FMTY?
The very first week I started seeing escorts I met a charming EI gal from Trinidad that I connected with right away. So much so, that I repeated with her the very next day. I won’t name her as she is still active, but she made a point of telling me “We all only do it for the money. Never forget this!” And I haven’t.
I’d like to think that I’ve graduated since then. Seen several Outcall and Incall gals (Agency as well as Independent) and on occassion, multiple times. No surprise, but I often receive suggestions for travel companionship or requests for FMTY. I’ve never taken the bait, but I now find myself reevaluating.
I’m a little ambivalent on committing to one of these as I always believed the economics to be pretty straightforward. I mean, why would I want to take a holiday with someone or fly someone to me, spring for hotel, food, entertainment, gifts etc. when I can just hop on a jet and make the holiday totally mine in TO? Or anywhere.
It turns out that various iterations of these types of trips are actually more common than I thought. Just check X and you can see. Now I also know that you only get what you negotiate. Right? Here’s the thing that might not be so obvious.
You never really know how many clients big ticket gals see per week or even per day domestically. Does it even matter to you? However, if you make arrangements for an escort to FMTY, are you cool with her seeing other guys on your dime? With cell phone technology, you might not even know. It could be in the hotel you booked and paid for (once you step out) or she might even rent an Airbnb nearby. Either way you would be subsidizing someone else’s date.
Of course you can pay for exclusivity for the weekend or whatever, but unless you are there the whole time, how would you know?
If you have done this, please help me try to categorize these FMTY dates. I know that it is up to me what I want, but what should I ask for? What are my options? Trying not to be awkward.
The very first week I started seeing escorts I met a charming EI gal from Trinidad that I connected with right away. So much so, that I repeated with her the very next day. I won’t name her as she is still active, but she made a point of telling me “We all only do it for the money. Never forget this!” And I haven’t.
I’d like to think that I’ve graduated since then. Seen several Outcall and Incall gals (Agency as well as Independent) and on occassion, multiple times. No surprise, but I often receive suggestions for travel companionship or requests for FMTY. I’ve never taken the bait, but I now find myself reevaluating.
I’m a little ambivalent on committing to one of these as I always believed the economics to be pretty straightforward. I mean, why would I want to take a holiday with someone or fly someone to me, spring for hotel, food, entertainment, gifts etc. when I can just hop on a jet and make the holiday totally mine in TO? Or anywhere.
It turns out that various iterations of these types of trips are actually more common than I thought. Just check X and you can see. Now I also know that you only get what you negotiate. Right? Here’s the thing that might not be so obvious.
You never really know how many clients big ticket gals see per week or even per day domestically. Does it even matter to you? However, if you make arrangements for an escort to FMTY, are you cool with her seeing other guys on your dime? With cell phone technology, you might not even know. It could be in the hotel you booked and paid for (once you step out) or she might even rent an Airbnb nearby. Either way you would be subsidizing someone else’s date.
Of course you can pay for exclusivity for the weekend or whatever, but unless you are there the whole time, how would you know?
If you have done this, please help me try to categorize these FMTY dates. I know that it is up to me what I want, but what should I ask for? What are my options? Trying not to be awkward.
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