Hygiene double standard
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I've only had a few sps who had bad hygiene and even then it wasn that bad that I couldnt continue. One that sticks out is this eastern European girl who had that sweat/curry smell that some recent Indian immigrant guys have.
One small pet peeve I have though is hair washing. I definitely dont expect them to wash their hair after every client but some smell like they haven't washed it in days. I know some girls dont like to because it affects oils in the hair but if they're only working a few days a week then they really should wash once before they start.
One small pet peeve I have though is hair washing. I definitely dont expect them to wash their hair after every client but some smell like they haven't washed it in days. I know some girls dont like to because it affects oils in the hair but if they're only working a few days a week then they really should wash once before they start.
Most SPs I have seen lack hygiene in their privates - a lot of them also don't shower after I leave as they get fully dressed!
I will say, though, I've found SP hygiene in general to be way better than civvie female hygiene. I've had many more bad hygiene experiences with civvies than with SPs, which is sad cause the number of SPs I've seen completely eclipses the number of civvie women I've been with.
P.S. I'm actually going to throw up at the 'previous client's cum' burp shit. Absolutely gross.
P.S. I'm actually going to throw up at the 'previous client's cum' burp shit. Absolutely gross.
Good post, Duke. Should be lessons for SPs and clients.
I haven't experienced a GTA escort yet, but have been with MPAs several times and each time the lady showered afterward (maybe it's a little different for MPAs than escorts because they get covered with oil during the body slide. But still, I would like to think an agency would make it mandatory that the lady shower after each session (or before, when doing SF2).
As I've gotten older (mid-50s), I'm taking more pride in my appearance and hygiene than I probably did when I was married. Before every session with a lady, I make sure I am clean-shaven, hairless, chest, back, shoulders, genitals). Brush teeth, use mouthwash and chew gum. Deodorant, body lotion and Axe body spray (even though it'll mostly wash away in the pre-session shower).
First impressions and greetings are important to me and I want to be as clean and fresh as possible to set a good tone. I would expect the lady to do likewise. Haven't had any issues yet (I've mongered at Club Hong Kong in Tijuana, Mexico, and for a third-world country with a poor reputation, I have to say every lady I've been with there had impeccable hygiene).
Credit to JW and others for calling out ladies with poor hygiene during or after the session. I don't think I could do that. I'd just go limp, chalk it up to a bad day at the office and never return.
I haven't experienced a GTA escort yet, but have been with MPAs several times and each time the lady showered afterward (maybe it's a little different for MPAs than escorts because they get covered with oil during the body slide. But still, I would like to think an agency would make it mandatory that the lady shower after each session (or before, when doing SF2).
As I've gotten older (mid-50s), I'm taking more pride in my appearance and hygiene than I probably did when I was married. Before every session with a lady, I make sure I am clean-shaven, hairless, chest, back, shoulders, genitals). Brush teeth, use mouthwash and chew gum. Deodorant, body lotion and Axe body spray (even though it'll mostly wash away in the pre-session shower).
First impressions and greetings are important to me and I want to be as clean and fresh as possible to set a good tone. I would expect the lady to do likewise. Haven't had any issues yet (I've mongered at Club Hong Kong in Tijuana, Mexico, and for a third-world country with a poor reputation, I have to say every lady I've been with there had impeccable hygiene).
Credit to JW and others for calling out ladies with poor hygiene during or after the session. I don't think I could do that. I'd just go limp, chalk it up to a bad day at the office and never return.
I was at a photo shoot with a girl once. She bent over to do the doggie shot and the photographer and I could smell it.
I never understood what the smell was when guys would talk. I know what I smell like. I have never in my life smelt anything like this. I had to leave the room. I felt bad for the photographer.
I don't know if there is a double standard. I think male or female you should be washing yourself. Maybe men are less vocal about it. I know plenty of women who put up with it in silence as well.
I'm at the point where I don't feel comfortable having sex without a shower first. I shower in the hour before the client arrives. If it was a civie, which I don't fuck them anymore but if I did, I would want to shower first as well. Like right before having sex. Doesn't matter if I showered that morning. And I don't think I could do morning sex without a shower first. This industry and ruined having sex without an immediate shower before hand for me.
I never understood what the smell was when guys would talk. I know what I smell like. I have never in my life smelt anything like this. I had to leave the room. I felt bad for the photographer.
I don't know if there is a double standard. I think male or female you should be washing yourself. Maybe men are less vocal about it. I know plenty of women who put up with it in silence as well.
I'm at the point where I don't feel comfortable having sex without a shower first. I shower in the hour before the client arrives. If it was a civie, which I don't fuck them anymore but if I did, I would want to shower first as well. Like right before having sex. Doesn't matter if I showered that morning. And I don't think I could do morning sex without a shower first. This industry and ruined having sex without an immediate shower before hand for me.
This reminds me of something happend a while ago. A guy came on here and posted/complained that the lady kept using her kleenex to spit in it. When I saw the lady and asked her about this, she explained that the guy's had some residure under his foreskin. It seemed he never unfolded and washed that area well. It goes both ways for sure.
Preach on! I've also had similar experiences in the past.
Here is a public service announcement for everyone regarding oral hygiene please pick up one of these at your local walmart for 5-10 bucks and start using it.
Your Tongue and the back of your throat breeds the most amount of bacteria in your mouth and is responsible for bad breath. Brushing your teeth alone does not help, nor does using mouth wash. I can't tell you the amount of times I've come across ladies with terrible breath, it literally kills the entire session from the get go and mouth wash does very little to cover it up.
And for the poor ladies who have to deal with men with terrible breath on a daily basis(omg), the only words that come to mind is courageous and heroic. LOL
my 2cents :yo:
Those are no good.
These are the ones to get
https://www.amazon.com/Tongue-Cleaner-W2070-The/dp/B000WM1DZW
Without wanting to start a war. This is why I only see Chinese women. never encountered such problems.
I agree on the fact that a) @autumn96 is spot on - civvies much worse on the hygiene issue compared to the pro's...but usually you're in some affectional relationship w a civvie so you either put up w it or make a joke sbout it (and of course it's free lol), the ebony and asian ladies i've seen pretty flawless, the handful of caucasians about half had an issue though;
b) Jessica is also spot on - I feel ruined for civvies unless there is a shower immediately (or within the hour) of the encounter. I think through the younger days...shower at 8pm, go out, meet someone, maybe get nekkid and go at it at 3am...or wake up w them and go at it again...no shower. Eeks. Some of that was due to not being sure how far she'd let you go...(we didn't get so direct back in the early 80's lol...often the ladies worried about reputations thus to say "let's have sex" was believed to be anathema) thus to stop to shower might be considered presumptuous. Nowadays I'd shower once brought her home, invite her the same, and shower again in am prior to next round.
I don't think I could do morning kissing without my partner and I thoroughly scrubbing our mouths, let alone morning sex without a shower. I also don't know how the FUCK people go to clubs, dance all night long and get drunk and sweaty and shit, then take a stranger back to their place and get it on.
:bolt:
But I guess things like an occasional off smell start to matter less when you're in a committed relationship with someone you really love. It's when it's with strangers, as SPs often are no matter how many times you see them, that levels of stink you'd normally tolerate become absolutely horrifying.
Yeah, a number of times I've gone to stick my face in between an SPs tits and smelled the baby wipe smell. Same with DATY.
First of all, I get that baby wipes are really convenient. But the smell is a little subconsciously unnerving after you've just had sex LOL, and that's just when you're cleaning up. If her tits smell like baby wipes, it means some guy's cum was probably just where you're about to put your face and she didn't shower after!
Yah I agree this is NOT okay!!! After every client (I only see 2-3 for that day when I work) I dont see very many people.. I take my time and find that it works for me. I always have a little shower after everyone I see. I feel SO much better. Not to mention germs get everywhere and Im super OCD. So I love to take a shower or little bath after every call I do.. I feel so much better and I wash my face too (after kissing and a messy BJ its a must!) lol. I don't get why some ladies dont shower or bathe after a session.. I find that so nasty!! Sometimes I even get in the shower with my client (if he wants me to join) if I didnt get the chance to shower before. Its awesome!! I love being fresh and FEELING fresh, theres no better feeling in the world! :applause: Taking those extra 10-20 minutes to rinse off and clean up after a session is SO important. I also feel like it will prevent us from getting sick/spreading germs.. So important. Some ladies who "go hard" and see 10 plus men a day, probably get tired of showering but ITS A MUST!! Or they're in a rush to see the next client.. Some guys will be like are you ready are you ready?! And in my opinion, if I'm 5 minutes late for a session but I was showering and cleaning up.. its worth it! Being fresh and clean is a MUST in this business.
This is what happens in holistics and especially semi-legits where the girls NEVER shower in between clients.
Anyone remember a certain escort from Foreplay?
When I entered the suite I was sure that a dead body had been stowed in the kitchen, and thought about peeking in the cupboards to find out. In the bedroom the smell was actually far worse.
Then as she undressed I realized it was coming from her vagina...
Really? Only if there is a problem down there ,I hate bad hygiene. I always make sure I am clean, breath, underarm and down below. This is the reason I love Asian agencies.. they always do the sf2 before and after. I lose it right away, any bad odour and jr does not cooperate anymore,. She can be hot and and beautiful but bad odor and I am done.
Couldn't agree more. Nothing kills the mood more than bad odor or hygiene. She could be super-model hot and if she smells down there, forget it. That's all she wrote.
And that guy who said pussy is supposed to smell ... not sure what he's been hitting, he needs to wake up and smell the rose petals. Of all the pussies I've fingered, tongued and fucked over the past 35 years, I'd say maybe 5 to 10 percent smelled bad. So it's not that difficult to keep it smelling fresh.
