There are very few Asian SPs in Ottawa-Gatineau region, and so I tried out Seeking looking for sugar babies (SBs). There aren't a lot of Asian SBs either, but on occasion you'll find some attractive ones. Negotiating the Seeking website can be a pain. You'll either get lucky and strike up an arrangement in the first week or find yourself running the gauntlet of toe dippers, scammers, "platonic SBs" or "only only SBs," and the serial first daters looking to be compensated without any intention of putting out.
There are also escorts that use Seeking as a source of clientele. The biggest giveaway is that they aren't interested in chit chat, they just invite you to meet from the onset. For SBs, they can be very selective with who they meet and it can take work, especially if they are new.
To date, I've had three "arrangements," with all my SBs being students and of Asian descent. The longest arrangement I had was 11 months, and typically met 3 to 4 times a month. My experience is that some SBs are fine with discreet, indoor dates that are purely money for sex transactions. But there are those that have expectations of being wined and dined, provided gifts and shopping excursions on a regular basis. There are those that get into the performative or roleplay aspects of sugaring. I had one SB that would only text if they wanted meet up. Another would text me on a daily basis and send Snapchat clips, even though it wasn't expected or necessary. I'd get the occasional nude, so I wasn't complaining.
A coincidence, but all of my SBs have sought or hinted at a preference for "exclusive" (I'd caution being too trusting), likely driven by concern for their sexual health more than anything else. While less experienced than the typical escort, they are far more open to doing thing that escorts would balk at.
I've since taken a break from sugaring, but still check from time to time.
There are also escorts that use Seeking as a source of clientele. The biggest giveaway is that they aren't interested in chit chat, they just invite you to meet from the onset. For SBs, they can be very selective with who they meet and it can take work, especially if they are new.
To date, I've had three "arrangements," with all my SBs being students and of Asian descent. The longest arrangement I had was 11 months, and typically met 3 to 4 times a month. My experience is that some SBs are fine with discreet, indoor dates that are purely money for sex transactions. But there are those that have expectations of being wined and dined, provided gifts and shopping excursions on a regular basis. There are those that get into the performative or roleplay aspects of sugaring. I had one SB that would only text if they wanted meet up. Another would text me on a daily basis and send Snapchat clips, even though it wasn't expected or necessary. I'd get the occasional nude, so I wasn't complaining.
A coincidence, but all of my SBs have sought or hinted at a preference for "exclusive" (I'd caution being too trusting), likely driven by concern for their sexual health more than anything else. While less experienced than the typical escort, they are far more open to doing thing that escorts would balk at.
I've since taken a break from sugaring, but still check from time to time.
