as i said trying to educate myself, i've sent deposits and have no problem at all w deposits, but wanting my drivers license or passport? that makes me scaredI can tell you from tracking data that deposits make at minimum a 20% improvement in income; increase safety; improve the quality of clients and make clear communication that a booking is firm. Deposits also facilitate touring, securing a pooled incall space (the fee for which is due whether the client shows up or not) and help to cover other expenses so that we can manage cash-flow.
And there are also client benefits such as having your time secured; knowing you’re not double-booked; and ensuring timeliness so we can stay on schedule and also respect yours.
Additionally, a deposit improves the level of service I can give and therefore the level of service you will receive. With a deposit I can confidently spend a nice amount of time tarting up including making beautycare appointments, cleaning my space, prepping gear and getting into the right mood because I know you’re coming. The personal investment that I’m going to make is just much higher with a deposit. And my stress goes way down, so I’m more happy and excited to meet you. Lower cortisol is good for orgasms guys!
Even more astonishingly, deposits are known to reduce the numbers of client car accidents and deaths of your grandparents!
To me deposits assist great clients in meeting great providers and so not something you should automatically fear but welcome once you’ve done enough research to be truly confident you’re in safe hands. And if you don’t have that confidence, maybe think twice about making the booking at all because losing a deposit should be the least of your worries in an industry where so much else can go wrong.
Deposits?
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Well, your list of banks is very minimal. My bank is nowhere listed here.
Ok, there's a moment where we need to stop it... Do I have to change bank to feed my hobby life now? Doesn't make sense to me.
So, like I said in the other thread going on since this morning, I'll pass. And I'm doing great without any deposit or any crazy screening.
I agree to send a deposit by gift card and for the screening, a reference from a previous provider is ok. But that's it.
I believe that many reputable ladies are safe. Ones with web presence, maybe reviews, but Twitter and social media is always a safe bet. Like any business, if it’s taken seriously it should be smooth.
I always prefer cash for Incalls. About the only reason Inuse cash these days.
however the number of “deposit scams” have increased.
I always prefer cash for Incalls. About the only reason Inuse cash these days.
however the number of “deposit scams” have increased.
The problem is that the scammers that scam you guys fake book real escorts. It was so bad at one point ALL of my bookings were fake one day. I havent had that problem in a while but they dont stop. They try almost everyday, multiple times a day and they can be very threatening and abusive when they fake book and get caught doing it.
Deposits arent really required but sometimes its the only way to weed out the scammers from the real people. At the very least it can deter the scammers... but it also deters the real clients and that's what the scammers want.
If escorts dont have a method to figure out whos real and who is a scammer they unfortunately have to put up with the abuse.
I stopped accepting texting apps for bookings and I had my first time waster tonight in months.
He booked and then cancelled after I asked if he was sure he could make it several times. I cancelled a pedicure and pushed back plans even though I was done for the day and he screwed me around but this used to happen daily. Sometimes multiple times a day.
The scammers force women to have to accept deposits but generally it doesnt cost a woman anything to get stood up. It costs in lost wages but I think most real escorts are going the route of NOT taking deposits for incall to show that they are real.
A person asking for a deposit isnt automatically a scammer but 100% of scammers are looking for deposits.
The reason why a real escort would need deposits is because of all the fake bookings from the scammers on LL.
I take deposits for outcall and some people read "deposit" and lose their shit calling me everything they can think of...but its just how it is. If I dont ask for them, I get sent all over the place on fake calls.
Deposits arent really required but sometimes its the only way to weed out the scammers from the real people. At the very least it can deter the scammers... but it also deters the real clients and that's what the scammers want.
If escorts dont have a method to figure out whos real and who is a scammer they unfortunately have to put up with the abuse.
I stopped accepting texting apps for bookings and I had my first time waster tonight in months.
He booked and then cancelled after I asked if he was sure he could make it several times. I cancelled a pedicure and pushed back plans even though I was done for the day and he screwed me around but this used to happen daily. Sometimes multiple times a day.
The scammers force women to have to accept deposits but generally it doesnt cost a woman anything to get stood up. It costs in lost wages but I think most real escorts are going the route of NOT taking deposits for incall to show that they are real.
A person asking for a deposit isnt automatically a scammer but 100% of scammers are looking for deposits.
The reason why a real escort would need deposits is because of all the fake bookings from the scammers on LL.
I take deposits for outcall and some people read "deposit" and lose their shit calling me everything they can think of...but its just how it is. If I dont ask for them, I get sent all over the place on fake calls.
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Fair enough... I understand your perspectives. And honestly, I feel sorry for all what you guys are going through.
But, why asking for references is not enough? I know everybody needs to start somewhere, but why can't you do it for established clients? (Ok, maybe I'm delusional, please educate me...).
Ok, got your perspective. Rarely heard that. I heard it before but rarely.
Well your problem remains full. But if you have your clients with deposits, be it.
From experience, I can confidently tell you that you absolutely want to see Ruby tarted up. Whatever she tells you she needs to go full tart, you should absolutely do.
I will add for the ladies, to be careful with IDs. With IA, it's getting easier and easier everyday to make a virtual fake ID. It's not the guarantee of safety that it used to be.
I have no issue with deposits if they can be done without exposure, but I'll never share personal information. Once you do that, you lose control over it forever.
Obviously I see why providers request it, their security is just as valid a concern.
Obviously I see why providers request it, their security is just as valid a concern.
