Have you been asked what race you are by SP's

[skypilot]

There are escorts who are of certain races that I prefer because I find those races sexually attractive. There are other escorts I don't see because I don't find their race sexually attractive.

I might not have sex with them, but I would hire them and rent to them.

 

[Oil Please]

Unfortunatly I had the pleasure of being denied service base on race over the phone. WOW

Mellisa on the redzone does not see other races than white.

Do you think that is racist

Not at all!

 

[Oil Please]

quick question out all the people that said that what she did was racist or discriminating how many of you are white???? i think people of color would belive that is racist because we have to deal with it in our daily lives, unlike white people!!

You must have missed the Asian incalls that wouldn't see us white folk!

 

[vick187]

You must have missed the Asian incalls that wouldn't see us white folk!

please don't tell me your comparing what you went through with asian incalls to what people go through on a daily basis are you???

 

[womenser]

I personally think she is a racist because when you are in business to make money not perferences which matters for example a sp cannot say she is not interested in fat guys , big guys short guys etc.What she can say is one can be hygenically clean like in a previous post by Wim he says you stinky guys move Tthat is indicative of of non white guys all are stinky and smelly.If one does want to date one particular race she must put that up front. You cant say I wont give you a hair cut because you are not white I wont serve you dinner because you are not white.If you think you are better than others being a sp you got to think it again my 2 cents

 

[Jaded Pooner]

Unfortunatly I had the pleasure of being denied service base on race over the phone. WOW

Mellisa on the redzone does not see other races than white.

Do you think that is racist

Yes I have. I was also denied service because of my race. I was kinda put off at first, but in retrospect I believe it was for the better.

 

[my2cents]

to the finish

Asked which race ...I usually respond "to the finish".

 

[LancsLad]

Unfortunatly I had the pleasure of being denied service base on race over the phone. WOW

Mellisa on the redzone does not see other races than white.

Do you think that is racist

Some people like to post things just to stir up controversy. My guess is that if you have been a member since 03 and this is your first post there is a reason behind this question at this time. A deep mole, cool.

 

[mandrill]

My 0.02 cents. Yes, she's a racist.

You have my deepest sympathy. If I was a person of colour and I was rejected by a woman because of that fact, I would be deeply offended.

But... it's her body and being an SP involves fairly intimate services. It's better that she backs off before seeing you than for you both to have an uncomfortable session.

 

[DissMeNot]

Racism or Preference?

There is a fine line between having a preference relating to the type of people you want to associate with and getting branded as a racist, especially when it comes to dating, sex and in this case escorting.

We are all guilty of having our own prejudices. I for one prefer Blondes most of the times. Am I a racist? I don't think so. I just have a preference. I also like girls who have nice round buttocks. Does that mean I detest skinny girls? No, matter of fact some days I prefer skinny..I know of some people who like to associate with people who have money, toys, country club memberships etc. etc.. They basically have a preference or a bias towards liking the rich and successful or snooty..because they think that such company makes them special..that it some how defines them.

Racism today is different..this same girl who has said no to COOCHOO, if she is approached by Tiger Woods or some rich ethnic guy, will change her preference very quickly.

So in the end it's all about ACCESS..if you have the means to ACCESS her you can regardless of what her preference is. Because preference can be bought..and escorting is after all a market. Personally, I would have called her back, offerred her more dough, fucked her brains out, given her a tip..and then never would have gone back to see her..rather than come out on the board and complain

 

[xdog]

please don't tell me your comparing what you went through with asian incalls to what people go through on a daily basis are you???

Cry me a river...I guess only people of color face discrimination. A white lady who doesn't do asian is no different than an asian who won't do whites. Everyone discriminates or there would be no need for pictures, description of colour,height,weight, hair colour, etc. I'm guessing that Vick187 only calls agenciess and doesn't ask what the escort looks like. He'll do anything...including guys because he doesn't discriminate. It must be hard to go through life woth so much anger. Luckily I'm one of those rich white folks who live up on the hill.


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[nerdnerd]

A major reason I've been told that ladies often ask race is simple: they don't want to meet someone from their ethnic community.

 

[vick187]

Cry me a river...I guess only people of color face discrimination. A white lady who doesn't do asian is no different than an asian who won't do whites. Everyone discriminates or there would be no need for pictures, description of colour,height,weight, hair colour, etc. I'm guessing that Vick187 only calls agenciess and doesn't ask what the escort looks like. He'll do anything...including guys because he doesn't discriminate. It must be hard to go through life woth so much anger. Luckily I'm one of those rich white folks who live up on the hill.


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no i discriminate, i'm not saying i have never said i don't!!! i'm saying don't compare what you went through once in your life against what people go through everyday!! thast all i'm saying rich white kid who lives in the hills!!

 

[hapkido]

I don't like it and it probably hurts. Call it racism or preference. It's reality. Nothing is going change. Bottom line move on. so so many other fish in the sea.

 

[Mongrel4u]

Cry me a river...I guess only people of color face discrimination. A white lady who doesn't do asian is no different than an asian who won't do whites. Everyone discriminates or there would be no need for pictures, description of colour,height,weight, hair colour, etc

Correct it is no different...and yes descrimination is everywhere... but do not try to sit there and say that as a white person you experience the same amount of descrimination as a non white...the amount that you experience and are subject to can completely change things. Generally, where theres smoke, fire isnt too far away...why do you think "non-whites" make a bigger issue out of it? because they have nothing better to do?....its a build up

I'm not making excuses...I'm not saying to dwell on it... but please dont over simplify it.

 

[xdog]

no i discriminate, i'm not saying i have never said i don't!!! i'm saying don't compare what you went through once in your life against what people go through everyday!! thast all i'm saying rich white kid who lives in the hills!!

So what you are saying is that everyone including yourself discriminate but it's worse when it happens to you. We all face discrimination in this world. When I visit countries that the majority of people are a colour other than myself I am treated differently. It's human nature to congregate with people who share similar characteristics. To prefer to have sex with only one group or to exclude a group may be discrimination but by no means is it racism. I always thought racism was feeling superior to members of a different ethnic group. I don't want to have sex with a 347 lb woman. It's not because I think I'm deserving of something better or hate her but rather I'm just not atrracted to her. I'm sure there are some women who would find me to be unattractive. All the power to them.

I'm sure that you face discrimination all the time. We all do. Do people of a different colour assume that I'm treating them a certain way only because of their colour? I'm sure some of them do. Do you find yourself thinking or acting differently when interacting with people of a different ethnic background?

Unfortunately in today's world, people tend to assume they are treated differently only because they look or act differently. Maybe they're treated that way because they're obnoxious or just not likeable. Luckily for me, I realised I could be a better person by not making assumptions about people. It can be difficult at times but I find I'm much happier now. I treat people the way I want to be treated.


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[i am one]

It's not just the "It's her body" argument, if a person (any person) has some consistently bad experiences with people of a certain ethnicity then they will conclude that it's not worth the trouble to bother with them. Simply put, just a few jerks can ruin it for the rest of the people.

We have this same thread/discussion every few months and I've asked a few SPs and MPAs just generally about their experiences and even I can conclude that there are certain ethnicities out there who the girls don't prefer and it's definitely not black or Asian since that's where it seems this thread is going.

 

[Mongrel4u]

We are all guilty of having our own prejudices. I for one prefer Blondes most of the times. Am I a racist? I don't think so. I just have a preference. I also like girls who have nice round buttocks. Does that mean I detest skinny girls? No, matter of fact some days I prefer skinny..I know of some people who like to associate with people who have money, toys, country club memberships etc. etc.. They basically have a preference or a bias towards liking the rich and successful or snooty..because they think that such company makes them special..that it some how defines them.

Yeah but thats not the case in this thread...

you are talking about personal attraction which is one thing... this is supposed to be a buiness for the SP (thats a complete whole other story). This is supposed to be their "job" and those personal opinions should be left at the door... Its not an easy job but this is why they are getting paid what they get paid....its also why not just any girl can do this "job"

 

[wrabs]

every now and then....

this topic (re)appears. Although, it usually appears in "the Lounge".

Hey CHOOCHOO, finally someone appears with less posts than me!!!

 

[my2cents]

my name is....

A woman on a plane told me the best lovers were jewish,the best kissers were the scots and the longest lasting in bed were the chinese. When she asked me my name I told her its Ming McStienburg.
I found alot of SPs concerned about colour...the colour of my money mostly. Used to pay only in greens a few years back now rates are headed into the browns.
This ain't a complaint you can take to the human fights commision so let your money do the talking and spend it on another SP.
I have noticed SPs also post that they are not interested in Greeks, talk about prejudice, and it's in print on many websites. You think you got it bad think about the poor greek guy who gets rejected even before he makes the call.