People who go to Timmy's every morning sometimes crave a Starbucks every so often lol.
How do you get a man to not cheat on you ?
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People who go to Timmy's every morning sometimes crave a Starbucks every so often lol.
I'm not sure how serious a question this is. How do you stop someone from cheating? You don't.
Mostly it's part of their personality and usually fuel by circumstance. True example:- Two hundred pound wife that doesn't look after herself. What does she expect. Example two:- Beautiful wife and no reason to cheat but he does because it's there.
People are looking for loyalty above all else these days but in this society of low morals and me first good luck. I'm not married, have been but will never marry again.
Go sit in the corner. I mean really. Give up Timmies for Starbucks even for a morning. What next? McDonalds instead of The Keg?
You have asked the wrong question. So long as it is called "cheating" there will always be a stigma attached to what is a normal complex bio/anthro/human drive for complex reasons regardless of gender. The question to ask is why are humans wired for polygamy yet in a hypocritical way adopt monogamy as an unachievable life style with all of the emotional grief that follows. The answers are long, complex and personal. Banishing the word "cheating" will quickly get you to the answer to the question I have asked.
But not from the man't point of view.
Besides, many women are well aware that their men fuck around and they accept it because he's a husband in every way, and the rest is just sport sex for him.
^^THIS, but it should go both ways and in my experience it doesn't very often. Usually the male partner is fine with another lady being involved (thressome/menage a trois, etc.), but not another man. Hence why I hesitate to tell guys I date what I do. Even if they have been unfaithful (so to speak) to a SO in the past, often what is good for the Gander isn't considered good for the Goose. If this would change there would be true equality.^^
I agree. You can't stop someone from cheating. You can't police them 24/7. The only way to avoid a cheater is to find someone who doesn't want to cheat.
It's not about sex, cooking or cleaning. We can get that from plenty of partners or providers. It's not about love. We can love someone yet still hurt them deeply.
If you ask around, or reflect on your own behaviour, the times when you've not had any desire to cheat AT ALL is probably when you've been deeply, madly, passionately in love.
Why do you think they say its hard to make relationships work? It's not easy to stay in love through the daily grind of life...
Pabby, I immediately thought of you when I read the OP!
By his nature a cat is a cat.........................sooner or later he settles down an snoozes by the fireplace.
Agreed.
A massive majority of men think that it's OK to cheat on their wives (as long as they don't get caught), but a wife cheating on a husband is a fate worse than death. Another old double standard. When women cheat, it's viewed as "something is wrong with the relationship and she's not emotionally fulfilled by her husband" as opposed to she just wanted to fuck a guy with a big cock. When a woman cheats, society believes that the marriage is on its deathbed and most likely unrepairable at that point. When a man cheats, it's viewed as bad behaviour, but the relationship is definitely not unrepairable. It's probably just another guy who can't control his cock and most of us are that way. Then there's the old thing about a woman could get pregnant by another man and no guy wants to raise his wife's bastard child (knowingly or unknowingly (though according to a doctor friend of mine, fully 15 percent of the population have a different father than who they think is their father (medical statistics bear this out))).
As far as myself goes, I'd love it if I had a female partner who fucked other men (as long as she told me about it or better yet, I was there). I'm a bit of a kinky bastard that way. As long as she kept it as sport sex, I'm good with it. (But that's the problem with women too, they can't keep to keep sex in perspective.) I don't feel threatened in the least by other men. I figure, "if you feel that he can give you more than I could, then you're crazy not to go."
cheating is like eating your finger nails or picking your nose. If you do it please don't share. In other words don't hurt me. I see escorts or MPA about twice a week. I also take care of my girl as best I can. She isn't aware of my extras and I'm not aware of hers (if there is at all). The point is we are happy with a great sex life and we simply don't hurt each other.
It will never change. Just as men are hardwired for sex, they're also hardwired for ownership and conquest. Women are a resource that most will never be willing to share.
If my wife was into threesomes with other women then I'd never go see an escort (at least not without my wife).. So that's one idea..
Basically just be the hottest dirtiest fuck he's ever had.. Then don't bother him when he wants to spend time with his friends.. Be those two things (dirty sex queen, and never naggy) and your man will never leave you..
Basically just be the hottest dirtiest fuck he's ever had.. Then don't bother him when he wants to spend time with his friends.. Be those two things (dirty sex queen, and never naggy) and your man will never leave you..
Evolutionary theory is men have lots of sperm so they have a biological urge to spread their semen around to ensure their genes survive
Women can have only limited amount of children so they need to be more selective
But these are theories only and theories change depending on wind direction
Bottom line is all men want to cheat but not all do because they do not want to hurt their wife
Women can have only limited amount of children so they need to be more selective
But these are theories only and theories change depending on wind direction
Bottom line is all men want to cheat but not all do because they do not want to hurt their wife
While this sounds great - I think it's clichéd. I honestly think it comes down to boredom.
If you're eating Filet Mignon every night, you will eventually crave something else like a spinach salad with grilled chicken.
To start with, even the definition of cheating is not clear... Madonna what would you consider your men cheating?
1) Going to strip club getting lap dancing regularly?
2) Going to MP regularly but everything still within mileage limit (meaning HJ and teasing only)?
3) Going to SP regularly or (1) and (2) above but over the limit, meaning having intercourse or BJ etc. ?
4) Going to club and fuck around, one night stands here and there regularly?
5) Have a woman outside regularly having (free) sex, friends with benefit.
6) Have a woman outside regularly having (free) sex and also emotionally attached.
I guess I can add platonic friends but with emotion... but that's even harder to define.
1) Going to strip club getting lap dancing regularly?
2) Going to MP regularly but everything still within mileage limit (meaning HJ and teasing only)?
3) Going to SP regularly or (1) and (2) above but over the limit, meaning having intercourse or BJ etc. ?
4) Going to club and fuck around, one night stands here and there regularly?
5) Have a woman outside regularly having (free) sex, friends with benefit.
6) Have a woman outside regularly having (free) sex and also emotionally attached.
I guess I can add platonic friends but with emotion... but that's even harder to define.
