whats too much?bethy said:can someone give some ideas to do that? I watch too much porn, I want to stop it. I have no gf, i dont have millions, but i have average income. So i rather save my income than hobbying.
Jasmine, you're preaching to the converted.Jasmine Jazz said:i have a client who is quite handsome and i ask him "why do you always call me, you could go to the bar and find a cute girl any time" and he said to me "its simple if i call u, i know how much it will cost me and then i can do anything i want on days i dont see u and i never have to worry about make u angry for that" ! I think thats biggest thing, its guarantee good sexy fun and no mind game, and its 100% clear how much it will cost u! And then the lady leaves and you can have all the sexy fun part of having a girlfriend without all the thing u dont like!
Jasmine Jazz said:actualy girlfriends are more expensive than hobby!
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Jasmine Jazz said:i have a client who is quite handsome and i ask him "why do you always call me, you could go to the bar and find a cute girl any time" and he said to me "its simple if i call u, i know how much it will cost me and then i can do anything i want on days i dont see u and i never have to worry about make u angry for that" ! I think thats biggest thing, its guarantee good sexy fun and no mind game, and its 100% clear how much it will cost u! And then the lady leaves and you can have all the sexy fun part of having a girlfriend without all the thing u dont like!
Nobody chooses porn or SPs over a real relationship because of money. They just rationalize it that way.Jasmine Jazz said:i have a client who is quite handsome and i ask him "why do you always call me, you could go to the bar and find a cute girl any time" and he said to me "its simple if i call u, i know how much it will cost me and then i can do anything i want on days i dont see u and i never have to worry about make u angry for that" ! I think thats biggest thing, its guarantee good sexy fun and no mind game, and its 100% clear how much it will cost u! And then the lady leaves and you can have all the sexy fun part of having a girlfriend without all the thing u dont like!
Some are some aren't.Jasmine Jazz said:actualy girlfriends are more expensive than hobby!
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I guess that depends... If someone is happy just getting laid a couple of times a month, then he knows it will cost him "X" amount of dollars, which he can then budget for. With a gf, there is an initial monetary investment that must be made with no ROI, since you will not get laid right away- (usually). Then there is everything else that one must contend with that are part and parcel of being in a relationship.jazzpig said:Nobody chooses porn or SPs over a real relationship because of money. They just rationalize it that way.
girls are too smart these days; they know they can get much more out of you if they make you think they are gonna fuck you...and perhaps they will fuck you...in time.... but I dont think it would be a good assumption to make that if you pick up a girl and take her to swiss chalet you are gonna get laid for sure...you never know what it will take (because each chick is different)....she might cost you alot... she might not.MLAM said:...I did forget the moronic and socially incompetent.
If this client is "so handsome" why can't he pick up a "cute girl" for some NSA fun? A few drinks to get her liquored up before going back to his place is cheaper than an hour with you.
How come he doesn't know "how much it is going to cost (him)"? When I take someone out I ABSOLUTELY have an idea how much it is going to cost me (not precisely...but I don't have a $100 budget and then spend $200). And...for what it is worth...I don't spend the sort of money it cost to spend an hour with you on someone I am not already fucking...which SHOULD be obvious to a guy who is "so handsome" and (presumably) has some dating experience.
This has nothing to do with your "game"....your "game" cant change the way someone is...I guess you just got lucky with 2 out of your three chicks.MLAM said:Insofar as this...
"then i can do anything i want on days i dont see u and i never have to worry about make u angry for that" ! I think thats biggest thing, its guarantee good sexy fun and no mind game, "
..there is some truth to that...but it only occurs if your "game" is weak. Me...I am dating 3 chicks right now and 2 of them absolutely know their place...they don't get angry when I don't see them, and they know when I do see them, I will show them a good time (I do like to wine and dine my women a little bit...though sometimes we just chill out..) and yes, it is GUARANTEED "good sexy fun" because they aren't stupid manipulative "girls". They are grown women, and they know what the deal is...and besides, they wanna get fucked as well.
Sure you move on...but by the time you get to the realization that you gotta cut em loose...they've already caused you hassle..and nobody wants that.MLAM said:Insofar as the 3rd...yeah, she wants something more monogamous and exclusive...but you know what? A man knows how to manage that...you set expectations, and if someone isn't happy with the way things are...you move on. Best for everybody. When the equation becomes unbalanced...when she becomes more of a pain / nag about the exclusivity thing than she is worth to me (because I do really like her...of the 3 she is the one whose company I enjoy the most...which might be where the "lets get a little serious" vibe is coming from), then she will get dumped.
MLAM said:...I did forget the moronic and socially incompetent.
If this client is "so handsome" why can't he pick up a "cute girl" for some NSA fun? A few drinks to get her liquored up before going back to his place is cheaper than an hour with you.
How come he doesn't know "how much it is going to cost (him)"? When I take someone out I ABSOLUTELY have an idea how much it is going to cost me (not precisely...but I don't have a $100 budget and then spend $200). And...for what it is worth...I don't spend the sort of money it cost to spend an hour with you on someone I am not already fucking...which SHOULD be obvious to a guy who is "so handsome" and (presumably) has some dating experience.
Insofar as this...
"then i can do anything i want on days i dont see u and i never have to worry about make u angry for that" ! I think thats biggest thing, its guarantee good sexy fun and no mind game, "
..there is some truth to that...but it only occurs if your "game" is weak. Me...I am dating 3 chicks right now and 2 of them absolutely know their place...they don't get angry when I don't see them, and they know when I do see them, I will show them a good time (I do like to wine and dine my women a little bit...though sometimes we just chill out..) and yes, it is GUARANTEED "good sexy fun" because they aren't stupid manipulative "girls". They are grown women, and they know what the deal is...and besides, they wanna get fucked as well.
Insofar as the 3rd...yeah, she wants something more monogamous and exclusive...but you know what? A man knows how to manage that...you set expectations, and if someone isn't happy with the way things are...you move on. Best for everybody. When the equation becomes unbalanced...when she becomes more of a pain / nag about the exclusivity thing than she is worth to me (because I do really like her...of the 3 she is the one whose company I enjoy the most...which might be where the "lets get a little serious" vibe is coming from), then she will get dumped.
In summary, I can't see how your math works for anyone except losers...which would be why they are paying for it in the first place I suppose...regardless of how "handsome" they might be...
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