Hi all, I'm new here, and have a few questions

[Curious_Amateur]

What's up everyone? I'm new to this whole scene. Anyways, I haven't had the pleasure of the companionship of an escort yet...but I have made a couple calls. Here's where there are a couple of problems. I tried to be nice yet as discrete as possible over the phone, yet I seem to get hung up on more often than not, and it's getting discouraging. I am always polite with them, asking them how they are etc....but as soon as I say, "I was wondering, what do you charge for one of your precious hours?" I usually get a pause, and then a click. I don't get it. I don't understand why they hang up?? Only one escort has responded to that question. Now, is my approach wrong??? Can anyone help me out?

Also I was wondering a couple other things...when an escort says she does outcalls, does that mean hotels only...or does she come to your house? And how safe is it to be with an escort?

I'd appreciate any and all advice, thanks,
Curious_Amateur

 

[Cardinal Fang]

Welcome to the board CA.

Don't feel bad. That sort of response is recieved all the time. Make sure that if and when you call an escort that what you are asking them isn't already covered on their website or in their ad. You may be giving them the impression that you are wasting their time. Be that as it may you may run into rude SP now and then. Chalk it up to experience.

When a SP comes to visit you it's considered an outcall. This may or may not occur in a hotel room, your house, back yard, office or Saturn.

 

[midLifeCrisis]

as soon as I say, "I was wondering, what do you charge for one of your precious hours?" I usually get a pause, and then a click. I don't get it. I don't understand why they hang up??

I'm not sure, Curious_Amateur. When you say "what do you charge for one of your precious hours?", are you being patronizing or nasty? It must be one or the other.

And why don't you know the answer already? How did you get the number in the first place? Confirm the amount by all means, but why ask a question if you already know the answer?

 

[Curious_Amateur]

These are ads in the paper I'm replying to, and sometimes they don't list what their rate is, so I have to ask. They don't have a website or anything listed for me to check, otherwise I wouldn't bother calling just to ask their rate.

 

[arctictrav]

always best to indicate that you have seen their ad (where), web site or what ever...let them know you have got as much info as possible already and are looking for the details that will help make your decision to book....

 

[Curious_Amateur]

Yeah, I always tell them I saw their ad in the paper, and I'm inquiring from there.


One more question...do escorts prefer men who are shaved...or do they not care?

 

[Jade4u]

Well for me the reason I would hang up is for me I assume somebody gave the man my number and it did not come directly from me. Hence he has never even seen my web page nor discussed what would be involved in a session with me in an e mail etc... I do only like to give out my number to men I feel comfortable in meeting with any man who will ask me my rates in an e mail will be directed to my web page. To make it shorter he should always see my web page to begin with and then ask me questions there. I myself just hung up on a man 2 days ago and he did call back again and I asked him who gave you my number he did not want to answer so in turn he hung up on me ROFLMAO I bet he will now ask his friend for my web page address and be mailing me himself.

 

[midLifeCrisis]

This seems like a good place to link to Reasons why an SP may not respond to email...

One more question...do escorts prefer men who are shaved...or do they not care?

You can have a quick look at Hey Ladies...Beards...Love `em? Hate `em?, but it`s a lot more important that you be clean, sober and polite.

 

[zydeco]

Sounds like you have already had the benefit of some good advice here - so I'll just add - lose the word "precious" in your initial question!

 

[Curious_Amateur]

LOL....when I was talking about "shaved", I meant down there...hahaha...do they want their clients shaved, or does that not matter?

 

[pineappleguy]

Re: Re: Hi all, I'm new here, and have a few questions

I'm not sure, Curious_Amateur. When you say "what do you charge for one of your precious hours?", are you being patronizing or nasty? It must be one or the other.

CA, while I expect neither of these was your intent, the word "precious", does sound condescending in this context. Try simply asking, "What are your rates?"

 

[Curious_Amateur]

Thank you all for your advice, much appreciated!! =)

 

[George OTJ]

CA, from your initial post I got the impression that you were being too polite (i.e. wimpy) and they may have judged you to be a "time waster" - somewho calls, asks a bunch of 'dumb' questions and never books.

Now, that doesn't mean you should be rude. You should treat the ladies as ladies, but remember that this is a business. It's important to treat the ladies professionally as well as respectfully and honestly.

Don't be over-flattering as it comes across as phoney. Keep in mind this business can be dangerious for the ladies and filtering out the "phoneys" is part of how they keep safe.

Just my humble opinion.