Reverie

HIV scare on POF Hamilton/Burlington

Meister

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Holy Crap!!

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member8535258.htm#in

City Hamilton/Burlington/Oakville Ontario
Area Canada
Ethnicity Caucasian
Sign Cancer
Height 5' 4" (163 cm)


Age 39
Gender Woman
Body Type A Few Extra Pounds
Religion Non-Religious
Hair Color Brown
Private Images Yes
Chemistry View | Needs Assessment: N/A



I am Seeking a Man Who is Looking for Intimate Encounter


Smoker? No
Do you drink? Socially
Marital Status Married
Profession None
Smarts N/A
Do you want children? Does not want children
Do you do drugs? No
Do you have children? Prefer Not To Say
Do you have a car? Yes


Interests Finding the men that I had sex with


About Me
I have been recently been diagnosed as HIV Positive. I am trying to find the men that I had unprotected sex with from POF and Lavalife. There were at least 35 men over the last 3 years that I have been with from these two systems. Many of you enjoyed my tight ass, we lubed up those hard Coks of yours and you went to town on me! I never used condoms, and none of you ever complained about it. Some of you it was just straight sex which isnt as risky, however still a concern. Most of you I saw more than once, a few of you at least 20 for awhile. I dont keep phone numbers &/or Email addys of the men I have been with if we are no longer seeing each other. So I can not report to my doctor every one that I was with. Most of you are married and I dont think would appreciate my doctors office calling you and telling you this. I did keep some, or I just remeber profile names of a few I slept with and I am trying to contact as many of you that I can so you can be tested, you NEED to tell your wives boys, and every woman you have been with! Please think about other people and their health and safety, safety of your kids if you are infected...

This is not a joke, If I contact you, get tested right away, and tell everyone that you have had sex with! Please stop asking me what my profile name was I had over 15 profiles over the last few years. I have received threats to myself and my children so I will not give detials of who I am unless I see a pic and know I can trust you.

First Date
If you are HIV positive as well, lets meet! and have fun when we still can!!!

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Jade4u

It's been good to know ya
Lovely 35 men plus 35 wives plus all the men and women that they have seen plus whomever they too have seen etc... :eek: Let's hope this is a hoax. If not let's hope that they all get informed to deal with this issue properly and in a hurry.
 

Meister

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What's odd is that she still wants to go at it with another HIV guy:

"First Date
If you are HIV positive as well, lets meet! and have fun when we still can!!!"
 

stinkynuts

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Well, if you already admit to being HIV positive, there's no way anyone not infected would even consider sleeping with her.
 

Meister

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I think they banned her.

btw, I don't think she needs to be pretty. There are guys who don't care (mostly married guys according to her) as long as they get bbanal or bbfs.
 

xarir

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35 guys in 3 years is one per month. That's not much different that what lots of TERBites do.

If the post is real, then the lady should be congratulated for coming clean and trying to let past mates know. It would have been easy for her to just delete the profile and vanish without telling anyone.
 

Meister

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xarir said:
35 guys in 3 years is one per month. That's not much different that what lots of TERBites do.
You missed that part:

"Most of you I saw more than once, a few of you at least 20 for awhile."
 

Jade4u

It's been good to know ya
Meister said:
I think they banned her.

btw, I don't think she needs to be pretty. There are guys who don't care (mostly married guys according to her) as long as they get bbanal or bbfs.

If they banned her for coming clean and trying to let others know it is either carelessness and inconsideratness on the part of this site and/or discrimination against someone that wishes to still have sex with ones that are in the same situation as them. I would say it is a very immature way of handling this situation. These men have the right to know and she has the right to have sex with those that are the same as her as not to spread it to others that do not have this unfortunate ailment.
 

Grind

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"Many of you enjoyed my tight ass, we lubed up those hard Coks of yours and you went to town on me! I never used condoms, "

This makes me think this is bullshit.
 

jaycam

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Grind said:
"Many of you enjoyed my tight ass, we lubed up those hard Coks of yours and you went to town on me! I never used condoms, "

This makes me think this is bullshit.
Trust me, i did many girls off of Lavalife over the years. Less then 10% asked about condoms. I always felt the choice was mine to wear one. Some of the girls were insulted that I wore one, as if im saying they are dirty.
 

mildandlazy

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Probable hoax

It does sound hoaky. And the user name has disappeared and there is now a new one, HIV+lkn4u.

If it's for real, then her partners now know, which is a good thing.

And if it's a hoax, then its one of millions. Yawn.
 

Jade4u

It's been good to know ya
I hope it is a hoax as it would be tragic for many if it is real. But, if it is real I also wonder about whom it was that gave it to her and if he is a regular user there also and has he hidden this with knowledge?

Either way IF all know now or not it is something that should be left up imho as a safe guard to those with possible knowledge of where this may have originated from. I know it would be hard to track down but maybe the police could. I doubt it but maybe there is a way to get information dating back that far if this information is deep in the system somewhere/somehow. E-mail exchanges, pm exchanges they do say information stays hidden in pc's in locations. None the less if true I feel it is the publics right to know.

IMHO this is something that should be investigated and not destroyed. She said she did not keep records and has changed handles etc... so those in contact with her may need more time to also find this information to get tested. Lots of things on youtube have been investigated and came to good conclusions when police found or put information up themselves. I don't know I just feel it wrong for a site to pull something that could effect many many members health. They should investigate first for credibility. If a hoax then it just makes members aware of risks and to play more safe.
 

Jade4u

It's been good to know ya
Posting before it gets deleted too.

Profile for HIV+lkn4u


City Hamilton/Burlington Ontario
Area Canada
Ethnicity Caucasian
Sign Cancer
Height 5' 4" (163 cm)


Age 39
Gender Woman
Body Type A Few Extra Pounds
Religion Non-Religious
Hair Color Brown
Private Images Yes
Chemistry View | Needs Assessment: N/A



I am Seeking a Man Who is Looking for Intimate Encounter


Smoker? No
Do you drink? Socially
Marital Status Married
Profession
Smarts N/A
Do you want children? Does not want children
Do you do drugs? No
Do you have children? Yes
Do you have a car? Yes


Interests Trying to find the men that I have been with from POF


About Me
I have recently found out- May 2008 that I am HIV Positive. I have been with a few men from this site. I never used condoms. You never complained at the time or requested them. Yes we did some naughty things together. I dont keep the phone numbers or the EMail addys of the men I am no longer seeing. I do remember profile names of some of the men I have been with. Some of you were one night stands, others I saw regularly, some for awhile. If I write you please go get tested right away. Please tell the women you have been sleeping with so that they can go get tested as well. SImple blood test ussually takes about 2 weeks to get results. If positive they will test again. It is the right thing to do which I am trying to do as well. Most of you are married and would not appreciate my Doctors office calling you to tell you this, but in most cases we did not know enough information about each other for that to even happen. No I do not know yet who gave it to me.

Please I have received threats, I will not show you my pic, I had many different profile names so that will not help you. If I sound familiar show me your pic and I will confirm if we were together or not.

My profile keeps getting deleted, I am trying to contact as many men as possible to let them know.



Can anyone locate any mess ups? They do say that a criminal eventually slips up. I do find in the past that Terbites are good at digging out the players.
 

Meister

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Grind said:
"Many of you enjoyed my tight ass, we lubed up those hard Coks of yours and you went to town on me! I never used condoms, "

This makes me think this is bullshit.
She doesn't talk about Coks in the new profile anymore.
 

i_am_good

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Meister said:
She doesn't talk about Coks in the new profile anymore.
I did a user name search on "HIV" on POF and came up with several HIV people looking for partners. A few had pics.

It's like playing Russian roulette.
 

james t kirk

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Your odds of contacting HIV from having sex with a woman are just about 0. Not quite zero, but close.

Be more worried about your 1 in 2 odds of getting cancer.

Or your odds of getting hit by a bus.

Or lightening.
 

y2kmark

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You do what you can ...

james t kirk said:
Your odds of contacting HIV from having sex with a woman are just about 0. Not quite zero, but close.

Be more worried about your 1 in 2 odds of getting cancer.

Or your odds of getting hit by a bus.

Or lightening.
To lessen the odds of all of the above occurances. The odds may be remote, but the consequenses are catostrophic. Any sexual contact with a known HIV positive is just plain dumb, like standing in the road in front of a bus. If the driver can see you and has plenty of room to stop, this will be the outcome 99.99% of the time - but why take the deliberate chance of winding up that 1 in a 10,000?:confused:
 
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