Feeld
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I used it for a month back in Jan/Feb and sent a bunch of pings to people but got not a single reply.
I thought maybe it was a scam or something. But I just signed up last week and 2 days later I got a like from a woman about 45 minutes from my house
We chatted a bit, exchanged kinks, talked logistics and made a tentative plan but she's gone silent on me for the last 2 days.
At least that shows me it CAN work. The issue is those pings get expensive and most women will ignore likes.
Update: she just got back in touch and said she was busy with work. Maybe something will happen but I'm not trying to force it.
I will say I am excited at the prospect of having free casual sex with a stranger, something I haven't done since I my very first time when I was 17.
The cool thing was once we started chatting, I was trying to be cool, thinking like normal dating app approach.
She went right to what's your kink? What kind of punishments have you given etc
I was like OK, I guess were getting right down to business.
I am going to keep working it and see what I can make happen. Would love to have a regular FWB thing going on.
I think one of the issues for me before was I just recycled my photos and bio from my dating app profile. Feeld has a lot more edge to it. I need to up my game a bit on the profile and pics to fit in.
I did that a bit and I think that's why I got this one chat, and once I do more I can get more hopefully.
Are you on it?
I have a similar experience with Feeld.
A huge amount of time and effort with little return. One ligit chat similar to Newguy but nothing came of it.
My hunch is the ratio of guys to women is massive, and the most of the female profiles I saw were for BBWs.
I guess a younger very attractive guy might have a chance to be seen through all the noise, but alas I am not one of them.
I agree on all counts. And to be clear, I am not one of the young attractive guys of which you speak, and the woman I am talking to is nowhere near as attractive as the SPs we see.
But if anything seeing SPs has opened my mind to being open to more kinds of women.
I am still very picky too in terms of what I want: no spectators or participants, any couples looking for extras are a hard no.
I signed up for a 1 year subscription so I'm going to try it out. The things is, it is a very inclusive environment.
There are all kinds of women, not just conventionally attractive ones, so they are not going to get the young attractive guys either.
And I am specifically looking for a couple flavours of kink and people on there are very open.
I'll report back if I have any success.
Much like fetlife there are tons of chatbots who's sole purpose is to keep you interested and make sure you keep logging in.
No, not on it but was thinking about. Yes, I've overdone the hobby in the past 2 years and looking for more organic fun now...although I've never been a dating apps guy.
Organic fun? As in going on 15 dates and you still get no action?
Are you speaking from experience? Because I think it's safe to say dating women is the mother of all YMMV activities.
