I'd say the same holds true for escorts as well. Once a lady gets used to large sums rolling in, the prospect of working 9-5 at a conventional job for a lot less money starts to lose its appeal.Eli said:
Do Rising Tuition Costs Influence The Availability of Escorts??
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dg235av2aa64w said:
thats how i paid for my studies and then i never persued a career in my chosen feild of studies. go figure.
i remember paying my tuition on my own cause osap wouldnt give me any. on top of that i had to cover all of my own living expenses as well. there were times where i had to bum $2.25 off a friend to take the bus to school and hope a friend could drive me to my low paying job. one teacher even had the gall to tell me to leave school untill i had the the time to devote to school. I had 2 jobs and was damned if i went to work, and damned if i didnt. thats when i got a little whisper in my ear about MP and how much money could be made in the business.
I finally worked up the nerve to try it, and next thing you know im working untill 4 am anyway and my grades slipped a point or two. i started in the business sporting 3.6 gpa and graduated at a 3.4. what a bummer.
Since then i have further pursued my education while remaining in the business and am about to embark on a real estate course just for the hell of it!
would i have been better off just roughing it out? who knows.
sometimes i wish i was strong enought to find out
I finally worked up the nerve to try it, and next thing you know im working untill 4 am anyway and my grades slipped a point or two. i started in the business sporting 3.6 gpa and graduated at a 3.4. what a bummer.
Since then i have further pursued my education while remaining in the business and am about to embark on a real estate course just for the hell of it!
would i have been better off just roughing it out? who knows.
sometimes i wish i was strong enought to find out
Go to sp's and mpas??? lolJohnC said:
Pritty: while I was reading your post the first thing that came to mind was if you had a college/university education, why are you still an MPA? Kind of a catch 22 situation, the reason you became an MPA is to pay for your schooling but if you hadn't gone to school, you probably wouldn't still be an MPA, or ever for that matter.
I also know that even to get a reasonable job these days you need college or uni. and it won't be as near as you'd make being an MPA (or so I gather). The difference is that a sex worker job has no real future or advancement while starting a corporate job or starting your own biz, does.
My advice to anyone in the sex industry (and to our pritty kitty) is to live within your means, put some $$ away into bonds or other blue chip stock, and if you don't know what field you would enjoy working in, keep educating yourself and try new things until you do. I know, easier said than done....
Couldn't agree more.tboy said:
That may explain why it can be really dangerous for the guy to fall in love or having an emotion ties/infactuation to your regular SP or MPA, on top of the saying "there is no true love in the industry".
Cause you never know what kind of "liabilities" you are going to have emotionally and financially. This is also true to the SP/MPA as she can have too high expectation.
Regarding spending habits, I guess the difference between the "civilians"/non-pros and the pros should not be that significant as one do not need to learn how to spend excessively, except the industry magnifies the spending habits big time.
The industry is a double-edged sword for female undergrads as it provides fast money to pay down tuition debts fast while giving "flexibility" to focus on their studies but it can also be addictive as the fast money can "corrupt" the original purpose and turn the ladies in a rat race-earning more fast money to live on expensive lifestyle.
Plus, I always suspect many pros will probably not in any mood to entertain, let alone date and marry guys outside and inside the business. There are always exception but the stakes are always against her.
As far as finding a "replacement" job that compensate equal to this business, unless she is lucky enough to be a "trophied" wife of the very rich men, mostly white dude, otherwise just forget about it.
Personally, I have a couple of regular/favourite (infacturation) SP/MPA in this industry. Both seem to value my business and either of them shows her affection towards me as a person but I could never prove whether it is scripted. Sometimes I am tempted to express my feeling similar to tboy but giving up idea the last minute, for fearing to be labelled as patronizing, meddling or worse lecturing her how to get a life!
Deep in my heart, I wish both will get retired from the business, find mates who really cares them and have a much better life together going forward. But that will mean I lose a "buddy/friend", something others say money can buy in any case.
Damn, wtf am I talking here
So true, the "career" span in this industry is short. If you lose your look and shape, either you spend big on cosemtic surgery or get retirement before late 30s. By then she is hopefully saving enough to start another business or 2nd act but this is not optimistic for many.tboy said:
Easier said than done for both in and outside the business. If she lives beyond her means, puts no money into investment/retirement, is not educated to be well informed and tries new things, it won't matter whether she earns regular paycheques as "civilians" or fast money as popular, highly coverted SP or MPA.tboy said:
It should never happen as it's pretty easy to score at the campus, especially those party schools. Guys do not need to pay for fun.tboy said:
Unless you are not that good looking and not having "Rocco's asset", only then you probably need a pro, pretending you are really a stud
This is not a New thing, One of the Ladies I've been seeing did this 15 years ago to help pay for University.
Supply and Demand
Everyone wants to go to University, so the schools can afford to raise tuition up until the point they see a dip in enrollment, then they freeze it. If we're lucky, there will be a trades rennaisance soon and people will realize Plumbers make more money than a lot of Lawyers. If/when this happens, schools will freeze tuition and the rule of inflation will allow wages and dollar values to make tuition seem relatively cheaper... then the process starts again.
I was in Univerisity nearly seven years. Paid for it myself working in the trade I knew I was going into since I was 15. I stayed as long in school as I could to have a good time. The education was secondary to me not giving up my youth to the grind as soon as I could have.
Everyone wants to go to University, so the schools can afford to raise tuition up until the point they see a dip in enrollment, then they freeze it. If we're lucky, there will be a trades rennaisance soon and people will realize Plumbers make more money than a lot of Lawyers. If/when this happens, schools will freeze tuition and the rule of inflation will allow wages and dollar values to make tuition seem relatively cheaper... then the process starts again.
I was in Univerisity nearly seven years. Paid for it myself working in the trade I knew I was going into since I was 15. I stayed as long in school as I could to have a good time. The education was secondary to me not giving up my youth to the grind as soon as I could have.
