Hidden Proper Etiquette for In-Calls?

[paralingawrani]

Looking to get into my first In-Call. Now, what are proper etiquette upon entering the room? Obviously, introduce yourself, be polite, dont be aggressive, lol. But what are other proper manners that may be unknown to most? If there are any sex workers here, what would you like to see?

Also, can you be turned down for looks? Or is it final when it is booked? I know some escorts turn down some races in their ad, but, if she doesnt like how you look, can she still turn it down?

 

[KDK13]

She'll usually turn you down if you a) are someone she knows when she peeps at you, or b) you're visibly intoxicated, or c) look like a disheveled homeless guy covered in flies with spiders in your hair, etc.

What they care most about is you are respectful and clean. Be pleasant/happy and punctual. Fine to chat a bit on greeting, but then drop the envelope w the donation where she can see it then hop into the shower. Get yourself sparkly clean - particularly the naughty bits and bum - including your breath. Come out with the towel on and let two consenting adults take over. Remember she's a person with her own feelings who will be sharing her body w you...so treat that with big respect. Just remember, the more comfortable she feels with you, the better it will be for you!

 

[paralingawrani]

She'll usually turn you down if you a) are someone she knows when she peeps at you, or b) you're visibly intoxicated, or c) look like a disheveled homeless guy covered in flies with spiders in your hair, etc.

What they care most about is you are respectful and clean. Be pleasant/happy and punctual. Fine to chat a bit on greeting, but then drop the envelope w the donation where she can see it then hop into the shower. Get yourself sparkly clean - particularly the naughty bit and bum - including your breath. Come out with the towel on and let two consenting adults take over. Remember she's a person with her own feelings who will be sharing her body w you...so treat that with big respect. Just remember, the more comfortable she feels with you, the better it will be for you!

Thank you!

So if I look fairly decent, im good? As long as Im clean?

 

[KDK13]

Thank you!

So if I look fairly decent, im good? As long as Im clean?

Yes, you don't have to dress up but a polo shirt and ok jeans good enough. Put yourself in her shoes...you may know you're a decent guy but she doesn't know you from anything. Thus little things that make her feel more comfortable, and that you're respectful and not dangerous helps.

 

[paralingawrani]

Yes, you don't have to dress up but a polo shirt and ok jeans good enough. Put yourself in her shoes...you may know you're a decent guy but she doesn't know you from anything. Thus little things that make her feel more comfortable, and that you're respectful and not dangerous helps.

Thank you so much! One more thing. How does this go normally? I know avoiding e-transfers is a must. But do agencies require a deposit?

 

[Beagle_]

Looking to get into my first In-Call. Now, what are proper etiquette upon entering the room? Obviously, introduce yourself, be polite, dont be aggressive, lol. But what are other proper manners that may be unknown to most? If there are any sex workers here, what would you like to see?

Also, can you be turned down for looks? Or is it final when it is booked? I know some escorts turn down some races in their ad, but, if she doesnt like how you look, can she still turn it down?

Take a good at her pussy, inspect and confirm she doesn’t have a STD. Fuck that shit LOL.

 

[KDK13]

Thank you so much! One more thing. How does this go normally? I know avoiding e-transfers is a must. But do agencies require a deposit?

No they don't require a deposit. Just bring the proper amount of cash, ideally in an unsealed envelope (classier that way, but OK to just leave cash if you can't find an envelope). Giving it to her before your shower allows her to discreetly count it. This removes some stress because - although rare - some guys might run out and not pay. Thus by paying proper upfront it removes a source of possible stress.

 

[paralingawrani]

No they don't require a deposit. Just bring the proper amount of cash, ideally in an unsealed envelope (classier that way, but OK to just leave cash if you can't find an envelope). Giving it to her before your shower allows her to discreetly count it. This removes some stress because - although rare - some guys might run out and not pay. Thus by paying proper upfront it removes a source of possible stress.

Thank you so much for your time! Will definitely get into this expensive hobby. lol

 

[KDK13]

Thank you so much for your time! Will definitely get into this expensive hobby. lol

It's addictive so be careful. Remember these ladies prize your behavior and cleanliness above your looks.
Good luck. And good on you to reach out to make sure you're doing it proper. It will make for a much better experience for you!

 

[Y_Diner]

KDK well said. I’d add, during the deed communication is key. Ask if this is okay or not, before you do something. Try to pick up on her non verbals.

 

[paralingawrani]

KDK well said. I’d add, during the deed communication is key. Ask if this is okay or not, before you do something. Try to pick up on her non verbals.

can we ask for a lap dance? Its always been my fantasies, in a private room. GAH

 

[KDK13]

can we ask for a lap dance? Its always been my fantasies, in a private room. GAH

Sure. Just be polite and don't be persistent if she says no. Some ladies have a stripper past and may enjoy it. Others will not.
These ladies have heard a lot, so this is no where near the most unusual LOL.
Also I agree with Y-diner: communicate, ask before doing anything or poking anything anywhere. She'll appreciate it, trust you more, so she can feel more comfortable giving her best for you.

 

[superman12]

All great points! I would also try to communicate with the sp beforehand if you are able to to and let her know what your expectations are of the session. This will ensure that you two are on the same page and avoids dissapointment if your looking for something in particular but shes not into it. Also as others have mentioned always ask for consent before trying to attempt anything with her even if its just a simple kiss on the lips. I find that a simple "can i kiss you beautiful" at the beginning of the session goes along way to build trust.

 

[redvixen]

Looking to get into my first In-Call. Now, what are proper etiquette upon entering the room? Obviously, introduce yourself, be polite, dont be aggressive, lol. But what are other proper manners that may be unknown to most? If there are any sex workers here, what would you like to see?

Also, can you be turned down for looks? Or is it final when it is booked? I know some escorts turn down some races in their ad, but, if she doesnt like how you look, can she still turn ----down?

*you*

if shes taking you from her home ... she can send you on your merry way @ any time she pleases : )

 

[jerbear15]

Looking to get into my first In-Call. Now, what are proper etiquette upon entering the room? Obviously, introduce yourself, be polite, dont be aggressive, lol. But what are other proper manners that may be unknown to most? If there are any sex workers here, what would you like to see?

Also, can you be turned down for looks? Or is it final when it is booked? I know some escorts turn down some races in their ad, but, if she doesnt like how you look, can she still turn it down?

Who do you plan on seeeing?

 

[paralingawrani]

Who do you plan on seeeing?

A lot. lol. HPL looks really nice. Any other agencies you recommend?

 

[jerbear15]

A lot. lol. HPL looks really nice. Any other agencies you recommend?

Not really I'm not into agencies. I like Indies.

 

[redvixen]

Not really I'm not into agencies. I like Indies.

as in "twins"?

 

[Darts]

Not really I'm not into agencies. I like Indies.

I've done both. One benefit of indies is you get to talk directly to the provider on the phone whereas you only get to talk directly to the phone girl/man at agencies.

One benefit of agencies is you can complain to the owner if the service was not up to par and the reputable agencies will try to make you partially or wholly whole. With indies, the provider is the owner.

 

[redvixen]

I've done both. One benefit of indies is you get to talk directly to the provider on the phone whereas you only get to talk directly to the phone girl/man at agencies.

One benefit of agencies is you can complain to the owner if the service was not up to par and the reputable agencies will try to make you partially or wholly whole. With indies, the provider is the owner.

with humans

"soul" proprietor