Royal Spa

Email from an escort

If you get an email out of the blue from an escort asking how you're doing, then:

  • She's actually interested in knowing how you are.

    Votes: 5 4.7%
  • She's trying to drum up business.

    Votes: 51 47.7%
  • A bit of both.

    Votes: 34 31.8%
  • How should I know, women are inscrutable to men.

    Votes: 17 15.9%

  • Total voters
    107

Toguy54

Member
Jul 6, 2005
91
0
6
Greater Toronto Area
So, when an escort emails you out of the blue to ask you how you are doing, what should you believe?
 

GDLLover

Pop Rock Kid
Depends,

If she has seen any posts from you where you were down, etc. she could be genuinely following up to see how your doing.

Not all inquirys always lead to sex. It works for both sides, sometimes it starts social and turns into a penpal friendship.

If you've never posted, well maybe fishing for business.
 

moviefan

Court jester
Mar 28, 2004
2,529
0
0
This is another one of those things in the hobby that isn't worth analyzing.

Why does it matter why she wrote to you? Enjoy the fact she thought of you, whatever the reason, and leave it at that.
 

tool_man05

Active member
Nov 5, 2007
527
68
28
Got a PM from a Lady totally out of the blue, never seen her before and it has turned into one of the best times ever, lol.
 

MuffinMuncher

And very good at it
Oct 3, 2001
4,604
6
38
56
Here
Why does it matter why she wrote to you? Enjoy the fact she thought of you, whatever the reason, and leave it at that.
Agreed. Sometimes it's sincere and sometimes it's a veiled attempt to drum up some business. Either way, she took the time to contact you which means you're probably a decent guy that she wouldnt mind seeing again.
 

KatiePie

New member
May 31, 2009
148
0
0
4 x 6 Dorm Room
The SP-Client relationship. The one scenario where the guy digs deeper for "meaning" in the a simple act than a woman.

Take it as a compliment that she remembers you specifically and genuinely wants to know how you're doing. : )

I don't know how it works around here with it, but I personally like to keep in touch. We're people too. :eek:
 

smylee52

Tongue please
Aug 5, 2006
2,508
3
38
.

LOL . If you need to share with the world that you got an Email from a hooker then it sounds like she knows who to send them to. The question you need to send back is " Will you have dinner with me off the clock ?" . That is if you really want at least a partial answer to your question .


Don't read too much into it . She's doing her job .
 

smylee52

Tongue please
Aug 5, 2006
2,508
3
38
WORDS OF WISDOM, especially assuming we are talking about real e-mails;(where you have become close enough to exchange personal information). I rate PMs further down on the scale, but still important regarding checking in-seeing how each of you is doing. I too like to keep in touch, depending on the lady's comfort level.

While my situation is likely different from many/most, for my favorite ladies, they do know me personally, and can call me at anytime -it's an EXTREMELY short list of SUPER SPECIAL ladies, both currently working, and retired to the public, where we have developed an exceptional level of TRUST.



Just so people who haven't been around the hobby world for long maintain a clear perspective of "relationship building " with SP's how many thousands of dollars did this closeness with the Super Special Ladies cost you (LOL) , I hope these Special Ladies have other Special friends as well . In fact I am sure they do . After all that would be a lot of pressure on you if you were their only Special friend.

I know photographers are Special friends to the ladies because they make them look Special in pictures . Just wondering what you do that's so Special .
Care to share your secret for others that want Super Special friends too .


BTW - I know some friendships develop through the biz but the successful one's are rare . Bottom line - money talks bullshit walks.
 

smylee52

Tongue please
Aug 5, 2006
2,508
3
38
The SP-Client relationship. The one scenario where the guy digs deeper for "meaning" in the a simple act than a woman.

Take it as a compliment that she remembers you specifically and genuinely wants to know how you're doing. : )

I don't know how it works around here with it, but I personally like to keep in touch. We're people too. :eek:

Do you keep in touch because you have met someone (s) you are genuinely interested in as a friend or just maintaining you client list . Not judging just asking .

Do you see clients off the clock for social engagements like dinner or a movie ? Yes it's a rhetorical question (LOL) .
 

KatiePie

New member
May 31, 2009
148
0
0
4 x 6 Dorm Room
Do you keep in touch because you have met someone (s) you are genuinely interested in as a friend or just maintaining you client list . Not judging just asking .

Do you see clients off the clock for social engagements like dinner or a movie ? Yes it's a rhetorical question (LOL) .
Actually, I do see my clients off the clock. It's not uncommon for me to grab a bite to eat or even a quick drink afterwards. Yes, my time is money but I'm young and I don't feel like I've wasted time if I enjoy their company aswell.
 
Ashley Madison
Toronto Escorts