From great to amazing: suggestions?

[SeasonedOne]

"The Walk"

Quoting Smylee..."The good Sp is waiting outside the door for the end of your shower. If the door is open she steps in and takes your towel to dry you off . Point being she acts like she wants to be with you every minute of your time together."

I've always hated walking naked in to the bedroom after the shower, and the SP is sitting there still dressed.

My other advice is to listen to the client's wishes. If he asks for something, there's likely a reason. No, I don't mean do things you're uncomfortable with. Rather, realize that every client is different and you can't just follow a script, or do things in the same order every time.

Cheers.

 

[genintoronto]

Thanks guys for contributing. Lots of good stuff in there.

Thanks particularly to Smiley for taking the time to write SPing 101: his suggestions were exactly the kind of suggestions I was hoping for in this thread.

We all know that "chemistry" and "good personality" are important: but part of it is creating a certain atmosphere or dynamic, and a lot of it is done with those little details and attention that Smiley mentioned. Lots of good stuff in there.

 

[Questor]

Good idea for a thread Gen. A smile, a kiss and a hug at the door is a great start to any session. Lots of touching and caressing during time together is very nice. Some ladies shower with client...that works for me.

 

[Danolo]

At my age, I find the best thing about a good session is when the SP is sincerely involved.

I've had session where the SP was relying on her good looks, her great boobs, etc, but there was just NO connection.

I know, sometimes a SO does not connect with a client... particularly an old fat guy like me.. but I think that situation is where the professionalism of the SP is a factor. I think when a SP can put aside her lack of attraction to a client and do her best anyhow, that's the mark a true professional SP.

Gen, I really enjoyed my time with you, because you obviously care about doing a good job.

 

[hoppy625]

I tend to book ladies with the intention of having MSOG. I also believe that what happens between rounds can really make the difference between a good and great experience. For instance I remember one sp years ago who started feeding me chocolates. The first chocolate was followed by a kiss. The second one a longer kiss. By the fourth or fifth we were making out and then seamlessly we eased into the next round. It was pure heaven.
A few other things like a massage w/lk or a glass of wine and a toast that leads to lk would probably work. It would with me anyway..hehe. Anything to make it a little more on the gf side should work.

 

[havingfun]

Great sessions:
- I saw the legendary Bobbi of days gone by. I had two SOGs in an hour and as she was leaving she noticed that I had another hard-on. She unzipped me, dropped to her knees, and started a BJ. Never leave a client with a hard on.

- Helen (another legend of days gone by) was abandoned at my place by her driver - the driver left to deliver another SP to a different client and was significantly delayed in returning. Helen and I watched some concerts I had on DVDs and then she turned to me and said, "I can't stand it anymore ..." and proceeded to molest me. It was the hottest sex I've ever had (well almost). I forgot that we were in front of a large window without curtains; we would have been a sight for anyone watching. Never miss an opportunity to make a client happy

- I used to hobby with a pal from out-of-town occasionally. We would call up two SPs and when they arrived, I would go to one bedroom and he would go to another. I almost always knew the two SPs who were coming over from prior "dates". And they would be favorites of mine. We would meet both SPs briefly in the living room, share some wine and some initial chit-chat. But I would choose the one who I liked the more of the two for myself. Afterwards, we would compare notes and I would also ask him what he thought of the SP that I had seen (the brief impression he had gathered from her during the initial chit-chat when we had all been in the room together). The response I would often get is "Wow, she really likes you." No, she didn't - but the great ones manage to convey that impression. Be fully engaged with your client. Make it your goal to make him the happiest man on the planet during your time together

This is like any other business. If a person gets superior service from any business - a restaurant, for example, it can move the business from average to great. Those who are willing to go the extra mile are the ones we remember. Don't regard the session as an opportunity to make money - approach it as an opportunity to make someone very happy.