Strongbeau said:
Say it ain't so!You were my hero. Its a terrible thing when a legend goes down.
Do all real men cheat?
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Say it ain't so!You were my hero. Its a terrible thing when a legend goes down.
Point #1:
The poster is not very bright and likely does not even comprehend the gravitus of his question. That being said,
Point #2:
We men are without question genetically programmed to desire multiple sex partners. However, if we willingly agree to commit ourselves to a monogomous relationship then we owe our spouses a moral obligation to maintain that commitment. If the urge to destroy that commitment overwhelms the desire to stay in such a committed relationship it is probably better for all involved to sever the relationship and return to what is really man's natural state of having multiple sex partners. It appears to me that committed relationships are merely antiquated religious & government constructs intended to maintain social order and foster 'traditional' family values through the calculated exploitation of basic human emotions such as fear and guilt. Looking forward into the future I suspect that society will evolve to the point where organized religion's role will be vastly diminished and government will have instituted suitable methods to maintain social order that the idea of being monogomous will become far less conventional in the western world.
The poster is not very bright and likely does not even comprehend the gravitus of his question. That being said,
Point #2:
We men are without question genetically programmed to desire multiple sex partners. However, if we willingly agree to commit ourselves to a monogomous relationship then we owe our spouses a moral obligation to maintain that commitment. If the urge to destroy that commitment overwhelms the desire to stay in such a committed relationship it is probably better for all involved to sever the relationship and return to what is really man's natural state of having multiple sex partners. It appears to me that committed relationships are merely antiquated religious & government constructs intended to maintain social order and foster 'traditional' family values through the calculated exploitation of basic human emotions such as fear and guilt. Looking forward into the future I suspect that society will evolve to the point where organized religion's role will be vastly diminished and government will have instituted suitable methods to maintain social order that the idea of being monogomous will become far less conventional in the western world.
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How old are you, 20? Anybody with a little life experience understands the numerous reasons for extra-marital relationships.bandita said:
By the way, it takes a stronger will to stay in an unsatisfying marriage (for the benefit of your kids, etc) than to get out, do your own thing, and damn the consequences. If you don't know this yet, you will.
Everyone thought that such things would never happen in their lives. In fact, it ends up happening in most people's lives!
You think I am immature because I don't embrace deceit?
And I agree with you that it takes a stronger person to adhere to their commitments.
I don't care if people have open relationships. I am talking about the "cheaters". Those are the ones who claim to be monogamous while lying to those closest to them.
Real Men?
Hardly.
And I agree with you that it takes a stronger person to adhere to their commitments.
I don't care if people have open relationships. I am talking about the "cheaters". Those are the ones who claim to be monogamous while lying to those closest to them.
Real Men?
Hardly.
I have never cheated on any of my wives or girlfriends. I have gone to SP's and MP's but I don't consider that cheating, it is a business transaction.
Its like If my wife were a hairdresser and I went to an outside barber to get my hair cut.
I also wouldn't mind if my wife or GF were paying for sex as long as it wasn't my money.
Its like If my wife were a hairdresser and I went to an outside barber to get my hair cut.
I also wouldn't mind if my wife or GF were paying for sex as long as it wasn't my money.
most men that maybe considered cheaters, screw other women from time to time but really only ever love the person they are with..sex is sex that's all it really is, having a second relationship where ones emotions are involved is what should be considered cheating
*IMO*
*IMO*
FatOne said:
Read my post carefully. I didn't say it was morally acceptable. That's something we have to decide for ourselves.
There's a reason they call it "The Oldest Profession."
I would be irate. Moreso because it was taking place in my home. People have all sorts of reasons for their infidelities. I also look at SPs and MPs as a business transaction rather than an emotional need. JMHO. I'm sure some people cheat for deeper, emotional reasons. I hobby for variety, end of story.
Both men and women cheat. The only diferrence is that man always get caught while the women are a little smarter. But when a woman gets caught its always the hubby's fault for neglecting her emotional needs. While when a man gets caught, he is a cheating lying pig!!!!
Forgiveness please. However what you posted sounded like the sort of thing people often use to justify such things.nautilus said:
If it were natural then be upfront about it, one shouldn't promise something either explicit or implicit if one dosen't think it is natural and thus doable.
Nothing wrong with an open relationship, however very few can handle the idea of it [as least both ways] and even fewer can handle the reality of it. It requires a certain mindset which is all to often rare.
But then again, thats just what I think, and everything I say, think and do is pretty much considered wrong.
In my experience, people who cannot deal
honestly with others are often, to begin with,
not honest with themselves.
Nor indeed can it be said that they know themselves
well, or that they are aware of their own best
interests (especially long-term best interests).
It is not merely selfish to be conscious of
the reality of one's own desires; in fact, it may
be a prerequisite to being able to deal responsibly
with others.
Too often, people make commitments (in their ignorance)
that (objectively) they have little hope of fulfilling
(whether they know it or not).
When these commitments reach their inevitable ends, I
have a hard time believing that it is not, in the end,
better for all concerned...
honestly with others are often, to begin with,
not honest with themselves.
Nor indeed can it be said that they know themselves
well, or that they are aware of their own best
interests (especially long-term best interests).
It is not merely selfish to be conscious of
the reality of one's own desires; in fact, it may
be a prerequisite to being able to deal responsibly
with others.
Too often, people make commitments (in their ignorance)
that (objectively) they have little hope of fulfilling
(whether they know it or not).
When these commitments reach their inevitable ends, I
have a hard time believing that it is not, in the end,
better for all concerned...
No wiser words have ever been spoken.DonQuixote said:
I don't trust women whatsoever. (Other than my mother and my sister.)
They are constantly re-evaluating, analyzing, scheming, and looking to move up. A woman's word is good for the day and then it expires at the first moment they feel you have done something to warrant them going back on their word.
