticed what looked like a young hottie (from the rear, anyway) about 50 feet ahead of me walking to the elevator, but with my arms stretched almost to breaking, fun was the last thing on my mind.

As I opened the security door to the elevator lobby, I heard the elevator doors open around the corner. Couldn't move fast under that load and took my time, figuring I'd have to wait for the next one anyway. As I eventually came around the corner, to my surprise the elevator doors remained open, and the young lady poked her head out to reassure me that she was holding the elevator for me. I thanked her and joined her inside. She asked me what floor I wanted.

As we rode up, we chit-chatted about the heavy load I was carrying, the cloth bags, if I had anything "good" in the bag, and she laughed at my inane joke. Really friendly girl, and pretty damn hot... probably early-to-mid 20s. She actually reminded me of an SP I saw recently, though it wasn't her. When we reached my floor, she held the door open for me. As I was about to leave, she hesitated for a moment, then smiled and asked if I wanted any help getting into my apartment. I said I was ok and thanked her as I left.

DOH!

Now I'm not THAT far off in age from her, so it wasn't a case of helping grandpa with his bags. As I said, if only I had read this thread a couple days ago...

 

[Ridgeman08]

Now I'm not THAT far off in age from her, so it wasn't a case of helping grandpa with his bags. As I said, if only I had read this thread a couple days ago...

If you are a single guy... let this be a lesson for you. NEVER let an opportunity go by to flirt with an attractive lady.

You never know where your next date will come from.

 

[destillat]

If you are a single guy... let this be a lesson for you. NEVER let an opportunity go by to flirt with an attractive lady.

You never know where your next date will come from.

Only if you're a single guy???

 

[Ridgeman08]

Only if you`re a single guy???

Well duh... Do you want THIS kinda drama in your life?

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?424569-Revenge-is-best-when-serve-cold

 

[Toronto`s Finest]

Wish I read this thread two days ago...

DOH!

Now I'm not THAT far off in age from her, so it wasn't a case of helping grandpa with his bags. As I said, if only I had read this thread a couple days ago...

Don't sweat it & read too much into it. ALSO she is not someone you met out somewere with NO chance to meet again. She is in your building so keep an eye out.

 

[gudnite]

Never, never let an opportunity slip between your fingers. Make the most of each and everyone, even if you don't have sex with her ALWAYS keep the door open for any future meeting.......

 

[great bear]

I must live a sheltered life.

 

[cuttysark]

I must live a sheltered life.

It's all that hibernating. Come out of the cave and be a man!!

 

[TROOPS]

Don't sweat it & read too much into it. ALSO she is not someone you met out somewere with NO chance to meet again. She is in your building so keep an eye out.

agreed........still hope for u Imperius. next time she has too many bags of groceries to carry, return the gesture of walking her to her apartment and see if she has any cucumbers or bananas in her bag.

 

[TROOPS]

Years ago I was best friends with a couple. Always had a blast with them going out. They were high school sweethearts. Engaged to be married. One friday I get a call from my buddy. Its over he says. Do I need to come over I say? No. He needs time to think, time alone. Ok give him his space I think and I know when he is ready in the next day or so he will call me.
About a half hour later his fiancee calls me. Wants to meet. Talk (we were very good friends too). Ok I say where. Go meet here at this bar. She is wearing the slut outfit. Micro-mini. Low cut top. Fuck-me pumps. Drink in hand. So we talk a bit about the break-up but she doesn't want to talk about it too much. Seems not too concerned about it. And the usual innocent flirting banter is being kicked up to another level. Fuck I think. She wants to revenge fuck or something. Well sorry but this is my bro. Anyway fended her off, made sure she got home safe and planned to never mention it again.
Sunday rolls around and my buddy calls me back and says the wedding is back on and he also asks me to be the best man. Absolutely I say. And never discuss it with them.

It wa only later I realized (I think) that the whole break-up had been a sham. What I'm still torn on is this....was it a test of my loyalty, or because she wanted to sow one last wild oat and my buddy gave his "approval" for me for this one last time.

From the sounds of it, they're not meant to be together. I would of banged her and save them both the trouble of ever being in a miserable relationship. If you're arguing while engaged, then its not meant to be.

 

[Nate1]

From the sounds of it, they're not meant to be together. I would of banged her and save them both the trouble of ever being in a miserable relationship. If you're arguing while engaged, then its not meant to be.

Funny, because it's true.

 

[wangbang]

I have little to add to this thread 'cuz any chance for 'lil wang" to come out he has come out.

 

[TROOPS]

I have little to add to this thread 'cuz any chance for 'lil wang" to come out he has come out.

smart man. from now on i'm thinking with my little head only. I no longer have scruples.