Hobbying not serving its purpose

[I_am_the_man]

I entered this wild and crazy field a few months ago to satisfy my appetite for sexual contact. My wife while extremly desirable sexually is just "not in the mood" to satsify my needs as much as I want. Now when we do do-it, she is awesome. But I am tired of begging and pleading for at least twice a week of "love".

Having an affair is out of the question (women tend to get too attached which presents dangers of their own) so I figured I would take out my sexual frustration on some gorgeous young SP's and at the same time contribute to economic growth and prosperity.

Problem is... since I had started down this somewhat addictive track, I have noticed that it makes me want to bang my wife even more.

Just curious why are the married guys out here doing this and have they had the same problem. Does it make you want to bang your wife more or less?

 

[lasslicker]

A lot of married guys do feel guilty after being patroms of Sps, MPAs and even dancers. This leads them to be over attentive to their wives, and seel further sexual contact there.

Then there's also the theory that we're men, and the more we get, the more we want.

 

[MindJohn]

The beat goes on ----- and the beat goes on

By fucking other women many men realize jsut how hot their own wife/girlfriend really is. Add the feel of a "different" pussy and woman and you might have your answer!

Women seeing this same scenario would certainly tag the male with the dirty dog label (which may well be applicable), but then those women would look in the mirror and determine with great certainty that the other women (the SP's) had all of the appearance and appeal their men desired and that they themselves couldn't measure up in any way.

No woman anywhere would seem as great a companion for sex were there not a giant variety of all others out there in the world from which she came.

Just like the minimal thrill associated with seeing bare boobs would seem like little or nothing at all if all boobs were physically identical.

Women (all humans?) are revered as much for their individuality and uniqueness as they are for having the 'right' body parts by societal measures.

It is just too easy to feature those individual body parts prominently in advertising, while to have a truly unique woman there in a beer ad every time you turn the page is next to impossible.

The original poster gained more desire for his wife's individuality just as soon as he had something to provide the most intimate of contrasts.

SP's he sees represent a human package complete with individual and unique breasts, individual and unique labia, individual and unique responses to sexual stimulation, individual and unique curves of hips, thighs and ass, individual and unique sexual scent. No wonder he's in high gear after having that much contrast by which to appreciate his wife.

 

[I_am_the_man]

I don't know... I just think I am kind of like a heat seeking missle.......