I had that EXACT situation occur tonight. At about 2:00am, a guy cycles up to me and asks if I am familiar with the area.(I guess the story changes for locals and tourists) He says he imagines I saw all the police cars near the Hilton hotel(Actually I didn't), and says he and his brother were in town from Peterborough for a stag and his brother crashed their car into a barrier in the underground parking, still holding a beer in his hand.james t kirk said:It seems to be the latest scam technique these days for pan handlers to scam money.
I have been approached many times with one sob story or another.
"Excuse me sir, but my car broke down and I need to get 25 dollars together for bus fare back to Barry, I was wondering if you could help. I've never done anything like this before and I am really embarrassed"
I am not joking if I say that I have had 10 people come up to me in the last couple of years with one BS sob story or another. Always looking for big cash, not like a quarter or spare change, but 10 or 20 bucks or more.
Fuck right off.
I was in Canadian Tire parking lot about 2 weeks ago and this guy comes up to me and starts a sob story and I knew where this was going.
I cut him off in mid first sentence with "Whatever you want, I don't want - get the fuck away from me"
I know it sounds heartless, but I am sick and tired of pan handlers, bums, mooches, squeegee bums, etc. on every block. Every time I come down the Gardiner, I know they will be there with their Tim Horton's cup.
3 words
Get a job.
I used to throw cash at bums far more than the average guy, but the bum population of Toronto has exploded in the last few years. You can't walk 20 metres down a main street without getting approached for cash.
I could go broke supporting all the bums I run into.
Now - never, ever do I give cash to any pan handlers. There's no need in this society to be mooching money. Giving money just encourages them to sit on their asses. If no-one ever gave a dime, the pan handlers who dry up.
Sorry for the rant.
Curses his brother, says he needs money for gas. Says he is embarrassed etc...
Hmmm, brother had a spectacular crash with your car, you are cycling the streets of Toronto looking for money for gas while the cops are busting your brother. This story has so many holes in it it's not worth trying.
Another is the guy who just got back into town got off the bus at the wrong stop, needs cab fare to get to his wife who is a nurse working night shift at a downtown hospital. Shows me his empty pill bottle, says he needs fresh medication. Funny thing is, he has been getting off that bus at the wrong stop for about 5 years now!
Annessa, these people are con artists, they are the reason many people stopped giving. They are not as needy as the desperate people you are talking about, they go for the big $$$ and after a while people feel everyone is trying to scam them.
The shaky lady conned many people until she was exposed, another woman on Yonge St. claims to be collecting for a children's charity... almost daily for the past ten years.
My ex and I used to buy pizza and pop for a couple of girls in their early twenties begging on Yonge. Years later one of them is still there, we can't help people who won't help themselves. I am sure many of them are truly needy, others are just lazy.
After a while, just like Capt Kirk, I had to say enough.