skypilot said:
His profile shows Last Activity: 09-15-2008 04:14 PM
so he has seen up to #34
Yes skypilot, I have checked periodically on this thread alone. I was curious to the response and the maturity of the posters. Most of the people have been respectful of my decision, but not all of you have.
rubmeister100 said:
At the risk of startig a flame war... I am of the personal feeling that he might be MISTER Hobbyists Wife.
MY PERSONAL FEELING all you tools and trolls (not you MLAM!) that are predictably gonna start wailing and flaming that TERB is corrupt and THW is all fiction.
Check out Tower`s
posting history and it matches perfectly with THW`s profile of her husband. Funny thing is that the poor guy (Tower) KEPT POSTING ON TERB even since THW came on the scene and he KNEW that ha was busted.
You know rubmeister, I did expect better out of you. I have noticed that lately in your posts, you have become more and more cynical, less positive. You used to be more respected by other members of this board. As I mentioned previously, I don’t really know any of you, but just the same I expected that rub would be more supportive of my decision. Of my wife discovering my hobby, it was through her accidentally finding my hobbying emails when she was clearing the table and my laptop off the table for dinner one night. I stepped out briefly to pick up some hardware and forgot that I had left the hotmail account active. That is how she found out. She does not know of the existence of TERB, though she knows of Adult Oriented sites. She is a housewife who spends most of her time with our kids. I know this because I have a home office. She hates the computer and it’s taken a lot out of my time to get things done for her because of her total lack of knowledge of the computers, much less the online world. There is no way she is THW. I don’t know who she is, but the few posts I had seen about her were very distasteful. She was not someone I cared to know more about.
Mao Tse Tongue said:
This is true. He`s lucky in that respect. However, his wife`s trust is permanently destroyed, and to live in the doghouse for the next ten years will wear on him, as it would me.
Fortunately, that trust is not totally destroyed Mao. It will take a lot of work to regain that trust but we are talking every night based on a program set out on our marriage retreat. The first thing we focused on is ‘The Past is Passed’ and we will not open any old wounds. We agreed to that and I must say our talk today was very refreshing. We both miss each other’s love and affection and we will continue to make love (not just ‘have sex’). Your words are true in most cases, but not in this one.
rubmeister100 said:
Both!
She says he has unprotected sex. So it would be prudent for her to ensure that he does not knock someone up and take away from the existing family`s resources through child support. And there may be some other sense of self-preservation on his wife`s part as it would perhaps head off a murder charge against her IF there was ever a "SPreadator" who did seek child support...
Again you are wrong rubber ducky. I did not say everything in my original post. We have 3 beautiful children in our household and we already decided that 3 was enough. Prior to this, I volunteered (yes me, I was not coerced) that I would be the one to have the procedure done, but I had procrastinated too long to my wife’s satisfaction. In her first emotional diatribe to me, it came out and I’m just following through on a promise I made several months ago. Any more children in the house would require a new home, getting a mortgage again for that home along with more financial strain. I like staying debt free. I worked hard for it and I’m keeping it.
zeebo said:
It sounds like your wife brainwashed you. You shouldn`t be ashamed of normal male desires... Women are not the same, so you can`t expect them to understand. Monogomy is an unrealistic ideal that western society preaches.. In any case good luck with your marriage.
She does not need to brainwash me zeebo. My parents were monogamous with each other, so were my wife’s parents, my wife has never strayed. I was weak. I did not stick to the very value system I said I embraced. I am not ashamed of my normal male desires, it’s a part of being a man, but I have no excuse to go seek elsewhere. Our wedding oath (yes I still remember it, I even chose the music, and wrote a portion of our vows) said ‘Till Death Do Us Part’, not ‘Until the love ends’. As I said previously, Love is an action word, not always an emotion. I will always love my wife, I’ve committed to that.
Meister said:
I ask myself is it all worth it. I mean all the crap you have to go through as a hubby to get some half decent sex from your wife? It`s ridiculous.
Believe me, it’s very much worth it.
dajodo2 said:
I find it amusing how some people feel this need to post these epic good byes.
I wonder why they think that they are special and not just nonchalantly disappear back into the darkness of cyberspace where they came from as most do who quit the lifestyle?
This guy reminds me of ex smokers or born again Christians...I did it and so should you!
You will be totally forgotten about here very very soon the same as retires are where you work.
Yes I will be forgotten, these are not meaningful relationships on TERB, they are forgettable discussions with people one does not really know. The expression “Gone But Not Forgotten” is for those with whom a real relationship existed.
futurelegend said:
He`ll be back here, at least...just more careful this time.
I’m only human, that’s why I kept my computer open on this so I could see the reaction, and also because I`m waiting for a PM from another Terbite who had some non SP information for me in the technology forum. I do pray that it will never happen. I hope that this is forever behind me.
