Set him up on a "blind date" with a young SP (KatiePie?). Maybe you can say it's the daughter of a friend or something? Not sure if that's a great idea...just throwing that out there 
He's turning 19 and painfully shy....
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Honestly as a stripper for MANY yeaars..i think that you would all be surprised by how many father/son teams I've seen in the clubs over the years! I say just take him out and buy him a few dances.....I think everyone esle is taking this too seriously......just show him a good time.....just my .02..We can talk in person anyways my dear!
It was my Dad's Bday not too long ago
and since him n my mom are divorced , all my Dad do is work .... work... work and spend time on the computer .. He never had any other woman in is life and he's not a very outgoing guy .. kinda shy , reserved .. a little bit of a geek !! hehe We are not the closest , but always had a good father/daughter relation.
As someone who works in the kind of business I do , on his Birthday I decided to send him one of my girl for couple hours !!!(He never been with an SP before) ... Many people told me im a little nuts .... but c'mon ! Everyone needs a little attention & love once in a while , a little lovin' won't hurt no one and helps givin' self estime & he actually started to come out of his shell and talks to me in a very more pen minded way now! He seems a lot... more easy going about life and started to actually date other women now !! I can see more confidence just n the way he spealks to me ! I dunno what this girl did to him (and I dont really wanna know , lol ) But she opened a whole new world for him and I thank her, I couldnt of think of a better gift . She definitly rocked his world !!!!!!!!!!!!!
I certainly dont regret the kind of gift I give him for his bday, even if many father/son/daughter could find it weird and innapropriate ... But He thanked me a tousand time and I wont forget that glow in his eyes !
But not too sure I would go to the strip club with him , or assist the session with them hehehe
Your idea of '' breaking'' is shell with open minded and easy going woman around him isnt a bad idea , but you should leave him his comfort and discretion .. Not everyone wants their daddy to see them in ''action'' hehe ... that might do the opposite effect i think ..
Just another opinion
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and since him n my mom are divorced , all my Dad do is work .... work... work and spend time on the computer .. He never had any other woman in is life and he's not a very outgoing guy .. kinda shy , reserved .. a little bit of a geek !! hehe We are not the closest , but always had a good father/daughter relation.
As someone who works in the kind of business I do , on his Birthday I decided to send him one of my girl for couple hours !!!(He never been with an SP before) ... Many people told me im a little nuts .... but c'mon ! Everyone needs a little attention & love once in a while , a little lovin' won't hurt no one and helps givin' self estime & he actually started to come out of his shell and talks to me in a very more pen minded way now! He seems a lot... more easy going about life and started to actually date other women now !! I can see more confidence just n the way he spealks to me ! I dunno what this girl did to him (and I dont really wanna know , lol ) But she opened a whole new world for him and I thank her, I couldnt of think of a better gift . She definitly rocked his world !!!!!!!!!!!!!
I certainly dont regret the kind of gift I give him for his bday, even if many father/son/daughter could find it weird and innapropriate ... But He thanked me a tousand time and I wont forget that glow in his eyes !
But not too sure I would go to the strip club with him , or assist the session with them hehehe
Your idea of '' breaking'' is shell with open minded and easy going woman around him isnt a bad idea , but you should leave him his comfort and discretion .. Not everyone wants their daddy to see them in ''action'' hehe ... that might do the opposite effect i think ..
Just another opinion
xoxoxox
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Could I adopt you sweetie? My daughter gives me electronic gadgets which are nice and usually last a long time but ..... hahaha
Could I adopt you sweetie? My daughter gives me electronic gadgets which are nice and usually last a long time but ..... hahaha
You were a jock and he's shy. Don't push him, Jock. That's your game. For his 19th play his game. Keep it low-key, with you and people he knows—his Mom f'rinstance—and isn't shy to be with. And do not try to jam an entire Intro to Adulthood into one evening.
The only real calendar connection is legal drinking. Book a limo, or a non-drinking friend and introduce him to just one of the pleasures of maturity responsibly. If you believe he'd think an SC desireable, go for it, but as a Dad I would absolutely focus on stage show places and duck the lapdances for the night. Too much embarrasment and eeuww! potential for a shy guy. He'll figure that stuff out on his own.
The only real calendar connection is legal drinking. Book a limo, or a non-drinking friend and introduce him to just one of the pleasures of maturity responsibly. If you believe he'd think an SC desireable, go for it, but as a Dad I would absolutely focus on stage show places and duck the lapdances for the night. Too much embarrasment and eeuww! potential for a shy guy. He'll figure that stuff out on his own.
Well Ive been a kinda shy guy for MANY years ( kidding ya rachelle
and altho by 19 I had a bit more experience with girls than the OP thinks his son has, I would have been mortified for my dad to take me out to a sc for my 19th. Sure some shy guys may come out of their shell when with a stripper, but it is just as likely to make him really uncomfortable. For example for me still, if I go to a sc it will almost always be alone. I'm not comfortable going with my buds. Tho privately my sexuality and sexual tastes are far from conservative- it's still a very private part of my life.Speaking from experience...
My advice is depends on your relationship with your son and if he's shy AND withdrawn or not.
My father (and his best friend) took me to a SC (the Lido in Hull) on my 18th birthday and got me a table dance. Funniest thing though is that a friend and I had already been in one already a year before that (Club 61 in Alymer)... LOL ...but he didn't know that.
I myself when I was a younger teen was very geeky, introverted and shy around girls. However, I wasn't reclusive and I also had a good relationship with my dad...in my teens...we'd be out on a family trip or whatever and would each comment "check out the rack on that girl" or some such other girl watching banter all the time...so going to a SC once legal age with him wasn't really a big deal. Also, after that we'd occassionally drive down to Montreal to see an Expos game and then check out SuperSex (SC) afterwards and a few beers. I can see an issue where some kids could be embarrassed being seen out like that with their parent in a place like that...but I didn't give a shit about that kinda nonsense and it was ok and we would have a good time.
However, I could see that if you don't have that kind of relationship and your kid is reclusive or even shy talking about girls or any of that kinda stuff with you...that might not be a cool thing to do with him as it could mess him up a bit or reclude futher IMO.
Essentially, no one can really say one way or the other except you as only you can judge that "feel" of your relationship with your son. My advice if it doesn't feel right, which is the impression I get from the way you've presented it and that you're asking advice about it...then I would say don't force it. You can also present it like you and some buddies are going out to a SC (not specifically for him) and now that he is of age...he's welcome to join you if he wants to...then it's his call. If he doesn't want to he can say no and then don't force it on him and leave it be.
My advice is depends on your relationship with your son and if he's shy AND withdrawn or not.
My father (and his best friend) took me to a SC (the Lido in Hull) on my 18th birthday and got me a table dance. Funniest thing though is that a friend and I had already been in one already a year before that (Club 61 in Alymer)... LOL ...but he didn't know that.
I myself when I was a younger teen was very geeky, introverted and shy around girls. However, I wasn't reclusive and I also had a good relationship with my dad...in my teens...we'd be out on a family trip or whatever and would each comment "check out the rack on that girl" or some such other girl watching banter all the time...so going to a SC once legal age with him wasn't really a big deal. Also, after that we'd occassionally drive down to Montreal to see an Expos game and then check out SuperSex (SC) afterwards and a few beers. I can see an issue where some kids could be embarrassed being seen out like that with their parent in a place like that...but I didn't give a shit about that kinda nonsense and it was ok and we would have a good time.
However, I could see that if you don't have that kind of relationship and your kid is reclusive or even shy talking about girls or any of that kinda stuff with you...that might not be a cool thing to do with him as it could mess him up a bit or reclude futher IMO.
Essentially, no one can really say one way or the other except you as only you can judge that "feel" of your relationship with your son. My advice if it doesn't feel right, which is the impression I get from the way you've presented it and that you're asking advice about it...then I would say don't force it. You can also present it like you and some buddies are going out to a SC (not specifically for him) and now that he is of age...he's welcome to join you if he wants to...then it's his call. If he doesn't want to he can say no and then don't force it on him and leave it be.
Oh...and you could always just say "Psst...don't tell yer mother, but me and a few buddies are goin' out for a few beers and maybe pop into a strip club on Saturday...you're legal now, you wanna come along?"
So it's more innocent and not like it's about him. Then leave it up to him and respect his decision if he doesn't want to...
So it's more innocent and not like it's about him. Then leave it up to him and respect his decision if he doesn't want to...
