Funeral.

[johnhenrygalt]

It make (sic) me wonder what made you keep track of these facts.

It's called a brain. Most of them, mine included, come equipped with something called "memory". It allows one to recall just about anything that one has experienced in life. There's no need to "keep track" of anything.

 

[Samantha Jones]

party like a rockstar..

 

[The Options Menu]

Condolences to the OP and his children.

Always blaming the parents is easy/ convenient but quite often the lazy man's answer to this. Every alcoholic did not have bad parents nor did evey teenager who exceeded speed limits or was driving too fast for weather conditions. Nor is every suicide or childhood cancer (or other fatal desease) a parents fault.

The US CDC list the top 5 causes of people from 10 - 24 as:
1. Unintentional injury ( pretty broad category includes traffic accidents, drowning's etc)
2. Suicide
3. Homicide
4. Malignant neoplasm ( cancer)
5. Heart desease

FWIW, the Canadian chart is here:
http://www.phac-aspc.gc.ca/publicat/lcd-pcd97/table1-eng.php

Basically homicide is lower on the Canadian chart. It's doesn't really matter if it's the Canadian chart or the American chart. Given the numbers for unintentional injuries and suicide there's precious little 'better parenting' could do. 15 - 35 year olds are impulsive and emotional. (I'm almost out of that bracket.)