I don't think he lost the battle. He presented his position fairly well and I'm somewhat in agreement If I understand him correctly.
So perhaps he's won the battle?
As I understand him, he is saying someone who sends someone else a picture of their Willy is a creep, if it is unsolicited.
Guess what? I agree
I agree with that too. But that is not ALL he is saying.
What I don't agree with is his attempt at shaming women and him not understanding the difference between consent and non-consent.
Sending a dick pic to someone itself is not a bad thing. There is nothing creepy about a dick pic itself. It is about how it is sent.
When a man sends an unsolicited dick pic it is without consent. That is what makes it creepy. The lack of consent.
When a man sends a pic as a part of paid service, then yes of course he is being a gentleman because he is doing it with consent of the lady offering the service.
When a man sends a dick pic to his girlfriend that wants one, that is being a gentleman as well. The difference again - consent.
It is consent that is the difference and he doesn't get that. He is saying the difference is a factor of money, therefore all women offering this service are money hungry bitches and That is not the case. It is consent that is the differing factor. He doesn't understand or accept that.
In his words - he doesn't give a fuck what we do about unsolicited pics - he doesn't care at all. Let us women just deal with that on our own. But heaven forbid we consent to having them sent as a part of service. Plenty of escorts, including his ATF would not consent to sex with him/men without money being involved either. So either we are all money hungry or we are having our right to chose for ourselves and consent to certain activities.
His focus is on the money, not on the consent. That is the issue I and others are having with his argument. And why he is losing the battle. You will never will a battle when you disagree with a persons right to choose and consent for themselves. You just won't.
We have the right to chose for ourselves if we consent to dick pics. We have the right to consent for a fee without shaming. That is for ALL escort services. Including the ones his ATF offers.