he was mainly responding to what i wrote - that's transparent - but he has too much hubris to respond directly because he claims he has me on "ignore" now lol. but he just couldn't resist responding to my points, since his whole life seems to depend on arguing with people on this forum.
he also needs to familiarize himself with strawman arguments, since that's what his points are almost always based off of.
neither of us said that when women get raped, they should just "stop making a fuss." i said
1) if you did get raped, it's horrible, but it's not something that you need to keep dwelling on, 20 years later. this needless fixation on all the "male predators" in our society by the current feminist dogma is like a way for people to maintain infinite victimhood status, when in reality, it's not healthy for anyone to hold onto that trauma.
2) what's being counted as "sexual assault" these days is anything from actual rape to being complimented on the streets for your appearance to "man-terrupting" and "man-spreading" to the big one: having sex with someone when you didn't feel like it but you didn't actively stop it either. fucking people you didn't want to fuck - it's just the next step up from engaging in polite conversation with someone you don't like for the sake of civility. it happens and it's annoying, but sometimes it's what you do to get thru a socially awkward situation. at least, that's how i see it when i had sex with that guy who slept over that time who i didn't want to fuck, but i did it anyway because it was just the easier thing to do at the time. do i fixate on that moment again and again and again as that one moment i lost all my integrity? no. i really don't give a fuck, because it was something i agreed to. if i really didn't want to do it, i could have just got up and told him to stop, and he would have. but i don't resent anyone if i knew i made the decision to be passive on purpose and for a reason.
the guys who don't stop when you tell them to are indeed assholes and yes maybe even rapists. and i'm not saying any of this to discount or comment on charlotte's experience because i didn't read about it and it happened before i joined this thread. but i am talking about people like mattress girl at columbia, whose story was so riddled with lies, it's absurd. it's these stories and this narrative that keeps circulating today that anytime a woman makes a claim that a guy raped her, she is 100% believable. this narrative influences women to believe they were raped even when they may not have been.
they're teaching young girls in school today that women are always oppressed, powerless, and that men are always dangerous and just waiting to rape you. what kind of effect do you think that has on a person's memories? it's been proven that women are more susceptible to false memories than men (
https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/arti...ent-women-confess-to-crimes-they-didnt-commit). that's why i take these modern feminist narratives always w a large grain of salt.
this article presents a good summary of what i mean:
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/201...ve-taught-schools-fuels-anxiety-young-women/#