Then absolutely and without question get it done by a lawyer because that is a recipe for a protracted court battle if it's not done right. Not only will your estate dwindle under the weight of the legal fees, but the bitter battle over your assets will potentially rip apart the family you think you're caring for. Do it right, make it properly legal and clear to everyone what's what, so that you don't inflict that kind of misery on your siblings.I'm not married and would be leaving it to 3 siblings.
+1Then absolutely and without question get it done by a lawyer because that is a recipe for a protracted court battle if it's not done right. Not only will your estate dwindle under the weight of the legal fees, but the bitter battle over your assets will potentially rip apart the family you think you're caring for. Do it right, make it properly legal and clear to everyone what's what, so that you don't inflict that kind of misery on your siblings.
just want my assets and life insurance split evenly among the three. Is it common to include your parents in a will as one of the beneficiaries?
You can also control the scope (to some degree, anyway) of a Power of Attorney to financial matters, or to medical matters.You really should have a lawyer draw up a will for you unless you are leaving everything to your one and only closest relative and there is absolutely no possibility of your will being contested. There is a big difference between adequate and well drafted in terms of accomplishing what you really wish to have accomplished.
In Ontario as in many other jurisdictions there is a difference between a power-of-attorney and a durable-power-of-attorney the former is valid only while you are competent, the latter survives incompetency. Then there is a personal or health-care power-of-attorney which permits someone to make medical decisions for you when you are unable to do so. Further, since the person with a power-of-attorney has absolute control over your assets, you want to make quite sure that you only appoint someone whom you trust implicitly.
Indeed but even under the best of circumstances settling an intestate "estate" is going to involve more grief and chew through more assets than if the descedent had a valid will.If you have no will (or if some sections of your will get thrown out by a court), family law (e.g. in Ontario) will dictate who is entitled to your estate.
There is also the famous 1948 case in Saskatchewan of Cecil Harris who was pinned under his tractor when it rolled over. On the fender of the tractor, he scratched with a knife “In case I die in this mess, I leave all to the wife. Cecil Harris.” The courts considered this a valid holographic will (the fender is I understand in the Law Library at the University of Saskatchewan)I belive the classic holographic will was one written in the dust on a rolled over tractor fender "Everthing to Em." and signed by the farmer who died under the wheel. The court upheld it as a valid and sufficient expression of the intent of the deceased.
http://www.usask.ca/communications/ocn/09-jan-23/see_what_we_found.phpThere is also the famous 1948 case in Saskatchewan of Cecil Harris who was pinned under his tractor when it rolled over. On the fender of the tractor, he scratched with a knife “In case I die in this mess, I leave all to the wife. Cecil Harris.” The courts considered this a valid holographic will (the fender is I understand in the Law Library at the University of Saskatchewan)
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Perhaps if the op is getting on the plane in ten minutes. Otherwise as already stated at #11 even under the best of circumstances settling an intestate "estate" is going to involve more grief and chew through more assets than if the descedent had a valid will.Why bother with a holographic will? If you want your family members engaged in protracted litigation with all of your estate’s assets eaten up by legal fees (which you cannot prevent because you will be dead), just don’t write a will at all. Same result, but you save on ink and paper.