If you interact with actual women, and learn sex through interactions with actual women (vs watching porn) you learn there are great pleasures to be had from ladies of all sizes. Once set up on a blind date, had a few phone convos w her, decide to meet (mid 90s, no facebook to see what they looked like ahead of time - told "she was cute and exotic like you like them" by our mutual acquaintance lol). She was much bigger than I liked, and would not have looked twice at her if I passed on the street. But, I liked her based on our convos, and one thing leads to the next and then to nekkid fun stage and omg she was so plush and fun and just enjoyed being with her. From that point on I never, ever discounted heavier women.