Declining a shower... Not good?

[rexscott]

OP.

Thanks for the feedback, I will not equivocate about a shower in future.

The reason I would prefer to avoid one, is, being hairy, towels will not get me dry (that would need a blow dryer); so a shower means feeling clammy during a session.

 

[massman]

Always shower. No reason to decline.

 

[kherg007]

what's the other 2

Not honouring her limits (too rough, sticking fingers where they are not welcome, stealthing, etc)
Negotiating, particularly after arrival
of course any criminal act against her should not have to be listed as they are offences already

 

[FittySpent]

Always shower. No reason to decline.

Yup!

 

[randomott]

One thing is if a provider is asking me to take a shower first, it better be spotless. Nothing is nastier than standing in a dirty shower thats had who knows how many people in it since it was cleaned.

 

[NoillyPrat87]

Personally, shower is a MUST. *If you do not want to take a shower, if I'm being really honest; it's a turn off right away.

Here's a tip for my girls: Offer him to take it with him 🫧 . (If he still refuses, well..."Do your best 🥲 " or let him go and take notes for next time.. )

Some people have a lot of "dirty" little secrets(FET) also... Smelly, sitcky ones.

You take a shower. That's it.

You were in the shower with me the first time I've met you. I clearly remember

 

[Pinkpanther80]

I would always shower and brush my teeth and mouthwash before I went and saw any girl. Never got asked to shower and if they offered I would have said no and if that changed any opinion about me I really would not care as I am paying for a service and if I wanted to pay for a judgement I would still be married or dating!

 

[Markdougs8989]

Ladies have told me that a client refusing a shower is a top 3 offence...

That’s honestly gross

 

[Markdougs8989]

You think we DON’T shower in between clients? Lol what kind of whack ass providers are you seeing?

Norm you do it with each client