Swerve69 said:
Seeing you opened the door to the topic on fetishes, for the life of me I really cannot understand what the attraction is with Domination, S and M etc. Do guys really enjoy being humiliated and / or hurt? DO they also enjoy imparting the same to others? I am a firm believer in live and let live b ut I just cannot understand the attraction.
Yes, some guys, and some gals actually do enjoy pain. I understand it.... although I cannot enjoy it.
Here are some reasons why people may enjoy BDSM. Any of you BDSM peoples can add to it if you like
- part of the attraction of the whole pain experience is that pain is only the first part. The experience of the pain makes the pleasure to come that much better. The pain hurts, yet the upcoming gentle touch makes the slave feel.... loved or warm or something.
- Pain also releases endorphins, puts the mind in a certain state.... which can be very powerful. There is the rush of pain, and the intense pain actually causes a high.
- There is some other psychological reason which I cannot properly explain. I don't know... there's just something about feeling bad, which is so good. Being humiliated, dominated. I suppose it feels good to lose control, give, have another person completely in control of your body and your well being.
- and of course, the allure of being in control is that it feels good to control someone.
Lady Chyna said:
So many seem to think that the whole BDSM or Fetish scene is about Pain, Humiliation and Degradation.........and Yes, it is there for those who want it.
However, it truly can be a sexual high with long arousals though teasing and role playing that accents the positive with toys, feathers, ice, and just plain hedonistic pleasuring of both the Mistress and the Sub, or even Moresome scenes.
Usually it starts with a fetish checklist, the a scenario that you can edit to your own fantasy and then we make it happen. Pure escapism from the stresses of everyday life but after which we both return until the next time.
Creative sexual liaisons of a different kind await you. You can get vanilla at home.
Try it.........you might Like it.
Some might question if that counts as BDSM.
Eli said:
Furries will probably become a lot more popular. Currently, furry art is extremely popular among young anime fans. Check out a site like deviantart and you shall see. Oh.... or you could try
http://fchan.hentaiplanet.net/ to get a glimpse in to this new and difficult to explain fetish.