Early vs late appointments

[throwaway20252025]

Not sure if this is the right place to post this, but just looking for opinions from people with more expertise than me. In your experience, when is the best time to visit an in call SP to get the best service - at the beginning of their booking session, in the middle or towards the end?

 

[Sonic Temple]

I have had great luck with early appointments.

 

[samml]

I had some SPs mention they were tired when saw them at night. Try to avoid late hour bookings. Last time slots in the evening should be fine, but I would avoid late nights.

 

[The Options Menu]

If scheduling allows I usually aim for the beginning 1/3rd of a provider's shift. It's less about being squeamish about guys being there before me and more about the provider being rested and lowering the odds of a provider having a bad client before seeing me. It seems to have worked alright for me.

 

[jalimon]

Early on their shift. I always felt a bit sorry for the dude seeing the girl after me hehe

 

[Y_Diner]

I can see the appeal for early or later ones. Both have benefits and drawbacks. Personally I do prefer later just bc I don’t want to have to go to work or whatever after and have afterglow all day. I’ll just be thinking about it and her and wanting to be “inside” all day lol.
Laters in the day, I can go home and chill, or meet up w friends and have food and drinks and relax, of if I still have some gas n the tank, go get some lap dances, mp, or see another sp, or fwb.

Yes I am insatiable lmao!

If I am her last and a reg, I am not pushing this, up to her and I, but many times if shes not in a rush it’s just super relaxing bc no rush to leave and I can rest up a little more before leaving. Sometimes I’ve chilled w the sp, had a drink at the hotel bar, gotten a bite, 420 in the room or outside.

 

[jimsa56]

pros and cons in both

pros in the morning - SP has energy.
Cons in the morning - May struggle with reaching climax during the first session. Will be on the clock given long day ahead | She could be late to her first meeting so some minutes could be lost | Client maybe stressed given he has work later

pros at the end - willing to give you extra time if you are her last client (ymmv of course). More likely to reach climax again as she most likely has reached climax earlier (YMMV) / Client is not stressed as he doesnt have to return to work
Cons - SP maybe tired

 

[throwaway20252025]

Wow this is all great. I couldn't find another post on this topic - thank you all so much for the help! If anyone has anything else to add, I'd love to hear your opinion too.

 

[unassuming]

I have always booked the first appointment of an SP's day, Her hygiene is the cleanest as well as giving great service..

 

[The Options Menu]

I have always booked the first appointment of an SP's day, Her hygiene is the cleanest as well as giving great service..

Though, then you have to deal with the provider trying to get to the incall on time. Even if a provider is reliable getting around the GTA is not. (Most of the delays I've had have been with providers at the very beginning of their shift, but YMMV.)

 

[throwaway20252025]

Though, then you have to deal with the provider trying to get to the incall on time. Even if a provider is reliable getting around the GTA is not. (Most of the delays I've had have been with providers at the very beginning of their shift, but YMMV.)

I agree. this is one of the things I was worried about too

 

[Burldude]

Though, then you have to deal with the provider trying to get to the incall on time. Even if a provider is reliable getting around the GTA is not. (Most of the delays I've had have been with providers at the very beginning of their shift, but YMMV.)

True, it happened a few times. Part of the game.

But for me I book a time that works for me. I usually have more energy in the morning, so earlier the better.

 

[jimsa56]

in the morning - is better but more stressful if you have to go run back to work (Weekdays) - the boss always checks if you are back by the hour .

 

[GeeBee]

It depends on the SP. Like every human some are morning people and have the energy etc.. mentioned above, but others aren’t and are much more lively and into things later in the day or at night. I’m personally a morning guy when it comes to seeing escorts, but if the girl is a night owl and has been out with friends or working late the previous night you’re not going to see her at her best.

 

[Leipani]

I used to be a first appointment only person for many years.


Although a while back, I saw an sp for her last shift and after we were done she asked me if I wanted to smoke a joint on the balcony with her. I ended up sticking around for an hour. We really got along. I started booking her last shift whenever i could. We used to just hang out and talk. Or have more sex. We’d order Uber eats to the incall or just go get dinner. She never charged me for the extra time. I remember one night walking into the incall at 9pm for a 1hr appt and getting back to my car around 1.

So there are some merits to the last spot.

 

[Josephine]

My sweet spot is between 2pm and 9pm. I am hornier if I had times to put a workout in which is generally in the morning around 10am.

 

[jimsa56]

I used to be a first appointment only person for many years.

Although a while back, I saw an sp for her last shift and after we were done she asked me if I wanted to smoke a joint on the balcony with her. I ended up sticking around for an hour. We really got along. I started booking her last shift whenever i could. We used to just hang out and talk. Or have more sex. We’d order Uber eats to the incall or just go get dinner. She never charged me for the extra time. I remember one night walking into the incall at 9pm for a 1hr appt and getting back to my car around 1.

So there are some merits to the last spot.

^^ i have had the same experience. on the last appointment, she was a bit more relaxed (Given work done for the day) and willing to give me an extra 45 mins. I too was more relaxed as i didnt have to run back to work and no meetings.

but hey -- ymmv as always.

 

[LTO_3]

I've always preferred midnights at my place since that removes the "nosy neighbour" issue (well, usually) but there have been an SP or 2 that prefer days only so I've had to make some adjustments when I see them.

LTO_3

 

[The Options Menu]

@Leipani and @jimsa56

That's interesting. It sounds like not a bad idea, especially with a well liked regular, though nobody should come to expect free time (and everyone should take a hint about getting out the door). Not that I'm saying you guys need to take a hint, it's more for folks who think this is genius idea but may not have the best social skills.

 

[Brown Nose Bear]

It depends entirely on the SP. For every SP that's fresh in the morning but tired at night, there's another that's lethargic in the morning and energized at night, and there are many that are always good to go no matter the time.