Had a scary client......

[LadyTY2Uall]

His name is [PM for details] ,,,he looks East Indian but is Italian (Sicilian) He seems very sweet but tried the 'oh I just want to rub it against you' crap.....I spent almost a full hour trying to make sure he did not get in without a condom.....He stays way over his time and does not re-imburse. phone number is [PM for details] He also showed up today without an appointment.......told me he was not going to go away, that he would be coming to see me regularly and that I WOULD SEE HIM.......It does not sound very bad but it was really really scary......once he gets on top he will not get off and keeps saying "trust me" while he tries to force his way in uncovered.

 

[amber-jade]

in a word '' bobbit '' thats creapy, sorry to hear about this lady

 

[Ladyraven]

how are you doing now? sorry to hear about the asshole..

 

[Ashley Pinup]

I don't get it!

What is the obsession with BBFS?

Sorry that happened to you Lady - I have had similar things happen to me also. The way you describe this guy; it could have very well been him.

Karma...one day he'll get what he wants...and a nasty disease as an added bonus!

Thanks for letting us all know!

 

[HOF]

Very sorry to hear that this has happened to you. Take good care of yourself.

 

[onehunglow]

I wouldn't see him ever again.

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

Lady...you seem to be running in to a bit of badluck. I remember you telling TERBITES how a Military guy stole your phone. I'm really sorry to hear about this guy, and hope he does not continue to harrass you. I'd hate to be in your shoes...perhaps a quick photo from your camera or something else would put his face in the limelight and get him taken off the streets.

You have rights...and please be careful.

thank you all for the encouragement and well wishes. I am o.k. physically just shook up mentally and really upset emotionally. I do not plan on every seeing him again and will call the police if he comes to my door again. Overall I am really lucky with my clients, yes I have had some shit luck but most of my guys are very sweet and respectful. I will be fine I just wanted the other ladies to be aware of this guy.

 

[Riley.Royal]

He popped without an appointment and claim he won't leave that is borderline OMG !

 

[Stoo]

I hear about guys like this and I'm embarrassed to be of the same gender...

I'm really sorry to hear of your experience. At the risk of stating the obvious, I trust you will call the cops if he shoes up again?

 

[WhaWhaWha]

• tried the 'oh I just want to rub it against you' crap
• spent almost a full hour trying to make sure he did not get in without a condom
• He stays way over his time and does not re-imburse.
• showed up today without an appointment
• told me he was not going to go away,
• [told me] he would be coming to see me regularly and that I WOULD SEE HIM
• once he gets on top he will not get off
• keeps saying "trust me" while he tries to force his way in uncovered.

which part of that is sweet?
which part of that does not sound very bad?

 

[eldoguy]

Just state in your profile no Italian, service especially Sicialian Canolle is available!

 

[MissCroft]

He popped without an appointment and claim he won't leave that is borderline OMG !

It's not borderline OMG, it is OMG! Everything else he did is scary too.

 

[Belleville69]

Guy sounds like real tool!! I'm suprised more ladies don't keep a tazer under the pillow, for guys just like this. I little sizzle and crackle, and that would be the end of that shit.

 

[Captain Fantastic]

Call the police

"...told me he was not going to go away, that he would be coming to see me regularly and that I WOULD SEE HIM."

That sounds like a job for the TPS Sex Crimes Unit... Not sure if Wendy Leaver's there still or not.

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

Thank you all for your comments and support. I guess I made the mistake of thinking that for someone to be abusive he should be loud, violent or otherwise unpleasant....hmm maybe this is why a lot of women don't report date rape,,,,strange that I would fall into this trap of thinking if I am not physically hurt that it is not abuse.

i certainly plan on calling the police if he ever shows up at my door again and I am having a safety lock put on my door this week.

 

[SlitherySOB]

That man is an arrogant bastard and undeserving of your attention. Do not see him again, obviously. Also, find a way to defend yourself. Sadly, Cdn. laws make it illegal to possess a firearm for self defence. Perhaps take up martial art classes. Pepper spray. If legal, a taser. Even a baseball bat underneath the bed. Perhaps my suggestions are a bit paranoid, but even if he doesn't show up again, someone else like him might. Why take the chance?

 

[G-Money]

Bare Back

To me someone who wants BAREBACK is someone who has no fear of getting HiV which means they are either psychotic OR already are infected! Fuckin SCARY!

 

[milfjade]

BB is insane

I agree that any guy asking for BB F/S these days has to be insane.......and YET, I get at least a couple of requests for this every week!

I usually try to educate the "gentleman" (& I use that term very loosely) that any woman that is willing to do it BB with him, is likely doing it BB with others & therefore she cannot be considered "clean" or "safe".

But somehow they think offering more $$$ will change my mind. As if $$$ could make up for a lifetime of illness or a shortened lifespan & early death!?!?!

To all hobbyists, its not just BB sex, but the many requests to "just rub it against your clit".......contact is contact....whether inside or out. I've dealt with similar assholes in the States, Lady TY, & it boggles my mind that anyone these days could still be so ignorant about disease and infections.

 

[Mel N. Choly]

MilfJade: "I agree that any guy asking for BB F/S these days has to be insane.......and YET, I get at least a couple of requests for this every week!"

Alas, to quote Siegfried from Get Smart: "I find that very hard to believe ..."

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

Fortunately I have not heard from him since the last episode. I agree that anyone asking for BB has got to be suspect, if he wants it from me who else is he getting it from?