Guys, why marry the ugly one?

[GG2]

There are plenty of hot married women so I don't know what the OP is referring to. But if I had to hypothesize regarding the OP's observation, I suspect it's because hot bitches always have one hand in a guy's pocket and one foot out the door.

 

[Jiffy Pop]

Interesting topic as I have my best friend and another close friend who both in my eyes(looks) traded down and one way down but both are still married(10+years) and things are still going well. When my best friend first introduced me to is new girlfriend(now wife) years ago I had trouble believing it. I have known this guy all my life and the quality and amount of pussy he as pulled in over the years is staggering but he is happy and as not cheated on her even if he as had opportunities.

 

[gimmedub]

Maybe not so pretty girls are easier to please... that said my SO is very good looking - just means I have to work harder to keep things interesting...

 

[spacyfoil]

......Cause all the good lookin ones are SPs

 

[Powershot]

I haven't dated a tonne of hot women but the recurring theme was a lack of work ethic due to people always trying to do stuff for them, and a lack of interests outside of maintaining their look (fashion, makeup, diet, treadmill).

 

[5hummer]

I haven't dated a tonne of hot women but the recurring theme was a lack of work ethic due to people always trying to do stuff for them, and a lack of interests outside of maintaining their look (fashion, makeup, diet, treadmill).

I have to agree (generally speaking) -- the keyword is 'princess complex'
There seems to be a sense of self-entitlement, maybe brought on by outside forces (e.g. Barbie dolls, TV, daddy's girl, etc.)

 

[Hiding]

...what are you doing talking about marriage with guys that are lying to your face?
(No, you're not "too pretty" to marry.)
Go find someone amazing: confident, smart, objective and honest. Then maybe if that's going well and you still feel the need, talk marriage. Thinking marriage before you've met someone (or worse/funnier yet, planning out your lies) is so ridiculous.



Gentlemen (and Asylum),

You'd never be able to trust her? Right, because all sex workers are liars (and by extension, will cheat).
You'd never be able to think about someone else having had sex with her? Right, because that somehow lessens your experiences with her.
Her idea of men will be completely shattered because of her industry perception? Right, because we don't enjoy this or meet amazing people at all, we definitely see people at their worst. (Gosh, what kind of person are you when you indulge?)
She's going to be damaged by the industry? Right, cause general correlation = direct causation.

If this is a normal, boring guy's thoughts there's no way I'd be interested in a normal, boring guy. Too externally-motivated, insecure and rooted in a patriarchal concept of marriage I can't/won't/have no interest to participate in.

As for the shoe being on the other foot: in a theoretical world where I have a life-partner, if he's being honest, safe and not taking anything away from our relationship in any way, how can I be anything but happy?


4 serious marriage proposals and counting,
Becky

 

[lovelatinas]

I don't want to marry an ugly girl. I am a decent looking guy and I want to marry a decent looking girl with realistic expectations.

Ugly girls who have to try harder to get a guys attention is a turn off for me. I have seen ugly and chubby girls dress up slutty to look as hot as their sexy skinny friend make laugh, a big turn off. I prefer a decent girl who is pretty in classy and stylish clothes.

 

[dreamblade]

Every time I see these threads (Dating lives of SP's, Pretty girls vs homely girls, what women REALLY want, etc...) on this board, I giggle at the "expertise" the men posting seem to possess.

I've dated some head turners in my life, even some SP's, I've never once had a problem with them being unfaithful, or not doing her share of the chores (I can't cook for the life of me), or pulling her weight in a conversation on politics, science, society, or what not.

What kind of women do you guys meet, anyway? So my SO's would get hit on occasionally, so what? We'd go home, laugh about the dude's pathetic attempts at making her interested, then fuck like rabbits. Thinking of all the other guys she'd been with? Why? She's with you now! She finds you awesome, continue to be so by not thinking about the past penises she might have sampled. Insecurity is a huge turn off, so is possessiveness.

Man, Becky's right: Normals' lives really DO suck, and they go out of their way to make them suck.





PS: Becky, will you marry me?

 

[loveisblind]

`So I am just curious. I am in my 20s and I do want to get married in the future. I find myself to be above an average girl... Is that a problem? I've met so many guys who said Im not wife material cause "im too pretty" or crap like that. If you trule connect with her, why find someone else who is lower when its right in front you? I always see the uglier girls get married first, comapred to good looking ones.

(this doesnt intend an exchange, for money or such, just pure love)

isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder?? just because a woman pretty doesnt make her wifey material pretty outside ugly inside

theres someone out there for everyone

 

[loveisblind]

Nonsense. Pretty girls get married! I know I married one. You just have to find someone confident enough to be with a pretty girl.

Most likely when people say things like that what they really mean is "I'm not really ready to get married", but they try and put it on you instead.

i know a few pretty girls married too one always reminded her husband hes " lucky to have a hot girl like her" all the time

she couldn't stop her single lifestyle going to clubs staying out all night etc now they are divorced ( she took the house too)