I feel for you because my niece just got her third and couldn't understand why I shook my head at her....and this one is a bigone on her shoulder blade (someone said it looked like sailermoon, she didn't like that). I told her if she ever gets a tennesee licence plate (tramp stamp is far better lol) I would never speak to her again...
When I said wtf to her father he said "I can accept it or ruin the relationship I have with her"......Well, if she KNOWS that she will do whatever the hell she wants so what's to stop her?
If I were you rgkv I'd simply say this to her: (still don't know how old she is but nonetheless)
Listen hon, I think as well as many others, that tattoos are for tramps. They ruin a perfect body. This is my opinion, I've stated it to you, imho you've joined a fad that is already fading quickly yet your tattoo is permanant. If you want to continue to ruin your body, restrict your choices for employment and annouce to the world that you are not unique, that you follow the herd, then by all means, go right ahead and I won't say another word.
BUT at no time in the close, or distant future do I want to hear ONE word about how you regret doing it or how you didn't get into college/work/promotion because of it. EVER. You've made your bed, now sleep in it!
BTW: if you ever bring up the topic of regretting it? I will paint in BOLD WHITE LETTERS I TOLD YOU SO on the side of your car.....
BTW: just for the record I think some tats are hot on some women. ALL? NEVER there are some that wear them well and some that don't, some have taste in what they choose MOST don't. Like that trailer tramp rose that so many have on their ankles......GOD I hate THOSE