hygiene!

[sweetiepieexo]

I am not sure if this has been brought up . Why do guys think its ok not to shower.??!
I am totally appalled at the interaction I had.This guy seen me, haggled my prices, I tried to give him a good time but his joy stick smelled so bad I literally almost threw up even though it was covered... Yuck.. I can not even imagine what would happen if I had not showered or made sure I looked good when a client showed up.

The worst part of the encounter was that he had the edacity to ask me for his money back and threaten me with a bad review after I told him about his hygiene.
Also what do guys get out of booking fake appointments or haggling prices? Do you get the same satisfaction knowing that the girl is upset ?


Any advice ? imput ? Comments?


Lets hear your thoughts gents.


How important can hygiene be for both parties?

 

[dirkd101]

Hygiene has been discussed here many times. The gist of it is, some guys get it and some guys don't.

 

[sweetiepieexo]

That did not help at all... lol that's why I said I'm not sure if it has been discussed before and started my own thread...

Hygiene has been discussed here many times. The gist of it is, some guys get it and some guys don't.

 

[franci]

That did not help at all... lol that's why I said I'm not sure if it has been discussed before and started my own thread...

I think his advice to you, in a nice way, was to use the search function. As another lengthy debate on hygiene is not warranted given the current info on the board already available.

 

[sweetiepieexo]

I do not rehash old threads with old drama in it.. I know how to use the search function.. Thanks....

I think his advice to you, in a nice way, was to use the search function. As another lengthy debate on hygiene is not warranted given the current info on the board already available.

 

[dirkd101]

That did not help at all... lol that's why I said I'm not sure if it has been discussed before and started my own thread...

I do not rehash old threads with old drama in it.. I know how to use the search function.. Thanks....

This has been discussed many times and it goes both ways here. Most of us get it, we shower, before we come and when we arrive. Other guys don't get it and think nothing of it and won't shower, even if told to and if they did, they probably wouldn't wash, they would stand there and just piss in your shower.

As this usually degenerates into the argument that this is a two way street and many ladies don't shower between clients, because it dries their skin out and instead use baby wipes. This derails the thread. So, for the percentage of guys who won't shower, you probably have a higher percentage that do, without a problem. So figure out a creative way of getting this done when they won't or refuse service, make it a requirement.


So the advice is...have a rule, that if you don't shower before a session, then no service. Better yet, make a SF2 a part of your service, so that you can make sure that what needs to be washed is washed.

I really don't know what else can be said.

 

[sweetiepieexo]

I understand.

However SF2 is out of my comfort zone... I believe showers are intimate personal time and should only be shared with your SO . Not an sp or a client u don't know.
I am just saying it is extremely disturbing that guys think its ok not to shower.. Obviously it is a two way street and I explained that during this encounter. I posted this thread not only to vent but to see what other people thought.. I searched hygiene and I never actually got a thread that has the actual topic without referring to a sp / review.

It is just completely gross... seriously guys please don't take hygiene for granted. Us ladies want to have a good time too without stressing about this stuff.. lol

This has been discussed many times and it goes both ways here. Most of us get it, we shower, before we come and when we arrive. Other guys don't get it and think nothing of it and won't shower, even if told to and if they did, they probably wouldn't wash, they would stand there and just piss in your shower.

As this usually degenerates into the argument that this is a two way street and many ladies don't shower between clients, because it dries their skin out and instead use baby wipes. This derails the thread. So, for the percentage of guys who won't shower, you probably have a higher percentage that do, without a problem. So figure out a creative way of getting this done when they won't or refuse service, make it a requirement.


So the advice is...have a rule, that if you don't shower before a session, then no service. Better yet, make a SF2 a part of your service, so that you can make sure that what needs to be washed is washed.

I really don't know what else can be said.

 

[Mr Deeds]

There are alot of SPs that insist their clients shower before a session. I always shower at home before I see a lady but Ive had a few who insist I shower again when I get to the incall.So if the guy refuses then give him his money back and send him packing

 

[SuperCharge]

Been discussed here many times. Search function works great, when u use it.

 

[oldjones]

There are alot of SPs that insist their clients shower before a session. I always shower at home before I see a lady but Ive had a few who insist I shower again when I get to the incall.So if the guy refuses then give him his money back and send him packing

Yup. Of course we should all be clean, and exceptionally well washed where we intend to play. But some guys are not, and only the SP can do the policing. Those guys have had a lifetime of practice at ignoring good advice, instructions and rules. If they read at all, it itsn't likely they'll read a thread on hygiene.

There is more than one reason why Asian providers have long-offered the shower for two.

 

[sweetiepieexo]

You obviously did not read the whole thread. I said I have used it and nothing actually comes up except for reviews of girls with poor hygiene. I also stated I do not post in old threads because I do not like to rehash old drama. I don't understand if you have nothing helpful to contribute to the thread why bother replying to it?

Been discussed here many times. Search function works great, when u use it.

 

[TFZL1]

Well, in your op, you said he haggled prices before you found out he smelled. Haggling should have been the first clue he might be a bad client. And then you saw him without making him shower?
I always go out clean to see a lady. If she wants me to shower I do.
This doesn't seem difficult to me. But just so you know, it works both ways. I've seen some Lady's who need a shower. I've even had to tell a couple regulars to go wash up. So, I don't get it either. Maybe some people are just so wrapped up in themselves that they lose all consideration for others. There have been some low points in my life when personal hygiene just wasn't near the top of the list. We all have struggles.
Today is Friday. I don't have any plans for late tonite. But just in case, I'm going to be shaved, showered, trimmed and fresh clean clothes. Just in Case.

 

[malata]

And then you saw him without making him shower?

or perhaps they into Golden Showers and have fetish over smelly fish. Just tell them you're not into smelly fish and to have their ass sauteed in Old Spice.

 

[SchlongConery]

There are alot of SPs that insist their clients shower before a session. I always shower at home before I see a lady but Ive had a few who insist I shower again when I get to the incall.So if the guy refuses then give him his money back and send him packing

This is really what it comes down to.

 

[spraggamuffin]

Surprised more providers don't offer a shower with happy ending service.
I quite like a soapy erotic massage with lots of bubbles.

 

[kherg007]

Ya just had this conversation with a lady....I think a lot of clients don't understand that the shower is for the lady, not for you. She doesn't know you from jack squat so do what you must to help put her mind at ease. I've done that where I've showered in hotel, then walked 10 minutes to the incall condo, and showered again just to give the lady confidence. And I don't debate it. In fact, visiting a lady who once who gave me a 'you don't have to if you don't want to" actually sort of disturbed me a bit. I think my problem now is having civilian sex, where in some instances you don't stop to shower first....now that is uncomfortable lol....

 

[lenny2]

I don't like to shower, so might shower only once a week.

But i like to smell good for the SP & myself.

Alternately, some baby powder or perfume might do the trick.

With seeing street SP's in Canada & Singapore i've found showering generally unnecessary, as they normally didn't require it for me or themselves. Sometimes in BC there was a request to wash my penis in the sink.

If the date only involves mouth to mouth (or tongue to tongue) kissing there is no need to shower or even undress. Though listerine or gum could help ;

 

[sweetiepieexo]

THANK YOU.! Finally a reasonable response to what I was saying. I have no problems with clients using my shower. I told him to shower he refused, instead he got offended and left after I told him he kind of had an odour. I was as respectful as a person can be. This thread is not to get at me it is about hygiene.. Obviously I am re-hashing some old feelings here and this is not what I intended to do.

Ya just had this conversation with a lady....I think a lot of clients don't understand that the shower is for the lady, not for you. She doesn't know you from jack squat so do what you must to help put her mind at ease. I've done that where I've showered in hotel, then walked 10 minutes to the incall condo, and showered again just to give the lady confidence. And I don't debate it. In fact, visiting a lady who once who gave me a 'you don't have to if you don't want to" actually sort of disturbed me a bit. I think my problem now is having civilian sex, where in some instances you don't stop to shower first....now that is uncomfortable lol....

 

[sweetiepieexo]

sometimes its better to give the benefit of the doubt to people. it was early morning thought he was just having a rough day. And he was another girl stood him up. That's what caught my attention when he was with me

Well, in your op, you said he haggled prices before you found out he smelled. Haggling should have been the first clue he might be a bad client. And then you saw him without making him shower?
I always go out clean to see a lady. If she wants me to shower I do.
This doesn't seem difficult to me. But just so you know, it works both ways. I've seen some Lady's who need a shower. I've even had to tell a couple regulars to go wash up. So, I don't get it either. Maybe some people are just so wrapped up in themselves that they lose all consideration for others. There have been some low points in my life when personal hygiene just wasn't near the top of the list. We all have struggles.
Today is Friday. I don't have any plans for late tonite. But just in case, I'm going to be shaved, showered, trimmed and fresh clean clothes. Just in Case.

 

[lenny2]

I'd personally be more concerned if the client had recently brushed his teeth, as this can cause bleeding & the transference of bodily fluids.